2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

So, are you going to keep on stalking me. Wednesday, you told me via FB that you had a huge crush on me since I was a teenager. You told me you'd call me at exactly 5:30 but you called at 5:34. Nice. I thought, a guy that keeps his word is just what I like.

Thursday, you called me and we had a nice conversation until you told me that I look like your mom and that you love her very much. Cool. But then you said you could love me as much as her or more in time and we could probably go onto getting married and having our first child. BARF! BARF!

Friday you called me, I answered to be polite and got off the phone in 5 nanoseconds.

Saturday you called me 8 times.

Yesterday, you called me 8 times and 2 from UNKNOWN numbers. SO TEN TIMES TOTAL! And you FBed me. And you e-mailed me.

I got on FB just now to update my status and you IMed me. *HUGE FRuSTRATED EXHALE*

You make me nauseous. I regret going on FB that day. I should have read a book instead!

If this continues I will have to get the authorities involved.
 
Wondering if I should tell SO about my idea of becoming a findomme. :look: Worst case scenario, he'd say I was cheating and break up with me.
 
I feel sexy today in my leather pencil skirt. I'm sure that hater at work will have something stupid to say under her breath. :rolleyes: Oh well; some WW hate not being on a pedestal.
 
Lucie said:
NappyNelle, no pics? LOL! I am dying for a pencil skirt. Now a leather one?! Hmm, hmm, hmm! LOL @ the hater. I know that's right!
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Lucie I lost my camera! :sad: I got this skirt at a thrift store in Queens for $5. It's real leather, buttery smooth, very comfortable and fits perfectly.

Annnd this hater was telling other coworkers that I haven't repeated an outfit since we started in October. Are you really clocking my outfits like that? I don't even watch my outfits like that. :spinning: Then she said I overdress for work like I'm trying to get a man. Chile, I wear what I want! Are you mad that I don't wear leggings everyday? And why complain about this around people that tell me way too much information every time I see them? The whole thing is beyond dumb.
 
Lucie said:
So, are you going to keep on stalking me. Wednesday, you told me via FB that you had a huge crush on me since I was a teenager. You told me you'd call me at exactly 5:30 but you called at 5:34. Nice. I thought, a guy that keeps his word is just what I like.

Thursday, you called me and we had a nice conversation until you told me that I look like your mom and that you love her very much. Cool. But then you said you could love me as much as her or more in time and we could probably go onto getting married and having our first child. BARF! BARF!

Friday you called me, I answered to be polite and got off the phone in 5 nanoseconds.

Saturday you called me 8 times.

Yesterday, you called me 8 times and 2 from UNKNOWN numbers. SO TEN TIMES TOTAL! And you FBed me. And you e-mailed me.

I got on FB just now to update my status and you IMed me. *HUGE FRuSTRATED EXHALE*

You make me nauseous. I regret going on FB that day. I should have read a book instead!

If this continues I will have to get the authorities involved.
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Dude sounds off. Can you block his number?
 
ArrrBeee said:
Dude sounds off. Can you block his number?
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I lied and told him my ex and I got back together earlier this morning. He just called me twice 10 minutes ago. I can block his cell but if he keeps calling me private, I cannot. :( This sucks!
 
He cancelled his trip with the guys this upcoming weekend to a huge Falcons game, just so he could attend my family's Christmas party. Love him!



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So he's back.
He brought me gifts.
I'm happy. Sort of.

ETA:
He's nosy, geez go get some business. I've just been baking cupcakes and watching TV since you've been gone :look:
 
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Dear SO,

I am done talking to you today, most likely for the rest of the week, and there's a strong possibilty for the rest of the year. Yep... I'm that pissed.

daydreem
 
LOLLucie that is some high school crap. I remember those days.

10:21 pm : 0789767839 Missed
10:24 pm: 0789767839 Missed
10:27 pm: 0789767839 Missed
......

10:34 pm: ***Private***:look:

I know it's you lol:lol:

I think you can block private numbers on the android apps.
 
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He was looking at me like the sun shone out of my *** over a year ago on our second meeting, but I couldn't relate :look: Its great that I have nearly caught up with him in terms of strength of feeling. Feeling extremely close atm. Time will tell if I can give myself fully in an emotional sense to a man. This is the closest I've got. Can't see myself letting go of all control until after marriage and that's not a bad thing.

Lifelong believer in the "men should love women more" path in life.
 
Instead of movies, he opted for pool. When asked why he cancelled the movie, he said pool was more interactive. That was thoughtful. I had fun!

He's not perfect. But the way he feels about me, what I represent, who I am is very clear. He's improved and has grown so much! I can't wait to witness more.
 
5 months of "dating" and it's still the same. I'm moving on. It's bad enough he shot himself in the foot too many times already.(figure of speech)

I know he likes to joke around and say silly things, but I don't think it's a good idea for you to say that you're just going to get you a young girl fresh out of college to have your kid, and that you don't care about marriage to someone you're trying to court.

But then maybe I'm reading too much into things.

