ITA. I was just coming in here to say that my DH was not passive when it came to dating and starting our relationship. In fact, he was actually quite the opposite. He knew what he wanted and he went for it without wasting any time.
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He made the first move and made it known since day 1 that he was interested. No passivity, no games, no mess. I have never had to guess whether or not this man wanted to be with me because he made it known through his actions. I REALLY wish women would understand that if a man is passive towards pursuing you, then he is really not interested. Or, at best, you are just an option to him.
The funny part is that my DH is actually a very quiet, shy, and passive man in terms of his demeanor. But he STILL did what he had to do to pursue me. Later on in our relationship he did express how hard it was for him to pursue me and make the first move with everything. BUT he did it anyway, because he knew that's what he had to do in order to ensure that I would be his.