Ummm, lounges that cater to Black folx... there is a new spot up in Harlem called body... There is singles night at the Harlem Lanes bowling alley, plus I think there are lounges now on 125th street...
There is perks in bk for after work spots....
The gym... Although gotta be careful there... Lol...
It is football season, so really ANY place with "beverages" and a big screen TV...
Umm, thats all I can muster to come up with for now...