2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

So here's how a conflict happened:

I walk in the house. SO is playing on his phone.
I say hello. He responds but doesn't greet me like I'm used to.
I felt ignored but kept it inside and walked off.
He then says hello in a sweet voice actually acknowledging my presence.
Because I'm already annoyed I bring up another point that I've been thinking about.
Told him I wasn't interested in greeting him with a kiss since he didn't show interest earlier. I lash out about the other topic.
An argument starts and lasts about 2 mins.

We both stop talking and stay upset in our respective corner. I browse LHCF.
My battery is dying so I go off to charge in the kitchen.
About 10 minutes later, he walks over and hugs me and reassures me.
He then proceeded to analyze HOW everything went south and get this...tells me how he felt before the argument, during and what he was thinking/feeling after.
So of course I had to do the same lol He had to coach me to let go of the anger/ego though but eventually I gave in. And then we laughed about how stubborn we were :)
I love how he disarmed me.

THAT was a great argument, I got to ***** and still stay on his good side yippee!!!!

ETA- New rule, no playing on phones after 8PM. Couple time :)
 
My baby is staying another week. I'm so happy.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Briabiggles said:
I asked SO about it yesterday. Updated up thread. I'm not accepting until I actually meet the guy. :yep:

Sent from my iPhone. Excuse the typos!
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I wouldn't accept it period. He's just being nosey. He doesn't need to be all up in his boy's girlfriend's business :nono:. And your bf doesn't needs to be FB friends with your gf's either.
 
Second text he's sent and I've ignored. I really hope he's got the message now. I don't intend to ever talk to him again.
 
It is amazing how people can find fault with your relationship while sitting in a hot mess. My sister got into a fight with her husband, trashed on apartment and he let his sister call the cop on her. This took place Saturday. According to her on Monday, he is her best friend and he would do anything for her, love the ground she walks on. Today, she ask me when was I marrying my SO and I told her we have put the plans on hold until his mother fully recovers from her bad car accident. He will continue to stay with her and be there while she goes through treatment, since he is her only child here in Atlanta.

This heifer says she doesn't envy me and she don't think she could deal with his situation. I just looked at the phone dumbfounded.

She really thinks her relationship and what she deals with is so much better than what I have.
 
I think SO is struggling since I left his place to come back home.

Talmbout he misses me so much it hurts and other puppy stuff:lol:. Unfortunately I don't miss him all that much as he does me.:look: I'm a bit introverted, so while I loved our time together I'm actually enjoying my own space and own house atm.
 
No country for exs!!!!!! Stop trying to ruin my wonderful year and go away!!! Two years and now before your wedding you want to talk? Take your guilt to Jesus because I don't want it!!!!!

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We have a FREE chiropractor/massage date thingy tomorrow. Thennn we're going to see a special showing of Home Alone at this movie theatre near us...that's not really near us lol. Annnd we're going to this Sushi spot he got a groupon for. yayyy excited! :D
 
3rd text. Tombout 'are u alive?' Leave me alone! I don't get these people (men). Be nice to them and give them your attention, they dont want it. Ignore them completely and they start bugging you. Smh.
 
We are going to see my mother tomorrow. I'm excited. That's a good thing bc I am proud to say to my fam that this is my SO. I think that is impt.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
I came home from work tonight and smelled food cooking. Tonight was different bc it was a long day! I love him :yep:.
 
qchelle said:
We have a FREE chiropractor/massage date thingy tomorrow. Thennn we're going to see a special showing of Home Alone at this movie theatre near us...that's not really near us lol. Annnd we're going to this Sushi spot he got a groupon for. yayyy excited! :D
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aww this reminds me of SO when we are together. it'll be nice to be able to be in the same city so we can do things like this regularly.

have tons of fun!
 
His mama is really trying my patience. I have been good about being above some of her tatics and ignore her. But she is obviously becoming more and more trilfling in an attempt to get a rise out of me.

I am trying to see it for what it is and not let it get to me but its not working today.
 
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