2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

[deltadreamland]

Random mommy thought----

Watching my son as he sleeps. He has the thickest eyebrows and the longest eyelashes for a boy. Why couldn't that be me! Lol! I love this little boy to pieces!

 

[chocolat79]

chocolat79 Dang I was hoping you could tell me about the wines. LOL I really enjoyed the second part for the same reason you did. Nothing much has changed in Hollywood fo real fo real.

I enjoyed the mixed media and the theatrical interview. Sanaa's flamboyant outfit and personality reminded me of Wendy Rachel in the second half. The militant soul sister/fake Brazilian roomie had me laughing so hard. It was really entertaining. I love The Geffen. Are you going to check out Fraternity at the Nate Holden?

firecracker, yeah the Brazilian/militant lady was hilarious!! That was my first time at the Geffen and it seems there isn't a bad seat in the house. I haven't heard of Fraternity. Off to google it! I work mostly in the evenings, so sometimes I'm limited when I can go to performances, but I try to get there when I can.

 

[firecracker]

chocolat79 my guy works graveyard so he has the same limited schedule issues. I usually take in a matinee every Sunday outside of Jazz season. I get sleepy the minute the sun goes down LOL. Nate Holden's Theatre has great seating like The Geffen and Pasadena Playhouse. Fraternity seems like its going to be really good.

Its so great to see another Angeleno LHCF member loving the theatre also.

Are you a member of Goldstar.com? They always have good discounted tickets in loads of cities. I use them for most of my entertainment when traveling in the States. Let me stop all this ramblin! I miss working the evening and graveyard shift. I hope you have Fri-Sat or Sun-Mon off since you work the off shifts. Enjoy the rest of your evening chica.

 

[qchelle]

I wonder what he's fixing for dinner tomorrow?

 

[kismettt]

we say "fatchu" to each other. goes back to my "not love, just infatuation" conversation. he still says i love you though so clearly he didn't get the instead of message. but i've said "i love-" multiple times. and he just smiles & is like, "it's okay, i know you do". nope.

he talked me down from my ledge of crazy (i am really obsessed with self control/super hard on myself when i don't exhibit it ). so that was nice. going to help me work on my goals.

apparently it is really funny to him that whenever he says he's hungry, i offer him a banana or a chewy bar. erplexed. clearly it's just a snack...he is always hungry! men

 

[kismettt]

i put a new pic on fb. my (old) crush and ex from NC both liked it. my bf is clearly not a part of my fan club.

w/e w/e

 

[mallysmommy]

Tried to call but he didnt answer. So i sent him a text saying we should be friends....i feel bad but its best. He has a lot he should be focusing on and a gf is not one. Ughh

 

[chocolat79]

firecracker, thanks for telling me about those other theatres. I loved the Geffen as all the seats were great, so any theatre like that, I'm down. AND, of course I'm on Goldstar, LOL. That's how I find out about a lot of stuff. I have only been here a year, so I'm still learning about everything, but I love it so far. Anytime you want to hit somewhere up if your guy can't make it, just let me know. I think we can PM the rest, LOL, as we're wayyy OT.

 

[firecracker]

Welcome to Cali by the way. I'm going to pm youchocolat79.

 

[kandake]

Sigh... I just had a conversation with my friend about this last guy I was seeing. She said I completely overacted and that she thinks I self-sabotage. I kinda agree with her... arrghhhh.

 

[itismehmmkay]

Sigh... I just had a conversation with my friend about this last guy I was seeing. She said I completely overacted and that she thinks I self-sabotage. I kinda agree with her... arrghhhh.

I just did that like an hour ago. Eh...it was time to move on anyway.

 

[Bublin]

^^^ Your Siggy @itismehmmkay

 

[itismehmmkay]

lol she fine huh? Bublin That's gone be me in a minute

 

[Angelicus]

Tried seeing a friend of a friend for a few months. OK looks, military, in pain all the time but otherwise nice.

I went on vacation and left my car at home. This man drove to my house while I was on vacation, saw that my car was still there and claimed that I lied about being out of town.

I immediately gave him the boot.

Sent from my LHCF App.

 

[nappystorm]

Text message:"It ain't gone lick itself."

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

Every time I think about the lashing I got last night I get tingles in my body

He can't keep his hands off me. Always touching, grabbing, cupping, squeezing. He licked my hand the other day

 

[VeryBecoming]

Sleeping in the same bed is a problem. I never want to get up in the morning. Then yesterday I had to go to work and he kept pulling me back and snuggling all up. Today my alarm went off and I was like "meh! cuddle time!"

