SurferBabe
Well-Known Member
I think we've all identified why many good women are still single, but what about the men?
By "good" I mean decent, upstanding guys... whether or not the guy is an actual "catch" depends on the individual's definition.
Off the top of my head I can name about 3 single guys who I think are good men. I know more but they aren't coming to me right now.
I'll call the first one Brad. Brad is smart, creative, and kind. However, he's kinda simple. His earnings are average and he's not one to wine and dine a woman-- mainly because he doesn't earn a whole lot and also because he's into the whole "modern gender equality" thing. There are women who are okay with this, but the issue is that Brad isn't attractive. He's not a good dresser, he's heavy, and he's about average height. He's also a geek. He has no game or swag. All of this aside, Brad is single because he likes girls that are out of his league. He would likely have a chance with a simple girl looking for a simple life with a simple man, but he likes conventionally attractive, creative, complex women who are bored by him because he can't provide them with any adventures. He'd be a good man for a regular, simple woman (many like him)... but that's not what he wants so he'll remain single until he gets the hint.
The next guy is Jeremy. Jeremy is cute and has a fun job in the sports industry. He'll wine and dine a woman and is a hopeless romantic. He's responsible and future-focused. He wants a wife and family. So why is Jeremy single? Well Jeremy is short (about 5'5), but even shorter guys get play around here. Jeremy is conservative, very religious, and yet has a thing for free-spirited, non-committal women. He attempts to make them fit into his world and they aren't buying it. The girls use him for his job perks, meals, and travel and then they disappear. His female friends have attempted to hook him up with decent women but he flakes out on them. He's still complaining about being single yet he's still chasing the same type of girls.
Lastly we have Anthony. Anthony is a first year radiologist, so he makes $$$$. He's tall, very attractive, and fit. He speaks 3 languages (English, Italian, and Portuguese), he's well-traveled, he can cook his butt off, he's smart, comes from a good family, and is an overall good catch. Anthony is single because he chases hot mess girls. He's a fixer and he falls hard for women with all sorts of issues that he attempts to fix without any luck. This man has it all together and yet I've watched him break down over the type of women that should never come off their meds. Meanwhile, he gets so much play from women within his circle but they don't capture his attention.
So why are YOUR good, single male friends still single?
By "good" I mean decent, upstanding guys... whether or not the guy is an actual "catch" depends on the individual's definition.
Off the top of my head I can name about 3 single guys who I think are good men. I know more but they aren't coming to me right now.
I'll call the first one Brad. Brad is smart, creative, and kind. However, he's kinda simple. His earnings are average and he's not one to wine and dine a woman-- mainly because he doesn't earn a whole lot and also because he's into the whole "modern gender equality" thing. There are women who are okay with this, but the issue is that Brad isn't attractive. He's not a good dresser, he's heavy, and he's about average height. He's also a geek. He has no game or swag. All of this aside, Brad is single because he likes girls that are out of his league. He would likely have a chance with a simple girl looking for a simple life with a simple man, but he likes conventionally attractive, creative, complex women who are bored by him because he can't provide them with any adventures. He'd be a good man for a regular, simple woman (many like him)... but that's not what he wants so he'll remain single until he gets the hint.
The next guy is Jeremy. Jeremy is cute and has a fun job in the sports industry. He'll wine and dine a woman and is a hopeless romantic. He's responsible and future-focused. He wants a wife and family. So why is Jeremy single? Well Jeremy is short (about 5'5), but even shorter guys get play around here. Jeremy is conservative, very religious, and yet has a thing for free-spirited, non-committal women. He attempts to make them fit into his world and they aren't buying it. The girls use him for his job perks, meals, and travel and then they disappear. His female friends have attempted to hook him up with decent women but he flakes out on them. He's still complaining about being single yet he's still chasing the same type of girls.
Lastly we have Anthony. Anthony is a first year radiologist, so he makes $$$$. He's tall, very attractive, and fit. He speaks 3 languages (English, Italian, and Portuguese), he's well-traveled, he can cook his butt off, he's smart, comes from a good family, and is an overall good catch. Anthony is single because he chases hot mess girls. He's a fixer and he falls hard for women with all sorts of issues that he attempts to fix without any luck. This man has it all together and yet I've watched him break down over the type of women that should never come off their meds. Meanwhile, he gets so much play from women within his circle but they don't capture his attention.
So why are YOUR good, single male friends still single?