strenght81
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I too believe this year I will find my best friend leading to my mate. I am not focusing on it but I just know someone is coming in my life and change it dramatically.
2008 IS the year I will meet a mate
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Precious_1
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Hi Ladies I have an update:
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
erplexed he had to go so I texted him and said "whats up with you? Do you have feelings for me, you have been acting weird lately" and he texts back "yes I do". So he asked me if I shared those feelings and I said "Well,.....I dont know, I really care about you, I love your friendship but I dont know, let me process what you said first" so he said "Ok, I will take that" well I went out for a glass of wine with him, and why did I do that? 
Turns out I have feelings for him also, it wasnt just the wine talking, I told him I had feelings for him too and he was my bestfriend, we are now dating. He said he doesnt even want to sleep with me and mess anything up because, he considers me "wife material"
they kill me with that phrase, but anyway, and he wants to do things the right way in the eyes of god. We have so many things in common and we are on the same level spiritually...so we will see i will keep yall posted. I may get my ring after all, do you guys like it? its in my avatar
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
erplexed he had to go so I texted him and said "whats up with you? Do you have feelings for me, you have been acting weird lately" and he texts back "yes I do". So he asked me if I shared those feelings and I said "Well,.....I dont know, I really care about you, I love your friendship but I dont know, let me process what you said first" so he said "Ok, I will take that" well I went out for a glass of wine with him, and why did I do that? Turns out I have feelings for him also, it wasnt just the wine talking, I told him I had feelings for him too and he was my bestfriend, we are now dating. He said he doesnt even want to sleep with me and mess anything up because, he considers me "wife material" they kill me with that phrase, but anyway, and he wants to do things the right way in the eyes of god. We have so many things in common and we are on the same level spiritually...so we will see i will keep yall posted. I may get my ring after all, do you guys like it? its in my avatar
juju
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Hi Ladies I have an update:
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
That ring is yours to have !
Precious_1
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Bublin and Juju, thanks ladies!!! I am keeping my fingers crossed and sending my prayers up. I have a prayer that i posted in the Christianity forum called "Wifes Prayer" that I try to pray everyday, and now things are starting to manifest.
Je Ne Sais Quoi
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wooooooowww!!!!!!! Go on head now. I am happy for you and can't wait to hear about the relationship as it progessesHi Ladies I have an update:
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
jade998
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Hi Ladies I have an update:
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
Wow, that is a beautiful story. I am calling in that ring as well for you.
Summer_Rain
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I just wanted to wish all of you the best in attracting what you desire!
I don't participate in many of the LOA threads, but I've always believed in the spiritual laws of it. Early last year I made my "list" of qualities in a mate that I desired, in accordance with "write down the vision, make it plain" and "call those things that are not, as though they were".
When I made my list I wrote it in the 'what i have' tense and not the 'what im looking for' tenses. I carried it around in my purse for a few months, every morning I read the list outloud in a confessing type way. I spoke about it as if it already existed, believing that it did. I did indeed meet my SO who fit my list to a "T". It hasn't been all perfect, but we work on issues as they present themselves, he hears me, respects my needs and changes accordingly - which was also a quality on my list.
Long story short, I told him upfront that I was looking for the long term and desired to marry. I told him upfront that I wasn't going to waste years of my life waiting for some man to decide. He was very accepting of that as well.
He hasnt proposed - YET. But he knows he has a deadline. We're going to a jewler to get my fingers sized, just so he can be certain. I'm still confessing that it is so! Good luck ladies!
I met my mate in 07, but I confess that 08 will be the year we make it officially official!
I don't participate in many of the LOA threads, but I've always believed in the spiritual laws of it. Early last year I made my "list" of qualities in a mate that I desired, in accordance with "write down the vision, make it plain" and "call those things that are not, as though they were".
