2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

He's planning a trip for us for Columbus Day. He didn't say where yet. That must be why he overnighted his passport form and pics. Hmm........... That sneaky devil! :grin:
 
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Im going to go find SO and get a hug... I just posted in the have you ever been in an abusive relationship thread and OT. I don't mind sharing because I feel like you never know who's reading and if I can help someone get out of their situation its the least I can do because someone did the same for me. Im always just left feeling kind of way... I just need his hug, its the safety of his arms that will set me back right again
 
Didn't see SO yesterday. Had some great ME time with my bed. Today, we're on our way out for a day of shopping-me, him, and the little boy.
 
Each person moves at their own pace right? a couple of weeks ago, SO mentioned love. We had a long and frank conversation where I told him I don't think I love him....yet. It's possible for me to love him one day but I'm just not there right now. He thinks he is there already. I'm not even sure I know what love is and what I perceive to be love. Dazed and confused.

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We had a similar talk today and I realized I never said it where it flowed out of my mouth comfortably...still makes me very uncomfortable. I can say it with "too" at the end or ask "do you" but can't just say it...
 
Helping Baby Girl 2 build a mouse trap car that will go at least 5 meters....Baby Girl 1 is on the couch passed out from Beef Patties and CC bread (no help at all), and DH is watching yt videos trying to figure it out.

Family!
 
Seeing my cute co-worker's pics just made me want him even more lol, he's the free spirited type apparently. I'm starting to think he must have a gf though, it must be, who else took all those pics of him otherwise? The good news is that there's a friend of his who works in my department, he's the one who directed her to this job...all of this feels so junior high schoolish, why can't I just talk to him?!

There's also another guy, he works at a restaurant I usually go to for lunch, he's very easygoing and we have the same taste in music. My sister hinted that he may have a thing for me since we get along so great, after I disagreed, she took her words back lol. Anyway, let's see how all of this develops.
 
I think I just agreed to go out with someone kinda hood...oops. But a free meal is a free meal I guess. I'm with it.
 
I had a lil scare here recently.

was worried we created something on our vacay that we aren't ready to handle. :look:
I thought Wed my girlfriend was here, had a spot and cramping...then nothing.
I then told him, what was up. He said, you should be good that went every where but in there,
(I was too tipsy to remember :look: ) Sure enough she came on Friday, never been so happy yo see her!!

Our next vacay is gonna be to Reno (got a package deal from my job) I told him we have to go either soon or next year, not tryna be snowed in......only one thing to do then....:look:
 
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Just finished cooking Sunday dinner for my two favorite guys. Crock pot beef roast with carrots, green beans, and onions. He did the mashed potatoes from scratch. Also having black eyed peas, sweet corn, and corn bread muffins. Love these two guys to pieces. <3
 
deltadreamland said:
Just finished cooking Sunday dinner for my two favorite guys. Crock pot beef roast with carrots, green beans, and onions. He did the mashed potatoes from scratch. Also having black eyed peas, sweet corn, and corn bread muffins. Love these two guys to pieces. <3
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I'll be over in a few minutes! That sounds delish :lick:.
 
Spent the whole day in with twin. I just enjoyed him being here, even for a short time. He came at the last minute which I wasn't expecting. Missing him already.
 
We went to a dinner party with two other couples. I always feel weird after hanging out with other couples. Like, are we like them? Whether that be a good or bad thing...
 
I broke into his apartment this weekend while he was out of town to leave a "new office survival kit."

When he found it he texted me "You broke into my house! I can't stop smiling."

I've been over there alone before but only when he's asked me too and I'm always saying that I like to keep the barrier between our living spaces clear--which, I still do, but this was different :look: He wasn't expecting me so as I walked in I was thinking "Please don't let me no see no bullisht :look:" Also, I knew there was a chance he could get annoyed or find it intrusive. My response to that would have been "you tell me to make myself comfortable! :mad:" He's said before that sometimes it feels like we're still just dating instead of "all in" a relationship because I don't seem comfortable at his place. So, hello. *lets myself in* :look:

The only thing out of the ordinary was the Charlie Wilson music that was playing. He's only 29. Charlie Wilson? Get your life. :look:
 
^ This story is cute and I can totally relate. I feel the same way with SO. I remember one time I was upset with him and gave him back his house key. When we made up, he secretly put the key back on my key chain. I was grinning for DAYS!

For his birthday, I think I'm giving him a copy of my keys :) Knowing him I'm SURE he's wondering howcome *I* got keys but he don't? LOLOL
 
DanitheBee said:
Dating for 3 wks..

Me: wyd
Him: abt to eat some cereal and then take a shower, wanna join me? lol
Me: Sure lemme come scrub you with a brillo pad
Him: omg black woman dont you have a romantic bone in your body?

I haven't responded.Romantic???? how did you want me to respond? say oh yes lets take a shower together? that would have only led into sex talk. that wasn't romantic that was sexual. gtfoh
I am not contacting him till he apologizes and if not then oh well on to the next. *the pluses of dating multiples.* :)
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My instinct would have been to laugh my head off at his indignation and politely set him straight, like LOL I absolutely do, just not for men I've been dating for just 3 weeks :)

Then your views would be clear. I don't think they are now by your initial response nor by keeping silent... Just my opinion.
 
I am flying back from San Francisco today. This stay was much different than I expected.
I ended up hanging out with the Californian for several hours 2 of the 4 days I was in town. It's so interesting that I was crazy skeptical about him and his enthusiasm about me visiting, and things turned out so well. He said a few times that he was really excited I was visiting and that he would show me around and we would do all this stuff, and my reaction was: why is this boy acting like I'm visiting him?:look: I'm here to hang out with my BFF and do some networking.
He also offered me to sleep at his place, and every time I gave a vague answer. I thought he had ulterior motives, even though he said it would be easier to stay in the city to do sight-seeing. I never accepted the offer, but he was right about the commute from Berkeley.

Anyway, he drove me around town for hours on his motorcycle (my first time riding!) and actively sought off-the-beaten path areas to show me. He went to his apartment that first afternoon, met his roommates, he cooked dinner, we relaxed a bit and then went to check out music. The second day, he joined me and some friends from Boston for a free concert, we went to Chinatown for food and a festival, went to see new sights, and ended up at a delicious ice cream place. To finish, we drove to a spot where we had an amazing view of the entire city and watched the sunset. It was so beautiful!!

I didn't think things would go so well... presumably because I've thought him to be somewhat self-centered, but I guess my thoughts on that were colored by times when he had high stress. I also thought he might be less friendly if I reprimanded him for being touchy feely, but that didn't happen. We just kept hanging out in a fairly platonic way.

Anyway, it was great and I was pleasantly surprised. The last time we hung out, he bought a gift for me to bring back to our mutual friends (my roommates and his former roommates). He helped make the weekend a great one!
 
DanitheBee said:
Dating for 3 wks..

Me: wyd
Him: abt to eat some cereal and then take a shower, wanna join me? lol
Me: Sure lemme come scrub you with a brillo pad
Him: omg black woman dont you have a romantic bone in your body?

I haven't responded.Romantic???? how did you want me to respond? say oh yes lets take a shower together? that would have only led into sex talk. that wasn't romantic that was sexual. gtfoh
I am not contacting him till he apologizes and if not then oh well on to the next. *the pluses of dating multiples.* :)
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Stop self sabotaging things.
 
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