He's having PMS...MissJ said:Can the person show that he "loves" you, but then at other times show the he kind of hates you?
lauren450 said:My dh is a chef, and anytime they serve one of my favorite foods at work, he tells his staff to set some aside for his wife. He's been doing it so long, they all know what I like now and they just do it automatically. I love seeing him walk through the door with a plate full of tiramisu with my name written across the foil.
The other day, he came home from work and I was exhausted from dealing with the kids, so he told me to take a nap. When I was asleep, he packed the kids up and left so that I could have the house to myself.
I love that he doesn't complain when the house is messy or when I don't look my best when he gets home. I know he doesn't expect me to be superwoman, and that makes me feel so secure. That even makes me WANT to be superwoman for him because I appreciate his acceptance of me.
I love that I catch him staring at me, and he doesn't even try to look away.
I love that he sends me little emails during the day.
My favorite thing that he does would have to be ironing my clothes. I SUCK at ironing, and he knows it lol. When we're going out, he'll ask me what I'm wearing and then get it and iron it without me even asking.
Mom23 said:I love my hubby so much. Some of the things he does for me:
Every morning before he leaves for work he says Good Morning beautiful, I love you and will talk to you soon.
Calls me throughout the day just to say "Hi" and let me know he loves me.
Gets our youngest in and out of the bath when I am tired by the end of the day.
Sends/brings me flowers just because.
Tells me I am the best Mom/Wife in the world.
Always tells me he believes in me, no matter what, he believes I can do it and he is the best encourager.
Buys me Dove/Godiva chocolates. (I love the stuff, but I am trying to work on my body)
He does so much more, but I'll stop here.
Shimmie said:Awwwww Gee whiz...you have an angel Mom23.
He buys you both Dove and Godiva chocolates Now see, here's a man that lets you enjoy your way to the gym... Ohhhhh, God love him...
The marriage blessings I pry for you are in Psalm 23..."He prepareth a table before me in the presence of mine enemies."
You see while others were waiting and watching for your marriage to fail, God said no; they will only see the eternal blessings; for I have kept them as the apple of mine eye...fully protected, eternally.
Stay happy, angel....
Arcadian said:Early Morning Snuggles
Late Night Snuggles
Shower Snuggles
He gets peeved if he didn't get his kisses that day. I missed doing this twice since we've lived together. Both time I got a text message asking me if I forgot something
He experiments with me with hair stuff. (hey, the man tried MTG on his type 1 hair..thats LOVE! )
He gets me flowers and stuff when I least expect it. After our first date (we were both pretty sprung) He sent me a Vermont Teddy Bear...how sweet is that?
If I get sick, he drives me crazy asking me if I need stuff (yeah honey, I need a little PEACE!)
Sure he thanks me for meals and stuff (because he's not allowed to mess up my calphalon pans!)
He's attempted to make me breakfast (oatmeal and boiled eggs...its what he's good at)
He lets me be myself. I'm a lil weird, but he's ok with that.
Oh and he let me drag him to Iceland even though he really didn't want to go. (he would have preferred something a little warmer)
-A
Shimmie said:Awwwwwww,
Lauren, you know what's really special about the food he brings home?
Your 'name' is on it. He wrote your name on it; meaning that it is dedicated exclusively for you.
He irons for you
He stares at you
He gives you 'me' time
He loves you...
I thank God that the two of you will abound and increase in love towards one another...for always. Amen
Nessa said:thank you dlewis.......
well i have a few now, that i thought about
1)sometimes he calls me in the morning,just to say good morning.. if we get cut off, he'll call again and say "i love you"
2) He respects my family and tries to get to know them better
3) He is intuitive when it comes to my feelings and thoughts (he's a cancer), so he always knows what to do....
4) When I'm crying and such....he'll comfort me, and call me "baby" the whole time ( I don't know about you, but when he says "baby" to me....awwww it sounds so good and sexy to me......damn.....)
5) He's comfortable around me and says anything on his mind, he tolerates with my *****yness sometimes...
Mom23 said:I love my hubby so much. Some of the things he does for me:
Every morning before he leaves for work he says Good Morning beautiful, I love you and will talk to you soon.
Calls me throughout the day just to say "Hi" and let me know he loves me.
Gets our youngest in and out of the bath when I am tired by the end of the day.
Sends/brings me flowers just because.
Tells me I am the best Mom/Wife in the world.
Always tells me he believes in me, no matter what, he believes I can do it and he is the best encourager.
Buys me Dove/Godiva chocolates. (I love the stuff, but I am trying to work on my body)
He does so much more, but I'll stop here.
lauren450 said:My dh is a chef, and anytime they serve one of my favorite foods at work, he tells his staff to set some aside for his wife. He's been doing it so long, they all know what I like now and they just do it automatically. I love seeing him walk through the door with a plate full of tiramisu with my name written across the foil.
The other day, he came home from work and I was exhausted from dealing with the kids, so he told me to take a nap. When I was asleep, he packed the kids up and left so that I could have the house to myself.
I love that he doesn't complain when the house is messy or when I don't look my best when he gets home. I know he doesn't expect me to be superwoman, and that makes me feel so secure. That even makes me WANT to be superwoman for him because I appreciate his acceptance of me.
I love that I catch him staring at me, and he doesn't even try to look away.
dlewis said:I believe we as women have to expect men a love us that special way and show them how to love us. I don't know if all these DH/So started out treating their women that way but my DH was a very educated thug who wasn't smooth around the edges, more like a diamond in the rough. But through my TLC he as been molded into a wonderful, loving husband who shows me that he cares for me on a daily basis.
I have always believed that love is an action word and saying the words mean nothing unless you have the action to back it.
I love this thread.
Arcadian your SO sounds very sweat.
p31woman said:I love threads like this!
Lets see...
Since I'm snaking on LHCF at wrk I'll make it short.
*He considers my feelings before he does things
*Nine times out of ten, he apologizes first, even if it was my fault.
*He takes his phone off the charger so mine can charge overnight. There have been many times where I'll wake up the next morning and laugh cause mine is now on the charger.
*He sings love songs to me( in his "best voice"
*He kisses me on the forehead
*He respects me and my opinions
*He understands that I'm trying to save the world so he doesn't complain about the MILLION and one volunteer projects I do and organizations I belong to...He actually brags about them and me to everyone...even RANDOM folks we may pass in the mall or in a Resturant.