2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Always something wrong with people that I like. I liked this one guy but he is broke and I am not daddy war bucks. It is a no-go.

I will enjoy the single life as much as I can but it gets a little lonely.

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Lucie I hope you don't mean the ex hubby but just somethings from your past.
tinkat LDR are challenging and requires great patience along with commitment. At least you guys are not 3,000 miles apart and its more a time constraint thing. I've been in a 3,000 and 200 mile LDR in the past. You can do it but you have to be creative and take out the time to plan in between meet ups if you need that personal contact to survive. Thats just my opinion. My guy used to fly me out every 30-45 days for 9 day stretches since it wouldn't affect my employ, life etc. Heck I needed those breaks because I was only in Cali at that time to fund my daughters university education. I was in a self imposed prison sentence! LOL Hell now I'm still here because I'm an injured worker but I'm making the best of it because its obviously not God's plan for me to live in NYC ever again. Work it out chica and ya'll gotta find a middle ground to stay grounded in love and lust!!!!!!! Keep yo head up.

I have portions of this weekend to myself since my guy has joint custody of an almost adult daughter that has been driving for a year now. Once he bought her the car she has been like getcho life daddy. LMBO She no longer has time for him so he has to force himself on her outside of lunch, church, special event and shopping dates. LOL I love that about him because so many men wouldn't give a damn and would be super happy his responsibilities have lessened. I remember when she was only 9 and he was doing play dates with two other male friends that had every weekend father duties. They took some great pictures for her homecoming game and of her cheer squad.
 
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Nelli04 said:
[vent]Sometimes I feel as if I am meant to be alone forever...I swear if I'm interested in a guy, there's always a barrier, it's as if I am being punished for an unknown reason. [/vent]

woosah
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Exactly how I feel right now your not alone in feeling this way.
 
ctosha said:
Exactly how I feel right now your not alone in feeling this way.
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Yup with my present (and past) experience in dating it is hard not to think that God has other plans. It makes me sad though because I feel that I would make a wonderful girlfriend/wife.

I just need to graduate and move, because my lack of fun people gives me way too much idle time to think about what I haven't done or how I have failed.

Oh single women who are celibate or don't have someone that they can call up, please don't read cheesy romance novels with sex scenes in it. Nope. Bad idea! haha
 
Lucie said:
firecracker, no way Jose! I never want to be with him again.
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Lucie no I thought you meant wanted to meet your new guy or something from your past is trying to show up in your present. :lachen: I know dern well you don't wanna be with your ex cuz your newbie sounds good and juicy!!! Not to mention he is Haitian to boot. You know some ex's make some strange stupid butt request but that is usually if kids are involved when an ex is trying to meet the newbie. :spinning: I'm sorry if I didn't break it down.

What ya'll up to this weekend chica? Your butt got me wanting to run into Goodwill this weekend!!!!:grin:
 
firecracker I have to remind myself that we are not as far, but with he and I working so much it's hard. I have been working almost 2 weeks straight, no breaks and still counting. It will get better in the future.
 
ctosha said:
Exactly how I feel right now your not alone in feeling this way.
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It's nice to know I'm not the only one :)

I'm a firm believer in that everything happens for a reason. But crossing paths with someone and feeling there is a mutual interest there, only to discover nothing can come of it because of xy and z is getting old. This has been the story of the majority of my life, something has got to give :sad:
 
You would have thought that seeing everybody around him move one with their lives, growing families and actually building their future would make him realize that what I'm asking for is only legitimate... Sigh I'm losing faith.

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Maracujá said:
^^^What's going on? Weren't y'all engaged?
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We still are. Working on other things. :sad:
ETA: I'm always asking for more than yesterday so maybe I need to slow down on the demands. :lol:

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Love is...

When my world is shaking, I find peace simply laying my head on his chest, listening to some jazz, and breathing.
 
Aww snap my boo just volunteered to give me cash, buy my dog this month, and pay for a trip. Ish just got real :lachen:
 
Mortons

I'm normally just a lurker, but I've got to step out of the shadows to say that you snap back into play really fast! :lol: How do you do that?! I am truly in admiration of your fortitude and flexibility. :grin:


Mortons said:
Aww snap my boo just volunteered to give me cash, buy my dog this month, and pay for a trip. Ish just got real :lachen:
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Krullete said:
Mortons

I'm normally just a lurker, but I've got to step out of the shadows to say that you snap back into play really fast! :lol: How do you do that?! I am truly in admiration of your fortitude and flexibility. :grin:
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That is too kind of you! I just decide not to let break ups break me down. The sooner I let go of the wrong one, the quicker I can try to find the one who is right for me.
 
feeling so much better!! in fact, feeling the complete opposite- excited for life :) wee!!!:lol: thank goodness my cycle is gone. drains me of happiness.
 
I'm leaving my boys for two months. I miss them already but this will give me time to work on me so that WE can have a chance.
 
I guess we're done. I don't know if I am jumping the gun but I'd be a fool to think otherwise. This hurts pretty bad.
 
alwaysinchrist said:
I have defin given up in this department :(
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I remember giving up too. Didn't go on a date from August 2011 to January 20, 2012. It was when I gave up, focused on me and my life, when he came along. I kicked and screamed trying not to date him for a month. I just didn't want to be bothered. I was so happy and content enjoying my peace of mind. My point is...when I gave up on love is when love found me. I gave up on love, but it didn't give up on me. Take a break. Take a hiatus, but don't give up. I'm sure you have too much greatness to offer someone.
 
deltadreamland said:
Oh no....what happened hon? Sending you a hug.
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deltadreamland

I told him how I felt about how he speaks to me. He has no filter at all. I told him how I felt about the things I thought he could do better. I feel I do everything wrong yet he always tells me he is crazy about me. Tonight I was on FB and saw his page and that he went to the movies and dinner. We have not spoken in 2 days since our argument. I was hurt because I think he is on a date. Granted, I am making assumptions but just the thought burns my heart.

Sometimes, I wish I was a woman who could build a wall around her heart. I am just too damn loving. I wish I could be with a man and not feel. That way when things like this happen, I could just Kanye shrug. I feel like an idiot even for sharing. Lord knows my candor has burned me so many times on this site. :(
 
deltadreamland said:
I remember giving up too. Didn't go on a date from August 2011 to January 20, 2012. It was when I gave up, focused on me and my life, when he came along. I kicked and screamed trying not to date him for a month. I just didn't want to be bothered. I was so happy and content enjoying my peace of mind. My point is...when I gave up on love is when love found me. I gave up on love, but it didn't give up on me. Take a break. Take a hiatus, but don't give up. I'm sure you have too much greatness to offer someone.
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That is beautiful. And you deserve it! :yep:
 
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