auparavant
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I know someone who is *always* hurting people with their anger. I don't know how God can allow it, it's really awful and they're
supposed to be Christian. They do some serious emotional damage to people. Yeah I get all that carp about not judging people, but until you've constantly been verbally abused by someone who God gave a position of authority over you, how about not judging me. If God is on this person's side, I wish I could un-know God.
I do feel sorry for this person in some ways and know God is understanding of their pain, but at what point is His anger aroused? Why is it so much easier for Him to punish me and make me suffer?
I see how atheists become atheists. A lot of them IMO are Christians or former Christians who are just pissed at Him and heartbroken. Just listening to them speak it's always "if there's a God then why ____?".
I feel "stuck" with God, like I can't unsee what I've seen of Him, but if that weren't the case I'd be gone too. Long gone...
Well, not judging someone in the sense that they have wrongs but not us. G-d said to forgive, not excuse nor ignore their wrongs. It's never ok for someone to harm another. We can forgive someone as Christ forgives us. In fact, we must. Believe me, I have a hard time with Hitler and Goebbels and slave masters of the past. But I must forgive them. It doesn't mean that what they did is of no consequence. But if I wish to receive forgiveness, I must take the first step in forgiving them. And often times, it means recognizing that we serve a sovereign G-d who sees all, even our own faults. They were enough to keep us from heaven if not for Christ's sacrifice. Think of it somewhat of letting go the anger against them, not against what they did. Take back the power of their hurt and not let it hurt us again. Everyone has to figure out just how that will happen in their own situation because it's going to look different with the individual case. If those hatreds surface, forgive in the heart again until we get it right, no? And ask for forgiveness from G-d as if righteous. Nothing in this life is easy but we can through Christ.