Thanks for the tip. I'm not trying to have issues with my natural edges that are ahead of the game so will definitely take your advice.
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@caliscurls
For those of you whose edges are natural...how are you dealing with that in terms of styling?? How do you not look crazy ... Lol
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35 weeks today:
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Still wear my hair in a twist out 24/7 and put it into a bun. View attachment 263291
On the weekend, I just wear it in a messy bun.
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coolsista-paris Its pretty popular among the haircare lovers. Its awesome for heat styling. I actually use it today to lightly press my hair. My hair dried/straighten SO FLIPPIN' EASY! The moisture you retain from it is pretty amazing.
I really want to be natural again. Transitioning sucks Takes forever. Two different textures always combating with each other. Blargh. About 4 months post and totally over this transition this. I have BC'ed 4 times in the past before too. That said, I know if I BC now, I will not be happy with my length. I just miss having fun with my hair. I am debating dying it red and just having big curls for the summer. I don't really want weave again so soon. Scared for my edges.
put some braids on! i had the urge to shave ( mad at my hair).... i put braids on. il taking them doNw but i will do something else to ps. need a rest from my hairI am almost 6 moths post relaxer and I am about to throw in the towel!! This is too much d*** work!! I have been weaved up for the last 4 months(not consecutive) so it has been easy, but on friday when I took my weave out and washed my hair I almost cried several times. This is my first time transitioning and my two textures don't play nice together at all. I had to flat iron in order to get it to look like anything and by the next morning my roots are puffy and my hair is tangled again. My hair probably needs more moisture but I do not want to repeat last wash day!! Lord, I need some help, either I am going to relax or get braids for the summer. I am trying the let my hair rest because the weave I just took out did a number on my edges on one side.I just don't know what to do and right now I am really feeling the urge to relax!
I am almost 6 moths post relaxer and I am about to throw in the towel!! This is too much d*** work!! I have been weaved up for the last 4 months(not consecutive) so it has been easy, but on friday when I took my weave out and washed my hair I almost cried several times. This is my first time transitioning and my two textures don't play nice together at all. I had to flat iron in order to get it to look like anything and by the next morning my roots are puffy and my hair is tangled again. My hair probably needs more moisture but I do not want to repeat last wash day!! Lord, I need some help, either I am going to relax or get braids for the summer. I am trying the let my hair rest because the weave I just took out did a number on my edges on one side.I just don't know what to do and right now I am really feeling the urge to relax!
yoleee
Girl! You're making me NOT want to take this weave out even though I have to...
I know exactly what you're feeling though... Exactly...I've been in the shower wanting to cry when doing my hair on my own....I've had a weave for about the past two months...if if werent for that I would've thrown in the towel probably...
can you do another wash/DC and then bun with the scarf method?
Or I would use heat until you can get into another protective style. With your weave are your edges being left out?? I would definitely leave your edges out...no need to risk the edges. Granted I've only had one weave in my life but my edges were untouched ...it makes blending the leave out harder but worth it to save your edges…
Trust me were in the same boat...it might also help to read through thread from the beginning and take notes .. You can do it!!!
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^^ I like the product but I can't see myself getting those types of results. At least not on this transitioning hair.
caliscurls honestly I just noticed a couple of weeks ago when I was doing a length check while my hair was wet. Since I wear my hair straight 100% of the time I hadn't realized the edges on one side were completely natural. I'm still scratching my head at just noticing this since I've got 14 months of new growth
To your question: Every week to two weeks I do one of the following after my HOT, condition wash and DC routine:
- Tension Blow Dry
- Air dry in braids then flat iron on low
- Set on curlformers
My hair is worn in some type of updo or bun 100% of the time. I workout intensely 5-6 days a week and either cover my head with a scarf if I'm at home or if I go to the gym wear a wide head band. Neither are removed until my hair has dried after the workout.
Every night I use the LCO method on them then tie down with a scarf.
Even though the texture of my sides are 4b they stay pretty straight doing the above.
@enexitstageleft
I know you didn't ask me but
Try This:
Moisturize/Seal your edges at night and apply just a tad bit of a edge pomade (like Hicks Edges, Curls Control Paste, and Etc.) and tie them down with a scarf.
In the morning lightly apply a Water Based moisturizer, apply your gel (don't be scared to use the amount you need), and seal the gel with a tad bit of oil (this keeps it from becoming to crunchy if you just so happen to over apply). Reapply you scarf for 15-30 minutes to allow it to set in place.
Once you remove it your edges should be slicked to the heavens.
Its how I get my hair from this: (10 months post)
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To this: (10 months post)
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^^^^^These are after a wash day.
This is after my hair has been air dried/stretched for a week (I'm 12 months post).
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I find that the more moisturize the edges are the better they smooth. If your hair is a bit more coarse I suggest spritzing it with a water based mist or even water itself. then applying the moisturizer, pomade and scarf. The next day steps should be just as breezy.
Hope this helps
SuchaLady I meant to come in here earlier to talk about this but never wrote out the response. I might look for a smoothing product such as ORS pudding because I'm not with this CON is expanding their line and I saw a curly pudding that looking interesting. My issue is that my holding products are defining my hair instead of slicking it
That's what always has me sooooo confused! How can a fully natural head get slicker results than a transitioning head. It makes absolutely no sense