Strange Sex!......(Question)

[Divine_Order]

He's bi-sexual

 

[Renewed1]

Believe it or not. I knew a woman who was married and she would put a strap on for her husband and do him. I asked her was he ever gay and she cursed me out.

But we all know.......

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

Ok...there is nothing on God's green Earth that can "force" a man to be on the DL. We as women need to stop taking accountability for a man's actions. If a man is gay, and does not disclose this information...it is NOT the woman's fault regardless of how close-minded she is to certain sexual acts.

To me...there is a HUGE difference between simple prostate stimulation (which can be done with a finger) and a woman donning a fake, veiny, life-like penis and engaging in anal sex with a man. So I think it's needless to say that any man who gets a kick out of having a penis-like object inserted into his crevice, coupled with vigorous thrusting action, is definitely, 100%, undeniably homosexual.

Nobody's taking accountability for anything. All I'm saying is this inability to be openminded might make a man feel that's his choice. If he can't be open to women he's in bed with about what he wants, but the other side is (another man, tranny or escort), then that's probably what he's going to do. Doesn't make it right, just kinda makes me think IF men felt more comfortable with themselves sexually... WOULD they go as far as to mess with other men? I'm pretty sure maybe one or two might reconsider.

My point is... if he's not CHOOSING a live man to be with, then he hasn't expressed any bi or homosexuality. Anything between two a consenting man and woman behind closed doors is heterosexual. When another person of the same sex is brought in, then it's another story. Stimulation is stimulation. If he likes a dildo because it's more "filling," then good for him.

Again, I just question if dude's problem with needing to pay for it is the fact he cannot get or trust his woman to do it for him and therefore he cannot let go with her, so he goes elsewhere.

If your man said that was what he wanted, would you continue to deal with him? Probably not, and that's your choice. I may venture to agree with you on that one, because I have no plans of strapping up on anything. But I'm not going to label someone off something that pleasures them... and is biologically rooted to feel pleasurable.

 

[tiara76]

Nobody's taking accountability for anything. All I'm saying is this inability to be openminded might make a man feel that's his choice. If he can't be open to women he's in bed with about what he wants, but the other side is (another man, tranny or escort), then that's probably what he's going to do. Doesn't make it right, just kinda makes me think IF men felt more comfortable with themselves sexually... WOULD they go as far as to mess with other men? I'm pretty sure maybe one or two might reconsider.

My point is... if he's not CHOOSING a live man to be with, then he hasn't expressed any bi or homosexuality. Anything between two a consenting man and woman behind closed doors is heterosexual. When another person of the same sex is brought in, then it's another story. Stimulation is stimulation. If he likes a dildo because it's more "filling," then good for him.

Again, I just question if dude's problem with needing to pay for it is the fact he cannot get or trust his woman to do it for him and therefore he cannot let go with her, so he goes elsewhere.

If your man said that was what he wanted, would you continue to deal with him? Probably not, and that's your choice. I may venture to agree with you on that one, because I have no plans of strapping up on anything. But I'm not going to label someone off something that pleasures them... and is biologically rooted to feel pleasurable.

I was just having this discussion the other day...and I agree with and understand what you are saying...

on the flip side I know alot of lesbians who like strap ons.....and people always ask them how come if they want the feeling of a penis inside of them then why don't they just go get a man with a real one, and its not so simple as that....they like the essence of the woman, evn the woman who exhibits more masculine energy they prefer over a male.... but they like the feeling and stimulation that the dildo shaped like a penis feels they would prefer a man not be attached to it....

however on deeper levels of sexuality.....i will come back to this

 

[DarlingNikki]

Strange however, he may be bi/DL

Those both equate to GAY .

 

[Blossssom]

Somebody is craving a big ole glass of penile juice!

 

[FlowerHair]

I would personally be turned off.
No offense to those that love those type of things.

 

[jshug]

I say he's gay. If I even pretend like I want to move a finger down with my husband during sex, I've ruined the night...let alone a dildo...... If he is your man, RUN!

 

[mzlatisha]

well i think he is gay but maybe he is just freaky...
SMH...

 

[yokoyokogirl]

OK,....here goes...... & I hope this does not get me into trouble with the Moderators.

I heard about this and it left me stunned, "trumatized" and completely perplexed.

My question. If a man (as part of a fetish act) asks a :whipgirl:woman to "do" him with a strap-on what is his "status"? AND does this signal that he's avoiding his "true" identity? OR Is it just me would interpret this fetish as more than a lil'suspect?nono:

He's gay. Unless you like doing him with a strap-on, on the regular--run. (Cause it will prolly become a regular request.)

I'm seriously worried about any man who wants something in his booty. But hey, that's just me...

 

[yokoyokogirl]

Yeah I meant to add the prostrate can be totally stimulated with a finger or two at the most. But a full on thick peewee shaped thingy thrusting hard back and forth...is totally another thing. (Sorry that is one nasty visual image.)

Or he could like to be dominated and not want anyone to know about this fetish, therefore he pays for it.

I know A guy who let B guy pay him to put a banana in his hole and then the guy ate it, peed on him, and dragged him around on a leash. The A guy swears he's straight and just wanted to experiment.

Go to "shinjuku nichome" any Friday night and you can see this Black man.

I ain't judging...I'm just saying...

 

[Ivonnovi]

Yes, it was part of that situation. I just couldn't wrap my mind around a man wanting to be "ravished like a woman"....and in that "way".

Yeah I meant to add the prostrate can be totally stimulated with a finger or two at the most. But a full on thick peewee shaped thingy thrusting hard back and forth...is totally another thing. (Sorry that is one nasty visual image.)

Or he could like to be dominated and not want anyone to know about this fetish, therefore he pays for it.

I know A guy who let B guy pay him to put a banana in his hole and then the guy ate it, peed on him, and dragged him around on a leash. The A guy swears he's straight and just wanted to experiment.

Go to "shinjuku nichome" any Friday night and you can see this Black man.

I ain't judging...I'm just saying...

 

[awhyley]

Or he could like to be dominated and not want anyone to know about this fetish, therefore he pays for it.

I know A guy who let B guy pay him to put a banana in his hole and then the guy ate it, peed on him, and dragged him around on a leash. The A guy swears he's straight and just wanted to experiment.

Straight up freak!!!