hopeful, I am sure that some single women do become angry and bitter, but one of my recently married friends has been offering unsolicited advice to her single friends, including me. That advice makes it seem like she did "x, y, z" right and that's why she was married. My friend is a good person, but she is experiencing a lot of selective amnesia right about now just because she is now a Mrs. She made a lot of the "mistakes" that she now blasts others about and some others that even her single peers have not made. Please understand, it's one thing to say, "Don't do what I did." It's another thing for someone to be like "Jane Doe is stupid for doing XYZ. What is she thinking? That's why she's not married." To be honest, it was just meant to be that she and her husband would get married. I am honestly happy for them, but she has lost quite a few friends criticizing them. We have just been friends forever, so I'm not going anywhere.