When I made my list I wrote it in the 'what i have' tense and not the 'what im looking for' tenses. I carried it around in my purse for a few months, every morning I read the list outloud in a confessing type way. I spoke about it as if it already existed, believing that it did. I did indeed meet my SO who fit my list to a "T". It hasn't been all perfect, but we work on issues as they present themselves, he hears me, respects my needs and changes accordingly - which was also a quality on my list.
Long story short, I told him upfront that I was looking for the long term and desired to marry. I told him upfront that I wasn't going to waste years of my life waiting for some man to decide. He was very accepting of that as well.
He hasnt proposed - YET. But he knows he has a deadline. We're going to a jewler to get my fingers sized, just so he can be certain. I'm still confessing that it is so! Good luck ladies!
I met my mate in 07, but I confess that 08 will be the year we make it officially official!
Belle Du Jour
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Hi Ladies I have an update:
I have a male friend that I met in June of 2006. He pursued me for a long while but I wasnt interested, I told him lets just be good friends. He settled for that over the course of 2 years we became really good friends, I now consider him my "male best friend" we talk about EVERYTHING, his relationships, my relationships, he even set me up with my last guy friend, obviously it did not work out though. Well I had recently met someone and i was telling him about him and all of a sudden as he was leaving, he told me "I dont want you to like him" I was like "WHAT?!"
Awe, that's great! Sounds like the relationship is based on real friendship, which is always a good thing!
Belle Du Jour
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Je Ne Sais Quoi
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TLC1020
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Keep1Belle
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I usually start my year off in December. So this year December 07. Because my Birthday is in this month and thats when I start guaging where I was the year prior to where I am now.
I have never really had a lot of relationships. I have had a lot of "friends" who I desperately wanted to be a bf, but no one was willing to make the committment to me, or better yet I didnt really command that respoect even after 1 to 4 years of dating being friends.
This year I wanted more and was determined to do so,. I prayed, I let people know, put it out there in the atmosphere. Not being desperate as I had several men that would not get a second date. But the point is I didnt sit at home just hopin and praying. I also stepped out of my comfort zone as far as looks, I was open to white men, etc. and my bf is white. I went to were the boys are...i joined meetup.com, match, yahoo. ANyway after several horrible dates and some great dates with no Chemistry I met my bf. we had a lot in common a lot of the same goals. He would mention things that I had just thought of, etc. Basically we are on the same wavelenght, And I didnt have to wait for him to call and make excuses when he didnt, he called. He planned dates because he wanted to see me.
And you know what he enjoys my company as much as I do his so much so he doesnt want me looking elsewhere so he made it official as in exclusive.
God is good. THis is the first time in a while I have been truly happy.allowing someone to like me and actually likeing them back at the same time. No cat and mouse game, noi desperate girl, no ":hes just not that into me" mess.
Its out there ladies, go and claim it.
I have never really had a lot of relationships. I have had a lot of "friends" who I desperately wanted to be a bf, but no one was willing to make the committment to me, or better yet I didnt really command that respoect even after 1 to 4 years of dating being friends.
This year I wanted more and was determined to do so,. I prayed, I let people know, put it out there in the atmosphere. Not being desperate as I had several men that would not get a second date. But the point is I didnt sit at home just hopin and praying. I also stepped out of my comfort zone as far as looks, I was open to white men, etc. and my bf is white. I went to were the boys are...i joined meetup.com, match, yahoo. ANyway after several horrible dates and some great dates with no Chemistry I met my bf. we had a lot in common a lot of the same goals. He would mention things that I had just thought of, etc. Basically we are on the same wavelenght, And I didnt have to wait for him to call and make excuses when he didnt, he called. He planned dates because he wanted to see me.
And you know what he enjoys my company as much as I do his so much so he doesnt want me looking elsewhere so he made it official as in exclusive.
God is good. THis is the first time in a while I have been truly happy.allowing someone to like me and actually likeing them back at the same time. No cat and mouse game, noi desperate girl, no ":hes just not that into me" mess.
Its out there ladies, go and claim it.
