2008 IS the year I will meet a mate

TLC1020 said:
Update*~*~

SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family :spinning:. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me :blush:. He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here :spinning:. So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..:yep:
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:woot: I'm happy for you!
 
TLC and SummerRain, congratulations! I wish you both the best!

I met a nice man this weekend. We'll see what happens! I have a good feeling...
 
TLC1020 said:
Update*~*~

SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family :spinning:. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me :blush:. He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here :spinning:. So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..:yep:
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I'm glad that you guys are having honest talk about what you're looking for :yep:.
 
ladies this may seem awkward---anyhoo i met a great guy on bpm--and he is a lil older for my taste---but he is a greattttt catch all the way around--
he lives in nj and has a great job, no children, own home- good career and etc etc--all around good package

he has some pics on bpm but looks better in person--and is ready to settle down---the only itsy bitsy thing one may deem a lil off is his voice ( he has the yt voice but is a brotha--if u know what that sounds like)--but trust me dont let the voice fool you--he is a good look
his member name is oliveralo--basically im just letting my single ladies know if they are in the ny/nj area that he is open to meeting women and etc

fyi he does not know im doin this--but if i meet a good thing--i fig why not pass along the info--he could be a DH to a prospective women

pm me if u see fit--

good luck ladies
 
BAP28 said:
ladies this may seem awkward---anyhoo i met a great guy on bpm--and he is a lil older for my taste---but he is a greattttt catch all the way around--
he lives in nj and has a great job, no children, own home- good career and etc etc--all around good package

he has some pics on bpm but looks better in person--and is ready to settle down---the only itsy bitsy thing one may deem a lil off is his voice ( he has the yt voice but is a brotha--if u know what that sounds like)--but trust me dont let the voice fool you--he is a good look
his member name is oliveralo--basically im just letting my single ladies know if they are in the ny/nj area that he is open to meeting women and etc

fyi he does not know im doin this--but if i meet a good thing--i fig why not pass along the info--he could be a DH to a prospective women

pm me if u see fit--

good luck ladies
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that was nice of you to look out for your fellow LHCF sistas. :yep: I'd check out his page but I need some "me time" right now.
 
TLC1020 said:
Update*~*~

SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family :spinning:. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me :blush:. He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here :spinning:. So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..:yep:
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This is wonderful & makes me hopeful!!! :yep:
 
SummerRain said:
I just wanted to wish all of you the best in attracting what you desire!

I don't participate in many of the LOA threads, but I've always believed in the spiritual laws of it. Early last year I made my "list" of qualities in a mate that I desired, in accordance with "write down the vision, make it plain" and "call those things that are not, as though they were".

When I made my list I wrote it in the 'what i have' tense and not the 'what im looking for' tenses. I carried it around in my purse for a few months, every morning I read the list outloud in a confessing type way. I spoke about it as if it already existed, believing that it did. I did indeed meet my SO who fit my list to a "T". It hasn't been all perfect, but we work on issues as they present themselves, he hears me, respects my needs and changes accordingly - which was also a quality on my list.

Long story short, I told him upfront that I was looking for the long term and desired to marry. I told him upfront that I wasn't going to waste years of my life waiting for some man to decide. He was very accepting of that as well.

He hasnt proposed - YET. But he knows he has a deadline. We're going to a jewler to get my fingers sized, just so he can be certain. I'm still confessing that it is so! Good luck ladies!

I met my mate in 07, but I confess that 08 will be the year we make it officially official!
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Wow..congrats! This is lovely :yep:
 
he is in his late 30"s---so i figured maybe someone here would be a better fit--
i actually wanna do this more since i know/meet many single--decent men--but i am slightly hesistant--but i have no probs passing on info to a good single woman--im all about blk luv--and finding ur special somone



locabouthair said:
that was nice of you to look out for your fellow LHCF sistas. :yep: I'd check out his page but I need some "me time" right now.
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TLC1020 said:
Update*~*~

SO and I went out for cocktails last night and we had a discussion about us and where we are going from here. He pretty much said that at this stage in his life he is looking to settle down and move to the next level and that he don't want to share his women with anyone else. That he is not trying to date just to date b/c he is not getting any younger and he would like to get married and begin starting a family :spinning:. I was like WTH b/c I been thinking this all along but I didn't want to bring it up just yet seeing that we starting dating in January. He said he missed me while he was gone for a 2 day work conference and that he loved me :blush:. He also said that he believe that I'm what he been looking for and I said same here :spinning:. So we pretty much agreed that we are in an exclusive relationship..:yep:
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Awww. I'm so happy for you. That's so sweet :)
 
we are meeting at 3:00pm for brunch....he is an awesome man so far...he does a have a child...and he laid that out on the line as soon as we met...he said they are "one...a package together"..he is in his last year of law school and we have so much in common...Yesterday we were on the phone for 4 hours :blush:..he was like "i really like you and would like to get to know you better...can i come and see you tommorw..or can we meet up?"..i was like :yep: :lachen:...ill be in detroit on sunday for that play..im so excited...

hopefully if things go smoothly i spill the details..

btw, i "met" him unofficially on bp and it wasnt on purpose at all :look:....funny..
 
*Bre~Bre* said:
I am putting it out there, stepping out of faith that I will meet my mate this year :grin: Anyone else want to boldy step out on faith and put it out there?
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How about I just took this out of my siggy!! It said "I will be great and find my mate in '08" This is a sign... I'm putting it back up! *stepping out on faith, just like Bre~Bre*:yep:
 
classimami713 said:
June is upon us so we are half-way through 2008. How's everyone doing? Any success stories?
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Me me me me me!!!

Met a guy on April 4, he asked me to be his girlfriend two weeks later!

I made him wait another two weeks, but accepted by the end of the month. I've met his parents, cousins and best friends, and he's meeting my parents this weekend!

We are so happy!!! :):):)
 
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