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Nyambura said:
I don't think the dryness is related to his hair color. The dryness may have more to do with his hair texture. I know you said you put a good conditioner in his hair - but two things came to mind:
(1) perhaps what's proven to be a good conditioner for you and your other little one doesn't work as well on your six-year-old; I don't which conditioners you've tried but I like Elucence, Aubrey Organics and Jason Naturals (esp. the Vitamin A, C, and E conditioner)...I know Supergirl has found great success with the Deep Brilliance line (sold through JC Penney's, I believe)...I also like Clairol Herbal Essence's Fruit Fusions Hydrating conditioner and recently picked up Suave Professionals Humectant conditioner based on Hairlove's rec...there are many conditioners to choose from...don't give up hope!
(2) I don't have red hair but my hair has to receive moisture daily ... at the risk of sounding like a broken record, have you tried spritzing his hair with distilled water? Maybe try a mixture of d-water and jojoba oil or olive oil and spritz it in his hair daily (or at least 2x/day, morning and night).
Also, does your little one sleep on a satin pillowcase? The cotton would also be drying to his hair. Perhaps he's also got product buildup - if you're concerned about using a harsh shampoo on him, I know a number of members have found success using baking soda as an effective clarifier.
Also, a preshampoo treatment of honey (a humectant) mixed with the oil of your choice might also help...
Good luck!
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Ditto that, but I also want to say it's true that sleeping on silk, satin, or highly refined polyester helps incredibly! Over the holidys, I forgot to bring something with me to my in-laws house and every morning my hair was dry as a weed. I had bad hair for a week and had to moisturize and style every day!! Now that I have my satin, I have a good hair day every morning. Sometimes, I apply a little warm oil and I comb and go or u can moisturize at night before your son goes to bed. By the way, it's always the back of my hair that gets dry from not using satin. The front and top of my hair is always soft.