Mandy4610
Well-Known Member
I posted this in the hair forum as well because it is partly to do with hair.
Ok, this is gonna sound really strange and you guys need to hear me out.
I really need to get my hair cornrowed. I had a stylist that was gonna do it for me, but she never got back to me and did not return my calls.
So, today I was talking to DH about this, he mentions that his female "kind of friend" does cornrows.
Well, here is the weird problematic part.....DH and this so called "kind of friend" used to hang out a long long time ago and a couple of times "THINGS" happened back in the day (Lawd, my heart is uncomfortable even as I type this)
I have always known about this and I have met this woman...It was a long time ago I told myself and it was two friends and things happened, it was way way before me.
Now I have met her and everything....but then DH tells me that this woman had tried to throw herself on him when she found out that he had met me........ CAN SOMEONE SAY PIIIIIIIVVVVEEEDDDD OFF!
Would you get your hair done by such a woman?
Am I absolutely crazy to feel like I do not want her hands up in my hair?
I was fine with knowing things happened way back and I met her because she is the only living "friend" DH has and I know from DH's part he will not speak to her unless I am around.
Heck she did my hair for me once before....but now that I know she tried to get with my man after she found out he had met me, I am uncomfortable to let her do my hair.
If I am being weird please tell me. I know it is a long time ago, but I can't understand this kind of woman.
In case anyone is wondering why DH and I still even speak to this woman, it is because when she used to hang out with DH 10yrs ago, she got herself preggo by some dude and when the baby was born DH, his friends and his family did a lot for the baby because this woman used to leave the baby with them while she partied, so DH has always had a good relationship with this woman's daughter( NO DH is not the father) DH and I still help her daughter out when she can't do it because she is out partying and sleeping around.
I NEEDED THAT VENTING...
Is it weird for me to continue to have anything to do with this woman and her daughter? Because I do feel weird. I know DH will cut all ties as soon as I say the word.
ETA: She has her own man now.
Ok, this is gonna sound really strange and you guys need to hear me out.
I really need to get my hair cornrowed. I had a stylist that was gonna do it for me, but she never got back to me and did not return my calls.
So, today I was talking to DH about this, he mentions that his female "kind of friend" does cornrows.
Well, here is the weird problematic part.....DH and this so called "kind of friend" used to hang out a long long time ago and a couple of times "THINGS" happened back in the day (Lawd, my heart is uncomfortable even as I type this)
I have always known about this and I have met this woman...It was a long time ago I told myself and it was two friends and things happened, it was way way before me.
Now I have met her and everything....but then DH tells me that this woman had tried to throw herself on him when she found out that he had met me........ CAN SOMEONE SAY PIIIIIIIVVVVEEEDDDD OFF!
Would you get your hair done by such a woman?
Am I absolutely crazy to feel like I do not want her hands up in my hair?
I was fine with knowing things happened way back and I met her because she is the only living "friend" DH has and I know from DH's part he will not speak to her unless I am around.
Heck she did my hair for me once before....but now that I know she tried to get with my man after she found out he had met me, I am uncomfortable to let her do my hair.
If I am being weird please tell me. I know it is a long time ago, but I can't understand this kind of woman.
In case anyone is wondering why DH and I still even speak to this woman, it is because when she used to hang out with DH 10yrs ago, she got herself preggo by some dude and when the baby was born DH, his friends and his family did a lot for the baby because this woman used to leave the baby with them while she partied, so DH has always had a good relationship with this woman's daughter( NO DH is not the father) DH and I still help her daughter out when she can't do it because she is out partying and sleeping around.
I NEEDED THAT VENTING...
Is it weird for me to continue to have anything to do with this woman and her daughter? Because I do feel weird. I know DH will cut all ties as soon as I say the word.
ETA: She has her own man now.
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