 

[CarLiTa]

Today I feel so blaaaah. Lonely, even. I've actually been feeling this way for a little bit. Every September used to always be so exciting: reuniting with my college friends, having pow-wows, drinking hot cider, baking cookies, drinking wine.
Post-college we still did some of these things at each other's apartments. Now, the BFF who lived closest to me is on the other side of the country. I don't have that partner to do all the things I used to do with... Bummer. I've been feeling like this since the very first week of September... and it's funny... it hit us all at once a particular weekend. We were sending texts to each other like: "I miss my friends! *cries and collapses*"

On the dating front, things are lonely as well. I've gotten more messages from Mr. Cuffingtons, and I haven't responded.
The guy I was SO excited about? Well, he told me this weekend that he has had a lot on his plate/mind lately and that though he likes being around me and talking to me, this is honestly not a good time for him
It took me by surprise, because things were going well. I mean, unless I'm suddenly delusional or something. We talked frequently, had a few lengthy phone conversations, had only gone on 3 dates because of our schedules, but the dates were GREAT: conversation flowed easily, a lot of laughter, we talked about how we've felt in the past, etc. etc., and it seemed that we were scoping each other's relationship potential... given some of the questions we would ask. Mid- date 3, we even organized another date or so. At the end of date 3, we suggested another one, too. So, yeah, it was a surprise and a major let-down. I didn't ask questions... Just said ok, thanks for being honest, and that was it. Given that I don't know details, I am not willing to wait around, because I don't know how true his reasoning is There are people who continue to be interested in me, but it is unfortunate that I am not drawn to them romantically, despite thinking that they're awesome. Sometimes I wonder if that's a problem with me.

I feel like work has been sucking the life out of me, and I am trying to regain balance. I feel like time is passing by so fast, and I am wondering what exactly I've been up to.

#soemotional.

 

[Gemini350z]

Gemini350z
I often thought about you but couldn't remember your name! The last post was about your last relationship. Did y'all ever talk?
So glad you're enjoying the dating world..

Fine 4s Hey! We have talked, he just realized that he was being selfish and was not ready for commitment. We both agreed that a year or so ago, we just gave up but continued going through the motions due to being so comfortable and not wanting to be out of each others lives. Now that I am moving on, he seems to swoop back in, I want to have him as a friend. But as selfish as it may seem, I can't be his "friend" if he is still friends with the woman he cheated on me with.

He wants to take me out to lunch tomorrow, I feel like he has something planned. I agreed, but Im not going to get caught up, because I really like the guy I just started dating.


Damn men!

 

[Mortons]

This one seems like a keeper but it is moving so. incredibly. slow.

 

[MuziqizLyfe]

Mortons I'm in the same situation...my friend said moving slow is a good sign...that real relationships with staying power don't happen overnighterplexed

I'm trying to be patient

 

[AXtremeTakeover]

Mortons I'm in the same situation...my friend said moving slow is a good sign...that real relationships with staying power don't happen overnighterplexed

I'm trying to be patient

This is true! My husband and I didn't even become official for years! I didn't like it but I guess the process is more important than the product. I'm a believer now that slow is good lol

 

[qchelle]

I keep taking his clothes lol. I'll go over his house, take my clothes off and get into some of his comfy lounge clothes, and fall in love with them! And then demand to take them home My latest item of thievery is this T-shirt he just bought from the Fox.com store. It's a 'House' (the show) shirt that has a rib cage on the front that glows in the dark! It was $26 lol. .........it's mine now

 

[Fine 4s]

Mortons,
Moving slow is good only if I know WHY the moving slow is occuring...
so spill it!

 

[Fine 4s]

@Fine 4s Hey! We have talked, he just realized that he was being selfish and was not ready for commitment. We both agreed that a year or so ago, we just gave up but continued going through the motions due to being so comfortable and not wanting to be out of each others lives. QUOTE]

@Gemini350z
Check you out having all these men all up on ya
Let me ask you this though...when he cheated, had ya'll already agreed to not be in the relationship because one or both of you really weren't ready for that type of relationship? How old is he and what revealed that he wasn't ready afterall? I'm fascinated by people who get into relationships and don't know what it really means to BE in a relationship and then back away!

 

[Mortons]

@Mortons,
Moving slow is good only if I know WHY the moving slow is occuring...
so spill it!

Idk why it is going so slowly...probably just us trying to feel each other out. We are both naturally kind guarded so slowly, its coming down for both of us. But I need it to move quicker. I'm impatient in general

 

[curlcomplexity]

Nigerian Independence Day celebrations all this weekend....looking forward to the eye candy

 

[Lucie]

My past is trying to meet my future. What do I do?!!! Argh!!!!

 

[Nelli04]

[vent]Sometimes I feel as if I am meant to be alone forever...I swear if I'm interested in a guy, there's always a barrier, it's as if I am being punished for an unknown reason. [/vent]

woosah

 

[kismettt]

i got my hair done. i never do my hair b/c i'm very active & it's so thick. i had a twist out on our first date and it's been up since, so i was excited to show my bf.

his mom called and he went home for the weekend. i'm worried and bummed.

+ i just want to cuddle and have him tell me how beautiful i am