SummerSolstice
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As an atheist myself, absolutely. Would I date a Christian...never. I might consider other religions but Christianity is not an option.
wow... why?
As an atheist myself, absolutely. Would I date a Christian...never. I might consider other religions but Christianity is not an option.
You're a Christian? You're not a very good one if you are dating an atheist but this doesn't surprise me, as most Christians I come across pick-and-choose in various ways
ok. .........
I would date an Atheist....if you change your mind, send him my way girl!
NO, NO, NO, and HELL to the NO! (In my best Whitney voice). Girl do not fall for the counterfit. I know it can be hard, but HE IS NOT THE ONE!!! If you want to be his friend, cool, and if he begins to believe as you do, great. but as it stands now... KIM.
I agree everybody makes mistakes. The people I know that don't do organized religion say why practice it when your knowingly breaking rules? I guess its like why be in a relationship when your going to cheat? Personally I don't care what anybody believes cause everybody needs something to believe in.qchelle I think people of all religions, beliefs, and lifestyles pick and choose as they go. People aren't perfect, including Christians.
You're a Christian? You're not a very good one if you are dating an atheist but this doesn't surprise me, as most Christians I come across pick-and-choose in various ways
SummerSolstice said:wow... why?
FlyyBohemian said:I'm curious to ask all the atheist here, what made them become atheist?
I'm curious to ask all the atheist here, what made them become atheist?
It's interesting that religion is assumed to be the default...
Anyway, for me I would say I always question everything. I grew up in church. I enjoyed the socialising and the reading and the "school" part of it, but not much else. I always thought it was bigoted to say my supernatural beliefs are the only valid supernatural beliefs. As I got older, middle school/HS, I thought more about it and distanced myself from church. Things like studying Mythology stuck with me. I wondered how many years until ever other religion became a myth and what would replace it in the future.
For a while I was an agnostic who spoke out about the ills of organised religion- war, genocide, terrorism, hypocrisy, sloth all come out of it. Really getting into science (bio, physics, chem) and thinking critically led me to full blown atheism and I've never looked back.
oh yes and the same for any non-religious or athiest ladies, send those preachy, bible thumping, holy rolling, jesus freaks to any christian ladies you know out there. We promise to return the favor if wanted. All walks of life can be included actually...that would make a good thread. Dumping your man? Give us his stats!
There was a time when I was like heck to the no I ain't dating no atheist but as time has gone on and I've met busta after busta, you come to appreciate a good man even if he is an atheist. I guess that's where I am in life. Like I said, if there were an abundance of quality brothas out there, I wouldn't have thouught twice about dating an atheist but with such poor quality and the drought season lasting longer than it should for many many sistas, I can appreciate an atheist who knows how to treat a lady. When I lived in Atlanta, I remember seeing so many straight sistas break down and date lesbians, partricularly butches and I was like he$$ nah, what's wrong with them. But after a while I can see how it happens. It's certainly not the route I would take but I could see how a woman would break down and start dating another woman.
I'm curious to ask all the atheist here, what made them become atheist?
It's interesting that religion is assumed to be the default...
Anyway, for me I would say I always question everything. I grew up in church. I enjoyed the socialising and the reading and the "school" part of it, but not much else. I always thought it was bigoted to say my supernatural beliefs are the only valid supernatural beliefs. As I got older, middle school/HS, I thought more about it and distanced myself from church. Things like studying Mythology stuck with me. I wondered how many years until ever other religion became a myth and what would replace it in the future.
For a while I was an agnostic who spoke out about the ills of organised religion- war, genocide, terrorism, hypocrisy, sloth all come out of it. Really getting into science (bio, physics, chem) and thinking critically led me to full blown atheism and I've never looked back.
because the ideas of a man living in the clouds/life after death/creationism make no sense and directly contradict science on earth. probably everyone shouldnt believe in a god once they get on an airplane and i dont think it's consistent to accept all the truths of science in everyday life but still believe in the supernatural.
the biggest nail in the coffin is the fact that christianity is in direct conflict with the existence of dinosaurs/the age of the planet. what more evidence do you need? also i was definitely done when i learned that christianity is nothing but a rip off of ancient egyptian stories.
He is very open minded and doesn't pounce on Christians or religious people at all. His entire family is atheist but he is quite respectful of my views as a Christian. It's such a difficult issue because I have always thought and felt the man I would be with would be Christian and God fearing and devout and unfortunately that hasn't happened which is why I feel I should stop being so choosy.
Yeah it's always pretty obvious to me. This is a discussion I've had with friends before: how you can usually tell. Even on here just reading what some people say when they post, I can tell when they don't believe in God. It's not something I can explain. I can just tell. Even before they ever say they are atheist or don't believe in God. And before anyone tries to turn that into something judgmental, it's just an observation. Nothing good or bad.Upthread I mentioned that I never used to reveal off top that I am Atheist to anybody, but now I do a lot more. And even if I choose to reveal it, most of the people in my life, like my close friends, will say they always knew or could tell.
I ask them how they can tell and some of them are able to cite specific examples but for the most part they say they just "know."
There was a time when I was like heck to the no I ain't dating no atheist but as time has gone on and I've met busta after busta, you come to appreciate a good man even if he is an atheist. I guess that's where I am in life. Like I said, if there were an abundance of quality brothas out there, I wouldn't have thouught twice about dating an atheist but with such poor quality and the drought season lasting longer than it should for many many sistas, I can appreciate an atheist who knows how to treat a lady. When I lived in Atlanta, I remember seeing so many straight sistas break down and date lesbians, partricularly butches and I was like he$$ nah, what's wrong with them. But after a while I can see how it happens. It's certainly not the route I would take but I could see how a woman would break down and start dating another woman.
I'm curious to ask all the atheist here, what made them become atheist?
There was a time when I was like heck to the no I ain't dating no atheist but as time has gone on and I've met busta after busta, you come to appreciate a good man even if he is an atheist. I guess that's where I am in life. Like I said, if there were an abundance of quality brothas out there, I wouldn't have thouught twice about dating an atheist but with such poor quality and the drought season lasting longer than it should for many many sistas, I can appreciate an atheist who knows how to treat a lady. When I lived in Atlanta, I remember seeing so many straight sistas break down and date lesbians, partricularly butches and I was like he$$ nah, what's wrong with them. But after a while I can see how it happens. It's certainly not the route I would take but I could see how a woman would break down and start dating another woman.
I remember seeing so many straight sistas break down and date lesbians, partricularly butches ....
No and it'd stop the moment I found out.
I have also found that a lot of times, at least from my personal experiences, that religion is not discussed as much as it needs to be when you are dating someone or getting to know them. Everybody who is black just automatically assumes that every black person believes in God or is a Christian and that there is no other alternative. So the conversations never take place until oftentimes, it is too late.
There was a time when I was like heck to the no I ain't dating no atheist but as time has gone on and I've met busta after busta, you come to appreciate a good man even if he is an atheist. I guess that's where I am in life. Like I said, if there were an abundance of quality brothas out there, I wouldn't have thouught twice about dating an atheist but with such poor quality and the drought season lasting longer than it should for many many sistas, I can appreciate an atheist who knows how to treat a lady. When I lived in Atlanta, I remember seeing so many straight sistas break down and date lesbians, partricularly butches and I was like he$$ nah, what's wrong with them. But after a while I can see how it happens. It's certainly not the route I would take but I could see how a woman would break down and start dating another woman.