qchelle
Well-Known Member
My mom relaxed my hair when I was 4. I didn't ask her for it; I never cried when she combed it or anything...like I honestly can't relate to people saying they hated getting their hair done lol...I wasn't tender headed at all. When I got touch-ups, I never burned either.
I continued to relax my hair until I was 20 because that's just what was supposed to be done. Relaxing to me, back then, would be the equivalent of me conditioning my hair now. I had to do it. However, I've never liked straight hair...especially on me. My hair is so thin. I hate that fresh perm look AND smell...when you sweat? It always smelled like...disease to me lol. But I never knew I had a choice. I also stopped because I prefer the versatility of natural/highly textured hair...and the look.
I'm now 6 months into my transition to natural. I can't wait!
ETA: good luck with your paper OP!
I continued to relax my hair until I was 20 because that's just what was supposed to be done. Relaxing to me, back then, would be the equivalent of me conditioning my hair now. I had to do it. However, I've never liked straight hair...especially on me. My hair is so thin. I hate that fresh perm look AND smell...when you sweat? It always smelled like...disease to me lol. But I never knew I had a choice. I also stopped because I prefer the versatility of natural/highly textured hair...and the look.
I'm now 6 months into my transition to natural. I can't wait!
ETA: good luck with your paper OP!
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