SEMO
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Well, gon and git with yo bad self! Glad to hear things are going well for you and that you don't have to play games. I recently went on match.com (didn't join, just browsed) but I didn't see any guys with potential
. But I don't think internet dating is for me. I'd be scared to meet up with them.
GeorginaSparks
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Been dating someone for less than a month now. I dont want to rush things but we did acknowledge that we are in an exclusive, monogamous relationship without the bf/gf label yet. We spend time together on weekends and he seems to have a good head on his shoulders. I have not seen any craziness, or any kind of attitude/problems that i dont need to experience although it is too soon to tell. Im just taking it slow and hoping for the best. Goodluck ladies.
angenoir
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Hi Ladies!
Just bumping this thread. I just read through it and I htink its great
I am also hoping to meet THE one this year. Or that if he is already in my life ie someone I know, a good friend etc that I do realise that he is the one.
Good luck to you all and don't stop believing it!
Just bumping this thread. I just read through it and I htink its great
I am also hoping to meet THE one this year. Or that if he is already in my life ie someone I know, a good friend etc that I do realise that he is the one.
Good luck to you all and don't stop believing it!
TLC1020
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Just checking in.... Everything is going well with the guy I starting see back in January so far so good!!
Thanks Bre~Bre for creating this thread
so far so good!! Thanks Bre~Bre for creating this thread
I am putting it out there, stepping out of faith that I will meet my mate this year
sunshinebeautiful
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I haven't been having any luck so far. erplexed
erplexed
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autumnbeauty29
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I'm late but I'm here and agree lol
2008 IS the year I will become official with my boo, my mate.
I met a guy in late 2007 and we have been hanging out and "dating" since late January. I do know that he is THE ONE and I claim him as my husband
2008 IS the year I will become official with my boo, my mate.
I met a guy in late 2007 and we have been hanging out and "dating" since late January. I do know that he is THE ONE and I claim him as my husband
cocoaluv
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The year just started girl....give it some time. I say wait till the summer when you know its gonna be tons of guys/food and fun in store. I'm just taking this time to get fit and doing meI haven't been having any luck so far.
miss Congeniality
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I got a dosage of reality a few weeks ago. A lady on another forum dropped some knowledge. She basically said to get a man you have to go where the men are. Common sense right. Well, I realized that I was going home, work, and worked at a women's only gym (definately no men there). I know that I need to expand and make myself available.
I am hoping to move to a new city soon and I want to start over. I am glad to say that I am wearing make up more and that my confidence is increasing. I got my hands on The Art of Seduction. I haven't started reading it yet, but I am getting there. I had a negative person in my life and I had to cut them loose, so I hope positive things will start coming my way.
missCONGENIALity
I am hoping to move to a new city soon and I want to start over. I am glad to say that I am wearing make up more and that my confidence is increasing. I got my hands on The Art of Seduction. I haven't started reading it yet, but I am getting there. I had a negative person in my life and I had to cut them loose, so I hope positive things will start coming my way.
missCONGENIALity
jade998
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You will be surprised how un common that thought is.
SpiritJunkie
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SummerRain that is great news!!!
I am also going to make a list of what i'm looking for and what i have to offer to someone as well.
I'm not in a rush...i'm going to take my time with it and start excersing the LOA more in my life.
great thread.
I am also going to make a list of what i'm looking for and what i have to offer to someone as well.
I'm not in a rush...i'm going to take my time with it and start excersing the LOA more in my life.
great thread.
jturner7156
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I know we are three months into the year but I am calling it in as well. 2008 is the year I will meet my mate. There is someone I am VERY interested in but since I gave up dating for lent, we can't go out until 3/24/08 so we will see how the chemistry flows then . I hope I don't seem over-excited though 
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. I hope I don't seem over-excited though .
TLC1020
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Update*~*~
SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me 
. He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here . So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..
SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family
. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me . He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here . So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..
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discobiscuits
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for everyone:
http://www.callingintheone.com/secrets.pdf
http://www.callingintheone.com/secrets.pdf
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