2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

FelaShrine said:
The "he thinks im gonna leave him" thing.

If that is indeed the case..after the holidays boo :look: :lol:
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@FelaShrine oh girl :lol:, I'll have to PM you about him. He's someone I posted about before. "teacher dude" (well one of em :look:).

He claims last time I just left him & disappeared. :rolleyes:

He's a bit of a fixer-upper. :sekret: but it's been on and off for a year and a half, IDK I've never put effort into a relationship before, I'm considering taking the risk....
 
I love him! I should stop kidding myself and face reality... I love him! That doesn't mean that I'll be with him, though. *shrugs*.
 
I couldn't help but laugh to myself when I spoke to my SO yesterday, he said he went shopping with his mother and she got mad at him. I asked him why and he said, my mother thinks I am spoiling you too much because every store they went in he picked up something for me. He probably thought she was joking but I know she was serious when she said it, oh well........
 
So he wants me to work on some things for his start up. Trying to decide how much I should charge him. I like him and stuff but I don't work for free :lol:
 
My heart hurts a lot. I do not understand how I thought I'd be euphoric for long. I do not have a relationship with my parents. I am an only child. No plans for the holidays. And I don't want to be with a bunch of family and so-called friends that think I am a loser and will talk about me like a dog once I leave. This is really a hard time. Just been crying off and on all day. I think I will just give up on love. I don't ever want to go through this again. Thank God my office is understanding and kind. I do not make the most money here but how sad they are the only family I have.
 
Sorry you feel this way @Lucie...

You're young and beautiful and you KNOW darn well this too shall pass. Sulk if you want now but you KNOW you WILL find someone at SOME point in time that will be just right for you. You really don't believe that as young and beautiful as you are that you will not find ANYONE or love for the next 40 years? Yeah OK. As a matter of fact, you got dudes sweating you NOW! Yeah you may not want them because you're healing but when you get stronger, it's a WRAP!

So....feel bad now, but you'll be alright. We all survive these moments.
I'm an only too with hardly any family but calling yourself a loser? Doing too much. M'pap vale k-k sa ma che...bel fa'm tankou'w...*tchuip*

BTW, I understand the 'euphoria' you talk about. After a few days, it's down hill. That's when the tough work begins.
 
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Fine 4s thank you so much. I appreciate your kind words but this time I really do feel different. Normally, I do feel sad but this time around it just feels like I just don't ever want to do this again.
 
Lucie said:
Fine 4s thank you so much. I appreciate your kind words but this time I really do feel different. Normally, I do feel sad but this time around it just feels like I just don't ever want to do this again.
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I felt that at the beginning of my hiatus from men as well. It's a process. Give yourself a few weeks and hang in there. You will be fine.

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Ever have so much chemistry with someone that you feel like your head is gonna explode when they touch you? Like if ya'll touch there would actually be electricity between your hands?
 
^^

Yes! When we are together there's so much energy between us. His smile sends chills up my spine. When I touch him, he shivers a bit and instantly becomes warm.

It's crazy that you wrote that. I was just thinking about that.
 
luving me said:
Ever have so much chemistry with someone that you feel like your head is gonna explode when they touch you? Like if ya'll touch there would actually be electricity between your hands?
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Yes, in my senior year of HS. I went on a date with my boyfriend and we were on the escalator for our first kiss. It was so magnetic before we even touched lips. We were both aback by it.

The second time is with my long time friend. I don't see him often but when I do, he touches me and I pretty much explode. It's really hard to stay composed. Thank goodness we're a 5 hour plane ride apart.
 
Bummed I agreed to work tonite....I could be in His bed sleeping while he & his boys watch the fight (that we weren't getting) tonight, he's happy they came thru & gave $$ to order the fight.

I guess he can have his male bonding time...while I work. :)
 
What does it mean when one of his friends (whom you haven't met yet) sends a FB friend request? I guess it means he's discussing me with his buddies but is that good or bad....hmmm....

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Briabiggles said:
What does it mean when one of his friends (whom you haven't met yet) sends a FB friend request? I guess it means he's discussing me with his buddies but is that good or bad....hmmm....

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
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Bria, why would his friend be requesting you if it was bad?
You know you like it :)
 
Fine 4s said:
Bria, why would his friend be requesting you if it was bad?
You know you like it :)
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I do like it. :lol: It just seems strange is all...

Now, do I accept? Do I ask SO about it? Or do I just let the request hang our there until I actually meet the guy?

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Briabiggles said:
I do like it. :lol: It just seems strange is all...

Now, do I accept? Do I ask SO about it? Or do I just let the request hang our there until I actually meet the guy?

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
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I wouldn't accept him. Casually bring it up to SO and see what he says.
 
He truly does enrich me life! They say you should have people in your life that increase you instead of decrease you and he does just that! He has raised the bar so high for himself that I have to sometimes realize that he is still just a man. I'm happy, he's happy. I've never felt this consistently happy for this amount of time about someone and not ready to be over it. I'm very thankful for everything.
 
Briabiggles said:
What does it mean when one of his friends (whom you haven't met yet) sends a FB friend request? I guess it means he's discussing me with his buddies but is that good or bad....hmmm....

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
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Ok, I asked him about this. He casually mentioned me when he was out with his buddies last night. They jumped on it and started combing his friends list looking for me. :lol: My profile is very private if we are not "friends" so one of them requested me. I did not respond. I told SO I want to meet more of his friends soon.

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Cheekychica said:
:look: Why does this guy keep texting me? I haven't responded and 6 msgs later he's still texting me talmbout "how is your day? :)"
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So... he kept texting me. He even texted my other phone talmbout, "I'm not sure if your cell phone is dead but :blah:"

I finally wrote back and told him that my phone wasn't dead and that I was freaked out by the number of messages he kept sending. Told him the more he texted the less I wanted to respond and to stop it. :look:

Was that mean?
 
Cheekychica said:
So... he kept texting me. He even texted my other phone talmbout, "I'm not sure if your cell phone is dead but :blah:"

I finally wrote back and told him that my phone wasn't dead and that I was freaked out by the number of messages he kept sending. Told him the more he texted the less I wanted to respond and to stop it. :look:

Was that mean?
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He DEFINITELY needed to hear that!! :lol:

Did he stop?
 
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