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Plushottie
Thicc and fione
A chaos agent but I do believe many esp women compromise/contort to be acceptable but this breeds resentment and opens one to vulnerability of the constant moving goal post.
yaya24
❤️ Libra☼Gemini ☾ Sagittarius ⇗
She's polygamous and promotes that relationship style. I can't relate to whatever she's trying to convey.
Alot of women online that support the lifestyle pander to men and twist things in a weird way.
There's no right vs. wrong with consulting adults, but I just don't understand.
Alot of women online that support the lifestyle pander to men and twist things in a weird way.
There's no right vs. wrong with consulting adults, but I just don't understand.
Theresamonet
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I couldn’t really understand what point she was trying to make in the video. It was giving word salad. Was it just me?
The text is pure nonsense though. Does she think only people in Western society make compromises and sacrifices in relationships? I disagree with that misguided assumption and everything else she said. People in polygamous relationships or societies make plenty of compromises, especially the women. It’s so immature to believe you can maintain 100% autonomy and individualism in any relationship or partnership. Just being an adult in this world requires sacrifice, so why wouldn’t that apply to your most intimate relationships? Healthy people learn to balance their inner selves—their personal wants and desires—with their external commitments, for the sake of collective progress. She’s selling men the fantasy that they should never have to do anything they don’t want to, and their hardest choice should be which woman to bang each night.
The text is pure nonsense though. Does she think only people in Western society make compromises and sacrifices in relationships? I disagree with that misguided assumption and everything else she said. People in polygamous relationships or societies make plenty of compromises, especially the women. It’s so immature to believe you can maintain 100% autonomy and individualism in any relationship or partnership. Just being an adult in this world requires sacrifice, so why wouldn’t that apply to your most intimate relationships? Healthy people learn to balance their inner selves—their personal wants and desires—with their external commitments, for the sake of collective progress. She’s selling men the fantasy that they should never have to do anything they don’t want to, and their hardest choice should be which woman to bang each night.
Theresamonet
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Why are these polygamous women always trying to recruit people? Go have poly gamouses in peace and stop proselytizing.
awhyley
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No, not at all. I didn't comment (on the text) because I was like
I attempted to listen to the video, but wasn't really interested after it sounded like she was blaming women for standing on emotional business. I was reading some autonomy/monogamy confusion and I'm assuming that Kingdom Cypher, is a male-focused, money-making venture on her part. Facts.
Plushottie
Thicc and fione
Poly is such a odd path but it’s very attention seeking path. I feel they aren’t balanced people esp women as they ultimately blame women for the state of the world. I remember yrs ago reading a woman’s story who entered into such relationship unknowingly and how she was successful before meeting this dude and by the end was broke and beaten as he set her up by having one of the other girls to harm. Chaos and insecurity is wild.
Crackers Phinn
Either A Blessing Or A Lesson.
She opens the video by asking if married men's balls are in their wives' purses. Told me everything I needed to know so I don't find her being poly at all surprising.
My response is a paraphrase of what Nicki Giovanni told James Baldwin "if you can compromise for that white man who you claim to hate, you better do the same for me who you claim to love."
My response is a paraphrase of what Nicki Giovanni told James Baldwin "if you can compromise for that white man who you claim to hate, you better do the same for me who you claim to love."
TBird
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I can understand her observation’ but I personally don’t feel I have lost any of who I am to be a good wife to my one husband. If anything I feel it’s made me a better person in general someone I enjoy being. Yes if loving someone keeps you from your passions, doesn’t fulfill you, help add to what you already want in life or is in anyway abusive and you continue to sacrifice yourself for it, then yes that’s not healthy. But that has nothing to do with being with one person. Has everything to do with knowing yourself and standing on YOUR deal breakers. But I dont have initials behind my name so 
Plushottie
Thicc and fione
You have great sense. Letters behind a name means nothing. Folks will distort anything for their own validation of life sadly.I can understand her observation’ but I personally don’t feel I have lost any of who I am to be a good wife to my one husband. If anything I feel it’s made me a better person in general someone I enjoy being. Yes if loving someone keeps you from your passions, doesn’t fulfill you, help add to what you already want in life or is in anyway abusive and you continue to sacrifice yourself for it, then yes that’s not healthy. But that has nothing to do with being with one person. Has everything to do with knowing yourself and standing on YOUR deal breakers. But I dont have initials behind my name so
yaya24
❤️ Libra☼Gemini ☾ Sagittarius ⇗
Plus what the hell is PLC anyway?(PLC behind her name) .. it says "Progressive Love Certified".. Some made up nonsense to lead the blind.
People online are weird and just say anything and and unfortunately people just go with it w/o any bit of discernment.
Plushottie
Thicc and fione
People create stuff and people who are unsure of self think they have weight. Like I don’t care about phd, ceo, esq you can go to school and be dumb as he*l.
Our society the collective stays online as it’s easier to be distracted vs investigating one’s self.
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