I met a gentleman about 2 weeks ago and he is considerably older. We went on a date earlier this week. LOVELY. Since I am divorced I wanted to try a new approach to dating since I have been out of the service for a bit of time. Plus taking time after the divorce to get my head right. So I read "The Rules" book and it is ok for what it is. I am going to incorporate some into what I am doing, I am not playing games but I do want to keep him interest.
I am not blowing up his phone. I am not rattling off at the mouth about nothing. We have been speaking with each other about every other day for about 15-20 minutes.
He told me that he likes me and is looking forward to knowing more, I am beautiful.........
Those of you who keep it casual, how has this worked out for you. Just to let you know I am very impatient but I know I have to take it slow.
What are some of your tips on taking it slow? I have read the other threads about "The Rules" that some think are playing games blah blah blah so that really isn't needed at this point in time since I have decided I am going to use them anyway.
ETA: We have all ready had the discussion about neither one of us wants to get married and no shacking. He has never been married but has one adult child. I do not want children. So there is no marriage pressure.
I am not blowing up his phone. I am not rattling off at the mouth about nothing. We have been speaking with each other about every other day for about 15-20 minutes.
He told me that he likes me and is looking forward to knowing more, I am beautiful.........
Those of you who keep it casual, how has this worked out for you. Just to let you know I am very impatient but I know I have to take it slow.
What are some of your tips on taking it slow? I have read the other threads about "The Rules" that some think are playing games blah blah blah so that really isn't needed at this point in time since I have decided I am going to use them anyway.
ETA: We have all ready had the discussion about neither one of us wants to get married and no shacking. He has never been married but has one adult child. I do not want children. So there is no marriage pressure.
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