Excuse the typos but i'm on my iPod touch
 
mochalocks said:
5 months of "dating" and it's still the same. I'm moving on. It's bad enough he shot himself in the foot too many times already.(figure of speech)

I know he likes to joke around and say silly things, but I don't think it's a good idea for you to say that you're just going to get you a young girl fresh out of college to have your kid, and that you don't care about marriage to someone you're trying to court.

But then maybe I'm reading too much into things.

Excuse the typos but i'm on my iPod touch
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Parts of jokes are true...if your alarm is going off I'd think Why...
 
That's too bad :(
While I haven't heard jokes about stuff like that, I don't know that THAT alone would make me leave especially when I joke around too.
Does he know that his jokes aren't "jokes" to you?
 
Fine 4s said:
That's too bad :(
While I haven't heard jokes about stuff like that, I don't know that THAT alone would make me leave especially when I joke around too.
Does he know that his jokes aren't "jokes" to you?
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He knows that I don't joke around like that. It's bad enough his father was a rolling stone when he was younger.- and he has mentioned his father gives him advice all the time so he knows what they're talking about.

Excuse the typos but i'm on my iPod touch
 
Softerlove said:
Parts of jokes are true...if your alarm is going off I'd think Why...
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Right. I'll see what happens. It's a lot of other things too, but whatever happens, happens.

Excuse the typos but i'm on my iPod touch
 
I'm so happy twin is here. It's not easy doing the long distance thing, especially at the start of a relationship. We have our ups and downs but it's worth it, plus I'm really have been seeing the different sides of him these past 5 months. We made homemade guacamole and wraps with kale, onions, mushrooms, guacamole, veggie burger (sliced) and mustard. He did most of the cooking though :lol:.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 

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We met in Jamaica for our respective family vacations. He's from New York and I'm from California. He followed me around the resort until he convinced my mom to let me play with him. We played for 4 days and our mothers became the best of friends. We traveled to visit one another for 10-15 years. We've had "secret" crushes on each other this entire time.

Fast forward to two months ago. I was wondering where he ran off to (I hadn't heard from him in over a month). My mother springs on me that he got married to his kid's mother and joined the Navy. :ohwell: That's definitely not like him. He always wanted to be in the entertainment industry.

Last week, he requested me on FB. He tells me that he's coming out here for xmas/his friend's wedding and wants to stop by to see my mother and chill with me... He NEVER mentioned HIS marriage... I told him that I heard that he got married... He said "Yeah, I had to so she could be okay if anything happened to me in the Navy".... :nono: I don't know why, but I got/am really emotional about it all. We NEVER kissed, had sex or anything of the sort. Like I'm tearing up typing this... It's weird!!!! In the beginning of this year he expressed his love for me over the past 15 years and I brushed him off.

I don't know WTF is wrong with me. I'm not an emotional person AT ALL, but that really tugged at my heartstrings.

I honestly don't even want to see him when he comes, but I will out of respect for our 15 year friendship. It's crazy... :cry2:

Y'all can quote and judge me, if you want. It really doesn't even matter.. I just needed to get that off of my heart. It's been bothering me, since he confirmed it to me.
 
Oh and btw, things are still going great with the "weak" guy. I'm going to stop calling him that. He's a complete gentleman and he's planning a "surprise" vacation for us to (I hope) Bora Bora for my graduation in June... LMFAO! Watch it be to some no so exotic island. hahaha!!

It's not so much of a surprise since he asked me to make sure that I had a specific week off.
 
AHeadOfCoils, I don't want to judge you, quote you or anything just give you some (((HUGS)))

I understand how you feel and I can also understand why you feel the way that you do.
 
Softerlove said:
Parts of jokes are true...if your alarm is going off I'd think Why...
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A guy I dated in law school for about a year would always "joke" about marrying a rich woman and seeing me on the side. His jokes about me being a sidepiece were a little too frequent to the point where I just had to chalk it up and realize that whether he was laughing or not, he was showing me his intention--or lack of intention, rather--towards me. Nothing serious. Hmmph.

The last time I saw him he was telling me how this young woman he has been dating for at least a couple of years--she was at our graduation and this was years later and they are still together--was just his "friend." Still a sleaze. Anyway, that's my experience with jokers. They serious!
 
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mochalocks said:
I know he likes to joke around and say silly things, but I don't think it's a good idea for you to say that you're just going to get you a young girl fresh out of college to have your kid,
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Yea No. I dont know your age but this is rude and rankly I couldnt stand to be in the presence of someone who would be ok with saying that to my face. Infact I find that extremely creepy. Good luck mocha
 
FelaShrine said:
Yea No. I dont know your age but this is rude and rankly I couldnt stand to be in the presence of someone who would be ok with saying that to my face. Infact I find that extremely creepy. Good luck mocha
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I'm in my late 20's, and he's in his early 30's. You're right, it is creepy.

I'll leave him be, and keep it moving on with my life.
 
For some reason, I pictured you both being colleged age and he was saying that for when he's in his thirties in the future.

In his thirties talking about college aged girls to his already younger GF?

*Patti Stanger voice* He's an agist!
 
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