Kindheart
Well-Known Member
This friend of mine who lives in Spain got pregnant from a guy from NY ,they didnt know each other very well ,i think a couple of weeks ,however he seemed excited about the prospect of becoming a father ,as the months passed by he started to detach himself ,during her pregnancy my friend went to visit him a couple of times and he seemed to be cool with the "situation" .Delivery time approached and he was nowhere to be seen he said he couldnt make it and left her alone with HIS newborn to look after ,her first child by the way ,it was quite a hard time for her . He never gave his name to this child ,only sent random checks .
Forward 3 years and the little fella is saying he misses his daddy , that broke my heart ,what sadden me even more is that she feels responsible for this and quite depressed about the whole situation .
She never took a DNA test .I dont want to suspect the baby might not be his but it could be a possibility (in his mind).
Do you guys think this is the reason why he wont accept him as his son or because of financial burden?How can I help my friend emotionally?
Forward 3 years and the little fella is saying he misses his daddy , that broke my heart ,what sadden me even more is that she feels responsible for this and quite depressed about the whole situation .
She never took a DNA test .I dont want to suspect the baby might not be his but it could be a possibility (in his mind).
Do you guys think this is the reason why he wont accept him as his son or because of financial burden?How can I help my friend emotionally?