glamazon386
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The reason I'm asking is well last night one of my friends told me that some people we know from school are getting married. This guy (my friend is actually dating his brother so she saw a lot of this firsthand) and this girl theyve dated off and on for maybe the last 5 years or so. She was like a part of his family (his dad is a preacher and they have a real tight knit family) and there was talk about them getting married before. Well they were down here out of state in school. And the guy did pretty much everything in the book to that girl. Treated her like crap. Messed with all these girls all kind of mess. I know he got one girl (a freshman when he was a super super senior mind you) pregnant twice. I'm sure there's more drama. I just wasn't around and didn't know. He pretty much sowed his oats and acted a fool while she was in out and out of school down here. When I met him I didn't even know they were together and I knew her. She's left and come back countless times. Well apparently he confessed everything he did to her. And a few weeks later proposed and she accepted. He told his family and they're looking to get married this fall.
What would you do? I mean I've had a similar experience before but at one point I just washed my hands of the whole thing. And I certainly wouldn't have married him if he proposed. I couldn't deal with it. And I know the whole time we were married it would be in the back of my head. I hope for her sake that he finally has it together and is going to do right by her. She's a great girl and deserves to be treated right.
But do you think that once a cheater (liar and whatever else you want to throw in there) always a cheater?
What would you do? I mean I've had a similar experience before but at one point I just washed my hands of the whole thing. And I certainly wouldn't have married him if he proposed. I couldn't deal with it. And I know the whole time we were married it would be in the back of my head. I hope for her sake that he finally has it together and is going to do right by her. She's a great girl and deserves to be treated right.
But do you think that once a cheater (liar and whatever else you want to throw in there) always a cheater?
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