I just wanted to wish all of you the best in attracting what you desire!
I don't participate in many of the LOA threads, but I've always believed in the spiritual laws of it. Early last year I made my "list" of qualities in a mate that I desired, in accordance with "write down the vision, make it plain" and "call those things that are not, as though they were".
When I made my list I wrote it in the 'what i have' tense and not the 'what im looking for' tenses. I carried it around in my purse for a few months, every morning I read the list outloud in a confessing type way. I spoke about it as if it already existed, believing that it did. I did indeed meet my SO who fit my list to a "T". It hasn't been all perfect, but we work on issues as they present themselves, he hears me, respects my needs and changes accordingly - which was also a quality on my list.
Long story short, I told him upfront that I was looking for the long term and desired to marry. I told him upfront that I wasn't going to waste years of my life waiting for some man to decide. He was very accepting of that as well.
He hasnt proposed - YET. But he knows he has a deadline. We're going to a jewler to get my fingers sized, just so he can be certain. I'm still confessing that it is so! Good luck ladies!
I met my mate in 07, but I confess that 08 will be the year we make it officially official!