2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

mochalocks said:
I'm in my late 20's, and he's in his early 30's. You're right, it is creepy.

I'll leave him be, and keep it moving on with my life.
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late 20s and he's treating you like you're some 50 year old woman with dried up eggs? Not enough that those of usin late 20s sigh at the thought of 30 coming around then to have the person youre with make matters worse with "jokes". gtfo

Im upset! :lol:
 
FelaShrine said:
late 20s and he's treating you like you're some 50 year old woman with dried up eggs? Not enough that those of usin late 20s sigh at the thought of 30 coming around then to have the person youre with make matters worse with "jokes". gtfo

Im upset! :lol:
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I thought I was being too emotional about being mad at this, but my friend said she'd be mad too. that joke is some b.s.
 
@ Aheadofcoils...

I KNOW how you feel! I've had emotions that followed not one iota of logic upset me to tears and then ended a friendship over it! So yeah, I get it.
 
I have put on some weight since the summer, due to eating out more because of my workload and my classes. So I have decided to start working on my diet by eating more salads and fish.

Well yesterday, my SO asked what I had for lunch. I told him a salad, he grimanced and said, Chucky Monkey, I know your thick a** is not trying to lose weight. I gave him my usual blank stare. And the negro started looking confused like did I say something wrong. I said, I think there is a compliment in your last statement but I really have to work my brain to see it. He said, sorry babe I love your thickness and think you are perfect just as you are today. I said, it would have been better to say that than your other comment, by the way don't fill out any job applications at Hallmark cause you suck at compliments sometimes. He fell out laughing.
 
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.

All of a sudden, the weak guy is getting on my damn neves. Every time he called and texted me yesterday, I found myself extremely annoyed.
 
I'm so over this! We can't have a normal conversation without him being a jerk. So he mumbles some smart comment under his breath, I asked what he said, he says nothing. I tell him he always does that crap... Don't mumble something sarcastic and then punk out when I call you on it. He then goes on to ask me to spell sarcastic... I'm like huh? He said, a lot of times people use words that they don't know how to spell or the meaning of... Who doesn't know the meaning/spelling of sarcastic??? Then he says, I bet you don't know how to spell facetious???? He can't be serious, I told him he was irritating me and got off the phone. Who does that???? Maybe he thought insulting my intelligence was a good way to change to focus of the conversation... And this fool wants me to give him through the holidays to prove himself... Why? A nice gift will not overshadow who you are!!!
 
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see this is why I am the way I am. I'm not fond of relationships and am on the fence about children.

I am everybody's my mama.

I'm my grandmother's mama. My mother's mama. My friends' mama. My SOs mama.

These folks think they are doing me a favor bc they take care of physical and financial needs. Please. Ya'll being the daddy. Easy arse job.


When I say I'm truly female and truly feminine I mean it. *beep beep*

I carry all of ya'll (loved ones) emotionally. It's my nature be nurturing and support and supply emotional reinforcement. Tooting my own horn but my arse has pushed half of ya'll to make the money you do or to be able to live and achieve the life that you do. sometimes it's exhausting. Again, I can't help it. I make my own bed, now I'm laying in it.....

I'm so scared and I abandon ship sometimes bc I'm busy emotionally providing for all and myself. Paying biils and taking care of the external don't mean ****. Who's the person that supports you getting there......pushing you fools to greatness is pushing myself 6-feet-under.


Now I gotta push homegirl graduate from a school I probably wouldn't be able to get into. I love her. I'm going to do it. Now I'm upset and happy at the same time. And it's one more reason I'm happy I broke up with yo.......
 
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I got this earlier and have been blushing like crazy. It just brightened up my day, especially since I know he really means it!
 
I was blinded by the words, so I didn't even say anything to him about not using periods and commas. It's all good boo. :lol:
 
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All4Tris said:
I'm so over this! We can't have a normal conversation without him being a jerk. So he mumbles some smart comment under his breath, I asked what he said, he says nothing. I tell him he always does that crap... Don't mumble something sarcastic and then punk out when I call you on it. He then goes on to ask me to spell sarcastic... I'm like huh? He said, a lot of times people use words that they don't know how to spell or the meaning of... Who doesn't know the meaning/spelling of sarcastic??? Then he says, I bet you don't know how to spell facetious???? He can't be serious, I told him he was irritating me and got off the phone. Who does that???? Maybe he thought insulting my intelligence was a good way to change to focus of the conversation... And this fool wants me to give him through the holidays to prove himself... Why? A nice gift will not overshadow who you are!!!
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Whoa! You're more patient than I am, that's for sure.
 
So, my guy was supposed to be studying for finals last night. Instead, he comes over with wine and beer. We just hang out watching TV and cuddling. I fed him the super yummy left overs I had in the fridge and he almost died at how good it was. :lol: I love low key evenings with him. :yep: It just feels right.
 
I love it when a person hurts my feelings and is the one acting up. How self-righteous can you be? Unfortunately, I ran out of ***'s to give.

My stalker only "liked" one picture and did not call me ALL DAY! YAY! Progress!

I am getting a DSW gift card from an OLD male friend. How nice of him.

The Haitian Cancerian is so sweet. I mean really, really, really sweet.

The Jamaican Cancerian is sooooooooooo perverted but he did buy me Bulla Cake. :)
 
:look: Why does this guy keep texting me? I haven't responded and 6 msgs later he's still texting me talmbout "how is your day? :)"
 
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