2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Okay, he's starting to *** up.
We had a big spat last night and I haven't heard from him all morning.
I refuse to be the first to give in and call him. :nono:
 
We were playing the game Taboo. The clue was "body hair."

Me: Um...you have way more of it than I do.
Him: MONEY!
Me: :ohwell:
Him: :blush:
Me: :look:
Us: :rofl:

And then we lost.
 
My baby coming tomorrow!!! Things are coming together. I get my weekends to myself, I'm settling in my new place, and twin is coming to town. YAYER!!!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
FelaShrine said:
LOL I didnt even see barbie's post

I promise im not biting off that heaux :lol:
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MzLady78 said:
Damn why she gotta be all that? :lachen:
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thank you @MzLady78, why I gotta be all dat?! damn you @FelaShrine ugh lol don't be hating because you're tardy to da party! :hardslap::kiss:

OT: I need for Nikos or Bev to grant me the username "Barbie" tired of everyone abbreviating my ish and I don't know the hell theyre talking to me until like a week later :lol:
 
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I've decided to give my new relationship an honest try I've let one guy that I was dating know that I'm off the market. Someone that I was really feeling has been a little more difficult still haven't told him yet but I've resolved that I will. I enjoy spending time with SO he's sweet to me and he is full of energy last time I saw him we didn't sleep until 5am.

It bothers me though that sometimes I think he just wants to say the right things to me instead of saying how he really feels. Hoping that is just the honeymoon period though.
 
Dd has so wrapped around her finger. Seriously.


Anyway, he took us out to eat at one of my fave places last night :lick: This morning he is out getting our tree while dd and I are at piano class. This means that I have to go Christmas ornament shopping :rolleyes:

Ps last night was incredible :look: looking forward to this evening.

Sent from the corner pay phone
 
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see this is why I don't have sex. I'm fertile as ****. I stay bleeding out the vagina. I get my period approx every 21-23 days. On top of that I have the high fertility WHR and my mother's horror stories about getting preggers a month after she was off the IUD have me scared.

I'm not leaving the house today....
 
I'm sitting next to my mom and SO just texted asking for her opinions on a Christmas gift for me. Um. I thought he was talking about a ring or something from her initial reaction so I need to calm down :look: but I love that he felt comfortable enough to text my mom. Especially about presents :look:
 
I feel like such a girl right now. Why am I so attached already?! I'm away for the weekend and all I want to do is fly back home to him.

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I hope he calls tonight and we make it through this fight. I can admit I was wrong, I hope he can see where I came from and that we both need to do better for us. I hate fights,especially when it's kind of my fault. Ugh. I just want to be and he doesn't realize all the walls he puts up or why after all these years I can still be uncomfortable speaking my mind.
 
What a wonderful weekend for us. The little boy is with his dad this weekend. SO and I went shopping last night. All I wanted to do was sleep, but he insisted we go to the mall and we ended up not buying a thing. Woke up in his bed this morning, took him to get a rental car, and I went to my place for a few hours.

He picked me up around 4 this evening for a movie date (Denzel Washington in Flight-great movie) and we held hands through most of the movie. Afterwards, we went to dinner and he dropped me off back at my house.

Tomorrow I will make dinner for us after church. I'm taking Monday off from work, so he's already asked me to go to lunch with him. He wants to take me to this seafood place called Bay Breeze. I love love love love him.
 
Dude you better set your mother straight. You are not my MIL. Please stop dropping by my house unannounced. My pet peeve.
 
I want botox. Somebody needs to get it for me.

I've been getting carded a lot but I think all my stress has been giving me wrinkles on my forehead. Foreheads arent supposed to move are they? I see scrunchies when I lift my eyebrows. I need to go look at my baby cousins foreheads to compare, I can't remember what under 21 foreheads look like :look:

Maybe I'll just visit my derm again and start some new peel sessions.....
 
I cancelled each date. I am not ready. I will focus on me. It really hurts and I will not pretend otherwise.
 
TayMac said:
Dude you better set your mother straight. You are not my MIL. Please stop dropping by my house unannounced. My pet peeve.
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This happened with me a few nights ago. :ohwell: And I was on the phone with SO when his mom dropped by unannounced! :perplexed He keeps telling me to set her straight and just tell her to stop it. In no uncertain terms, I have done that. But she's not getting the message from neither of us. He's even gone to bat for me and told her to stop it with a choice set of words. :perplexed But she's been on a crazy tip for the past few months, so I try to tread lightly with his mother. But the quickest way to piss me off is to ring my bell unannounced. :nono:
 
Lucie said:
I cancelled each date. I am not ready. I will focus on me. It really hurts and I will not pretend otherwise.
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I did this last year before I met SO and it was the best decision I could have made. I allowed my heart to be trampled on twice in a matter of 6 weeks and I finally reached my bull **** threshold with men.

The relationship that I'm in now probably would not have lasted this long had I not taken a few months to myself and learned how to enjoy myself and relish in my "loneliness". It was hard at first, but after a few weeks I loved it. So I said "no more" to foolishness from grown men and it made all the difference in how I approached my new relationship.

I just made a comment to SO as we were driving home the other night and he smiled...I can't remember what we were talking about, but I told him that when I met him "he was an option, not a necessity." And even with the love I feel for him, he's still an option. :look: He smiled. :yawn: So for about five months I did me :look: in every sense of the word.

@Lucie, I for one am proud of you for doing this. Stick to it. You will be fine. From what I've read you've been through a lot the past few months and you have been soooo very undeserving of it all.
 
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He works/travels a lot. I work, have school, come january we both will have full school schedules :scratchch: Not trying to sell myself short but I honestly don't have time for a full-fledged relationship. If only I could just be at my career already.
 
a very stressful weekend. men can be just too complicated. they aren't as simple as one thinks. i feel like i am being pulled in different directions. i can't win for anything.
 
deltadreamland, thank you so much. I am so happy you are in a better place. You deserve to be happy! I do enjoy my peace of mind and am taking things one day at a time. :)
 
SO is here for the week and I don't even know how to act lol. I'm use to being with him for a weekend. He got here sat and we didn't leave the house lol. We spent the whole day in the bed and he cooked. I did not want to go to work yesterday.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
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