newnyer
Well-Known Member
So my friend has been off & on in a relationship with this man for many years. They can never seem to get on one page & she has felt isolated from him for awhile so decides to talk to him about it. As the conversation goes on, she starts getting frustrated with his nonchalant attitude about her feelings & starts getting angrier in the process. He finally deads the conversation for awhile..all the while she is still feeling like things are unresolved. Well, at the end of the night, he starts trying to get playful w/ her and she's not having it...& brings the subject back up. He straight up tells her to shut up. She leaves. The next day, he apologizes, but then in the same breath tries to justify telling her to shut up because he says,"You were just frustrating me & I couldn't hear the same thing over & over anymore." So to ME, that makes the apology completely insincere.
Anyway, as she was telling me this I kept thinking to myself, MAN, if my SO ever told me to shut up i'd see it as the ultimate sign of disrespect & bounce! But then again...maybe I'm too sensitive and/or unforgiving? What lines can't be crossed in an argument for you?
Anyway, as she was telling me this I kept thinking to myself, MAN, if my SO ever told me to shut up i'd see it as the ultimate sign of disrespect & bounce! But then again...maybe I'm too sensitive and/or unforgiving? What lines can't be crossed in an argument for you?