monie20032007
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So my ex boyfriend left on Monday to go to the Navy. About 2 weeks before he left we started hanging out as much as he could before he left for the Navy. This guy seemed so perfect. He respected the fact that i wanted to wait until marriage to lose my virginity and things of that nature. He would tell me that no matter how long he had to wait he would and things like that. We weren't going out, but the ways things were going we were probably going to when he got back in March of next year. I had broken up with my other boyfriend because of that whole issue about sex before marriage, so he had me thinking that i finally found someone who would be willing to wait for me.
Before he left, we went to celebrate my sisters b-day which was the Saturday before he was to leave. We went to Red Lobster and rode in a nice limousine and just had a real good time. The next day, Sunday we went to church together along with my family and then headed for the fair, but first we had to take him to his hotel to get signed in and settled. We had a good time at the fair, holding hands, eating, and walking around. He leaves for the Navy and of course we have our moment to say goodbye. We said goodbye and off he went. About 4 days later, his ex calls me asking me are we going out. I tell her no, and we get to talking. He had his phone and other stuff sent back to his moms house and his little brother, being nosy goes through it and sees pics of me and him. He calls the ex and tells her and thats how we end up on the phone.
Long story short (not really lol) she tells me how bad he made me out to be. She was telling me that he said when we went out I cheated on him and that he caught me with my other ex in the bed together. BOLD FACE LIE. I have never had sex w/ anyone so I knew that was a lie. He also told me that his ex was a hoe and all this stuff about how she embarrassed him by the way she dressed and danced. He told me that they did not do anything w/ each other besides oral sex. So i ask her about it and she straight up declared that a lie saying that they did it so many times she lost count. I was crushed . And i get a letter from him today saying everything is ok with him and how he loves me so much and remember to write him. The things that makes me mad is that he got close to my family and she said the same things about hers. This just seemed to come out of no where, I was not expecting this at all. Now I dont know who to believe.
Maybe she is making it up so I will be mad at him and they can be together. Maybe he is a liar that needs serious help. I dont know. i was up all night thinking about all the other things he could have been lying to me about. im just confused and hurt but i know I will get through it. Thanks for listening and sorry this was extremely long.
Before he left, we went to celebrate my sisters b-day which was the Saturday before he was to leave. We went to Red Lobster and rode in a nice limousine and just had a real good time. The next day, Sunday we went to church together along with my family and then headed for the fair, but first we had to take him to his hotel to get signed in and settled. We had a good time at the fair, holding hands, eating, and walking around. He leaves for the Navy and of course we have our moment to say goodbye. We said goodbye and off he went. About 4 days later, his ex calls me asking me are we going out. I tell her no, and we get to talking. He had his phone and other stuff sent back to his moms house and his little brother, being nosy goes through it and sees pics of me and him. He calls the ex and tells her and thats how we end up on the phone.
Long story short (not really lol) she tells me how bad he made me out to be. She was telling me that he said when we went out I cheated on him and that he caught me with my other ex in the bed together. BOLD FACE LIE. I have never had sex w/ anyone so I knew that was a lie. He also told me that his ex was a hoe and all this stuff about how she embarrassed him by the way she dressed and danced. He told me that they did not do anything w/ each other besides oral sex. So i ask her about it and she straight up declared that a lie saying that they did it so many times she lost count. I was crushed . And i get a letter from him today saying everything is ok with him and how he loves me so much and remember to write him. The things that makes me mad is that he got close to my family and she said the same things about hers. This just seemed to come out of no where, I was not expecting this at all. Now I dont know who to believe.
Maybe she is making it up so I will be mad at him and they can be together. Maybe he is a liar that needs serious help. I dont know. i was up all night thinking about all the other things he could have been lying to me about. im just confused and hurt but i know I will get through it. Thanks for listening and sorry this was extremely long.
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