I haven't, but my cousin did. Her guy moved away (I'm talking a 16hr flight away) and she let him go. Then 5 years later she moved too and they are now married.
"If you love someone set them free, If they come back it was meant to be".
I just let a guy go that I was really feeling. I didn't really let him go, he just dropped me. He'll probably be back and I'll have to walk away from him. If I let him back in, this will be an endless cycle! I'm so sick of going through this with guys. It makes me feel like they are coming back to me cuz the other woman didn't want him anymore...and I don't want anybody to just SETTLE for me. My case is different because we were not in an actual relationship...we just liked each other and had just started dating.
I just let a guy go that I was really feeling. I didn't really let him go, he just dropped me. He'll probably be back and I'll have to walk away from him. If I let him back in, this will be an endless cycle! I'm so sick of going through this with guys. It makes me feel like they are coming back to me cuz the other woman didn't want him anymore...and I don't want anybody to just SETTLE for me. My case is different because we were not in an actual relationship...we just liked each other and had just started dating.
Yeah he came back but I wouldn't take him back.
It was an emotionally painful experience, but once the pain and tears came to an end, I got stronger and wiser about how I deal with change...which is really what life is all about.
I set my love free 3 years ago, and he never went anywheregrin:
I broke up with him for a few months, but we are engaged to be married now. He is the love of my life.
I just let a guy go that I was really feeling. I didn't really let him go, he just dropped me. He'll probably be back and I'll have to walk away from him. If I let him back in, this will be an endless cycle! I'm so sick of going through this with guys. It makes me feel like they are coming back to me cuz the other woman didn't want him anymore...and I don't want anybody to just SETTLE for me. My case is different because we were not in an actual relationship...we just liked each other and had just started dating.
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, they are yours, if they don't, it was never meant to be!
I have felt the same way you do about a few men I have dated. A few times I just feel the man wanted to come back because a situation with another women did not work out and I am familiar to them. I did not allow them back in my life, I don't want to be a man's second or third choice.....
They have all come back begging and pleading. And when they do,
My high school bf disappeared when I was 18 and we were both going through tough times. I left the state and started a new life in NY. He tracked me down when I was 22, sent me an airline ticket so he could see me, got down on his knee and proposed. I said no b/c I no longer trusted him and couldn't see going through life with someone who runs when times are tough. No thanks. I did forgive him though. My friend told me he did eventually marry and I'm happy for him.
ITA, with the ladies that said not to be 2nd choice. If he thinks he can do better, let him try. He'll be back. If he doesn't have enough sense to recognize how lucky he is to have you the first time around, that's his problem, not yours. I won't say not to give second chances, every situation is different. But hold out for the guy that knows you're the best thing ever and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you. Anything less is shortchanging yourself.
My high school bf disappeared when I was 18 and we were both going through tough times. I left the state and started a new life in NY. He tracked me down when I was 22, sent me an airline ticket so he could see me, got down on his knee and proposed. I said no b/c I no longer trusted him and couldn't see going through life with someone who runs when times are tough. No thanks. I did forgive him though. My friend told me he did eventually marry and I'm happy for him.
ITA, with the ladies that said not to be 2nd choice. If he thinks he can do better, let him try. He'll be back. If he doesn't have enough sense to recognize how lucky he is to have you the first time around, that's his problem, not yours. I won't say not to give second chances, every situation is different. But hold out for the guy that knows you're the best thing ever and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you. Anything less is shortchanging yourself.
I have felt the same way you do about a few men I have dated. A few times I just feel the man wanted to come back because a situation with another women did not work out and I am familiar to them. I did not allow them back in my life, I don't want to be a man's second or third choice.....
All three of my relationship and all have come back.
We breakup and they come back.
I know that is was my fault for having to set him free. I hope he comes back, but I'm not holding my breath