barbiesocialite
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I think this is more common than some would like to admit. Even amongst bio parents........
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I think this is more common than some would like to admit. Even amongst bio parents........
tinkat
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I concur. I dealt with it with my stepmother. And here is the kicker, I wasn't around that much. Smh. I think it's silly and part of the reason why I'm cautious about walking down the alter unless it's for keeps. Don't want my child to have to worry about having two sets of parents. I think about some of the things she pulled and smh.
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barbiesocialite
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"Most things I like---there are some things I don't like. you are worth adapting to." ---HIM
I really like him. He really likes me.
ugh.
took me a year and a half to figure that out
I really like him. He really likes me.
ugh.
took me a year and a half to figure that out
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barbiesocialite
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a 5 hour f*cking conversation. Half talking, half arguing 
growing pains or impending doom?
idk, I still really like him......
growing pains or impending doom?
idk, I still really like him......
He was very annoying at times during this holiday. So so annoying. I know I'm very difficult and picky but goodness me! Anyways, we had a nice weekend doing various different things and we talked out some important things. Despite this, is it wrong that I'm happy to go home, sleep in my own bed, control the temp the way I like it, and have my own comforts? Are these natural feelings?
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tinkat
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Yes they are! As much as I didn't want my baby to go when he was with me for two weeks, I am very content with being in my own space.
Je Ne Sais Quoi
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What's good for the goose.....
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Lucie
Dancin' on sunshine!
I had a great New Year. He picked me up and took me to Ulta. He got me a gift certificate and seemed to really be interested in my lip gloss obsession. He said he wants to know all of my likes no matter how girly. I was mindful that he is a man and only spent 25 minutes in there.
After we went to Mi Tierrita and we enjoyed our lunch. After we went thrifting and he got me four pair of cute pants. I made him look at my crotch because it's hard to spot holes when you try stuff on. He loves my silliness. I did my basketball dance moves while trying 'em on and he seemed smitten. I love being silly with him.
After that he bought us movie tickets and since we had an hour to kill, we went to Starbucks and worked on our goals for 2013. This weekend we are going to look into some martial arts schools for him and kizomba classes for us.
HE. IS. SO. NICE! southerncitygirl, I wanted to grin the whole time you spoke to him even though I acted cool like a cucumber on the outside. LOL!
After we went to Mi Tierrita and we enjoyed our lunch. After we went thrifting and he got me four pair of cute pants. I made him look at my crotch because it's hard to spot holes when you try stuff on. He loves my silliness. I did my basketball dance moves while trying 'em on and he seemed smitten. I love being silly with him.
After that he bought us movie tickets and since we had an hour to kill, we went to Starbucks and worked on our goals for 2013. This weekend we are going to look into some martial arts schools for him and kizomba classes for us.
HE. IS. SO. NICE! southerncitygirl, I wanted to grin the whole time you spoke to him even though I acted cool like a cucumber on the outside. LOL!
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hopeful
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And they will until they think you are too old to have children. Just ignore them. Plus it's really no one's business but you and your SO's. I have never understood why some people are so concerned about other people's personal choices.
barbiesocialite
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awww. Last night after leaving work he stopped by to drop off my charger and he bought me a pretty box of chocolates w/it. that was sweet of him. I lit up, that really made me smile. 
The conversation was nice too.....
I'm not always the most outwardly affectionate and can seem demanding at times but I'm such a sentimental girl at heart. It's sorta like my little secret. Thoughtful little gestures mean a lot more to me than grand gestures, always have. I lose expensive jewelry, rarely remember vacations, crash cars and forget about most misc material gifts but I still have the poems is written by my first love, the last stuffed animal my father gave me and I even still have a rose from the first flowers a man ever gave to me.
Everything isn't perfect and I don't know if this is going to work out but I know him and his style to know this isn't his norm so I appreciate the effort enough I think I'm going to save the bow on the box......
Now that I've gotten that off my chest, I'm still annoyed about the other recent shenanigans.
dis ninja. he still isnt getting none any time soon
The conversation was nice too.....I'm not always the most outwardly affectionate and can seem demanding at times but I'm such a sentimental girl at heart. It's sorta like my little secret. Thoughtful little gestures mean a lot more to me than grand gestures, always have. I lose expensive jewelry, rarely remember vacations, crash cars and forget about most misc material gifts but I still have the poems is written by my first love, the last stuffed animal my father gave me and I even still have a rose from the first flowers a man ever gave to me.
Everything isn't perfect and I don't know if this is going to work out but I know him and his style to know this isn't his norm so I appreciate the effort enough I think I'm going to save the bow on the box......
Now that I've gotten that off my chest, I'm still annoyed about the other recent shenanigans.
dis ninja. he still isnt getting none any time soon 
MzLady78
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Aww barbiesocialite,
That 2nd paragraph kind of reminded me of when the Grinch's heart grew 3 sizes.
That 2nd paragraph kind of reminded me of when the Grinch's heart grew 3 sizes.
barbiesocialite
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Aww @barbiesocialite,
That 2nd paragraph kind of reminded me of when the Grinch's heart grew 3 sizes.
oh hush
It's not my fault tho lol people don't like it when I'm nice to them, they tend to act a fool.
Gotta keep the sappiness under wraps. lol Don't need anyone banking on nice soft spot. Things seem to go better when folks are more concerned avoiding the wrath of crazy that is my bad side.
MzLady78
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oh hush
It's not my fault tho lol people don't like it when I'm nice to them, they tend to act a fool.
You know I'm just messing with you. But I'm sure this is true, though. I could probably stand to display my crazy a little more.
AHeadOfCoils
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This fool did not text me on NY and that's a no no in my book. He hit me yesterday and I acted like I had no idea who he was. *shrugs*. "Who?... Don't know you. Bye!"
Briabiggles
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Ha! One of my guys didn't message me until 10am on NY day and I thought that was late! How hard is it to send a quick text, really?! Ugh.
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Marley4920
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Alot of txts were not sent timely due to the traffic & congestion at the cell network. Some are never delivered. I sent a txt to my Dad around midnight & he got it the nxt evening. This more or less happens every year.
Silly reason to cut someone off but whatevs...
Briabiggles
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You obviously didn't read the rest of the thread so I'll ignore your snarky comment.
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Marley4920
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You're right I didnt read & probably still wont. I wasn't trying to be snarky... I don't care that much. Just sharing info cause a similar thing happend to me.
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