How many of ya'll have timelines?? And be honest. Because there's nothing wrong with them.
What's a Timeline???
A timeline - a plan for how things should progress in your life with respect to marriage, kids and family life. For example: Go to college. Meet the man of my dreams in college. Get engaged by graduation. Be engaged for a 2 years. Get married. Have 1st baby by 30. THAT type thing.
I'll keep it real - I used to think they were terrible, horrible "why on earth would anyone do that" but when you think about it - we put timelines on everything else in our lives. 'I want to be promoted by ____'. Or "I want to be making ______ by _____". Or in my case "I want to visit _________ (half the countries in this world) by 30". We make time lines in other areas of our lives.
Are "love" timelines all that bad??
What's a Timeline???
A timeline - a plan for how things should progress in your life with respect to marriage, kids and family life. For example: Go to college. Meet the man of my dreams in college. Get engaged by graduation. Be engaged for a 2 years. Get married. Have 1st baby by 30. THAT type thing.
I'll keep it real - I used to think they were terrible, horrible "why on earth would anyone do that" but when you think about it - we put timelines on everything else in our lives. 'I want to be promoted by ____'. Or "I want to be making ______ by _____". Or in my case "I want to visit _________ (half the countries in this world) by 30". We make time lines in other areas of our lives.
Are "love" timelines all that bad??