Parvathi
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redRiot said:This thread wasn't meant to be a debate. However, people have reasons for doing. As we see, the ladies who have voted have different reasons for choosing to relax. The main reason I even started this thread was because I was considering going natural. I do love the thickness of my natural strands and felt that my relaxed hair was too fine. However, something kept holding me back. So I was wondering why some of us relax while others are going natural.
on another note...
I think sometimes people read too much into things. The whole idea of using the word "slave" was not to offend, it's just a saying. Slave to the music, slave to fashion, and in the case of appearance, slave to a diet. When feminists were burning their bras I'm sure there were women out there who wondered why some chose to follow in this practice and others didn't. It's curiosity. I just wanted to see why other women relax to perhaps find the reason why I still don't have the desire to go natural. Nothing was meant to offend. This thread was not meant to turn into a debate.
Great post and I agree.
Fact of the matter is ALL who are currently relaxed ARE SLAVES to social conventions which have been formulated and supported by the white man. So don't come up in here saying you are NOT a slave to relaxers because you have the OPTION of going natural. Whether or not you have that option does not change the fact that you CURRENTLY use chemicals in your hair and hence blindly support social constructs. Once its in use you have a master.
And whoever said you can have healthy hair while relaxed is lying to themselves. Relaxers can NEVER contribute to healthy heads...no matter how many protein treatments, deep conditioners, or moisturizers you place on your head of hair.
It's a shame seeing so many black women brainwashed. I hope you all eventually come to your senses before its too late.
And redriot, I highly recommend you go natural. You were/are held back because of what society tells you is the best course for your hair. Defying those conventions would and can result in ridicule but your strands would thank you for it.
You can perhaps get two sides to the story and ask naturals both here and on Nappturality why they chose to STAY AWAY from relaxers.
I hope you make the best decision for you and your hair.
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