jennboo
Well-Known Member
Or how comfortable would you be with a boyfriend who had female roommates?
I have a close friend who met a guy she apparently really likes. The guy is roomming with two other females. I told my friend i didn't think it was a great idea, but what can she really say to him about it...they aren't exclusive and he has been rooming with these girls since before they met. ALSO..these two females are moving out (short term roomies), and another female is moving in next month. I told her she'll either have to put up with it or just stop seeing him.
I gave her my input, since i dealt with a somewhat similar situation. I was casually dating a guy here in the states who had to abruptly return to his country due to visa reasons. Before he left the US we had agreed to keep in touch, see how things went. I knew deep down it wouldn't work, since i'm not cut out for long distance relationships, but he was pressed on seeing how things went and trying it out. Fine. He wound up finding housing on short notice and had a male roommate and two female roommates. He told me about the roommate situation and i told him if he was trying to make things work with me, that kind of living situation would likely pose a threat ...but of course he told me he wasn't atracted to the females and that nothing would happen yadda yadda. I told him...things happen. He is a bit naive and sheltered, so he couldn't fathom how a relationship could develop between roommates
. I then get an email from him, maybe 3 weeks later, telling me one of the female roommates kissed him and now they are dating
. I can laugh about it now but i was salty at the time more so about the fact that i TOLD HIM something like this would happen and he just dismissed what i'd said as irrational and impossible.
So what do you ladies think? Have any of you ever been in a situation like this...dating/getting into a relatiohnship with a guy who has a female roommate? What do you feel in general about co-ed roomming?
I have a close friend who met a guy she apparently really likes. The guy is roomming with two other females. I told my friend i didn't think it was a great idea, but what can she really say to him about it...they aren't exclusive and he has been rooming with these girls since before they met. ALSO..these two females are moving out (short term roomies), and another female is moving in next month. I told her she'll either have to put up with it or just stop seeing him.
I gave her my input, since i dealt with a somewhat similar situation. I was casually dating a guy here in the states who had to abruptly return to his country due to visa reasons. Before he left the US we had agreed to keep in touch, see how things went. I knew deep down it wouldn't work, since i'm not cut out for long distance relationships, but he was pressed on seeing how things went and trying it out. Fine. He wound up finding housing on short notice and had a male roommate and two female roommates. He told me about the roommate situation and i told him if he was trying to make things work with me, that kind of living situation would likely pose a threat ...but of course he told me he wasn't atracted to the females and that nothing would happen yadda yadda. I told him...things happen. He is a bit naive and sheltered, so he couldn't fathom how a relationship could develop between roommates
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So what do you ladies think? Have any of you ever been in a situation like this...dating/getting into a relatiohnship with a guy who has a female roommate? What do you feel in general about co-ed roomming?