Strange Sex!......(Question)

[Ivonnovi]

OK,....here goes...... & I hope this does not get me into trouble with the Moderators.

I heard about this and it left me stunned, "trumatized" and completely perplexed.

My question. If a man (as part of a fetish act) asks a :whipgirl:woman to "do" him with a strap-on what is his "status"? AND does this signal that he's avoiding his "true" identity? OR Is it just me would interpret this fetish as more than a lil'suspect?nono:


I updated this at response #29: Worth noting!

• "First being that the "he" is not my man/date/friend/associate, at all.
• Second, is that he paid for this "favor"."

 

[SUPER SWEET]

Hmmmm 2 choices
A. He's gay
B. They both some freaks...just freaky

 

[Helpmeblongagain]

WTF??

If this is your man, RUN!! Yes, he's GAY...a certified ankle grabber...and he prob sees men on the low...one of those post on craigslist looking for a discrete a gay relationship...

 

[Empressive]

He is Kyle from COLLEGE HILL!

 

[browny1978]

********* he's on the the "other" team!!!!!!! CLEARLY!

 

[Angelicus]

I asked my gay friend about this and he said that the person is Gay.

 

[*~*Afrolicious*~*]

OK,....here goes...... & I hope this does not get me into trouble with the Moderators

I received this info from the "Whorses' mouth and it left me stunned, "trumatized" and completely perplexed. I gotta ask.

My question. If a man (as part of a fetish act) asks a woman to "do" him with a strap on what is his "status"? AND what if the woman he asks is a "unwomanly" looking does this signal that he's avoiding his "true" identity? OR Is it just me getting that kind of signal

He's not a man I'd want to date.

 

[Qualitee]

I think if a man want a women to do anything to his butt while having sex is sssoo "How you doing, Ms.Hunnnyyy?"..........Hes gay all the way.

 

[DMJ's Mom]

I'd say at the very least he's Bi.

 

[rainbowknots]

That fool is sweeter than a Hershey bar!

 

[MarcustheWu]

I think that it is just as likely that he is straight and likes to have his prostrate stimulated. It is supposed to feel good.

 

[Harina]

That fool is sweeter than a Hershey bar!

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

Objectively speaking, men have prostates that are accessible through their anus.
When properly stimulated, the prostate is the equivalent of the male g-spot.
It takes a man who is neither gay, nor bi ----- simply comfortable with his sexuality ---- to truly enjoy this experience with another person.

This isn't to say his orientation doesn't seem unjustifiably "questionable"; it can be a topic of honest discussion. But the responses here - "he's an ankle grabber," "my gay friend says he's gay," "girl you know he's gay" - would probably force meN to be on the DL as well. Most DL men say it's a "freaky experience" ... not a desire for men. Perhaps it's because they can't be honest about prostate stimulation? Or a desire to try anal without their women giving them side eye fever?

 

[Lilakoi’s_Sister]

He's gay!!!

ETA: I understand all the prostate stimulation responses, I really do but... to me a man that wants a paynus (real or otherwise) in his behind is either on the dl or flat out gay.

 

[Finally Free]

certified ankle grabber

 

[DarlingNikki]

I'm not sure if "fetish" is the correct term. More like gay tendencies. I would run in the other direction.

 

[kismettt]

o i would never do that & i probably would refuse to continue to see him because it would weird me out. sexuality to me is fluid, but if i was not born with those parts & you want me to strap it on, then maybe you are not falling on my end of the spectrum.

 

[DarlingNikki]

You can stimulate the prostate with a finger. The request for a strap-on sounds like he is on some role-play type ish. And the one wearing it is playing the role of a man!

 

[Lylddlebit]

I have no clue...I never understood toys. I feel like the man made copy doesn't have a thing on the authentic version. To but each their own, another reason why what people do in the bedroom should remain between them. It's not like they are going to stop doing what they like because an onlooker says eww.

 

[ForTheLoveOfHair]

If my man ever asks me to do such a thing I think I would probably beat him to death with the dildo/strap on thingy.

 

[Princess Tam Tam]

If my man ever asks me to do such a thing I think I would probably beat him to death with the dildo/strap on thingy.

 

[Tee]

I would say he is a super freak. But this is very suspect too. I'm just saying.

 

[shelly25]

That's sooo suspect......

 

[song_of_serenity]

I can understand the stimulation...I mean, honestly, from my reading on the subject, all it takes is a finger...
But donning a FULL ON, PENIS SHAPED, intended to take the place of a penis, look like a penis STRAP ON "is" kind of suspect.
It COULD be his kink, but I'd wonder...

 

[Sosoothing]

That is more than a lil suspect.
I would break up with him on the spot and probably get tested if we have had relations before. In my opinion, that is not a normal request from a straight man.

 

[TayMac]

I'd say he's bi and leaning more towards the gay side since he is bringing THAT into his male/female relationship.

 

[Highly Favored8]

Strange however, he may be bi/DL

 

[Mai Tai]

Objectively speaking, men have prostates that are accessible through their anus.
When properly stimulated, the prostate is the equivalent of the male g-spot.
It takes a man who is neither gay, nor bi ----- simply comfortable with his sexuality ---- to truly enjoy this experience with another person.

This isn't to say his orientation doesn't seem unjustifiably "questionable"; it can be a topic of honest discussion. But the responses here - "he's an ankle grabber," "my gay friend says he's gay," "girl you know he's gay" - would probably force meN to be on the DL as well. Most DL men say it's a "freaky experience" ... not a desire for men. Perhaps it's because they can't be honest about prostate stimulation? Or a desire to try anal without their women giving them side eye fever?

Ok...there is nothing on God's green Earth that can "force" a man to be on the DL. We as women need to stop taking accountability for a man's actions. If a man is gay, and does not disclose this information...it is NOT the woman's fault regardless of how close-minded she is to certain sexual acts.

To me...there is a HUGE difference between simple prostate stimulation (which can be done with a finger) and a woman donning a fake, veiny, life-like penis and engaging in anal sex with a man. So I think it's needless to say that any man who gets a kick out of having a penis-like object inserted into his crevice, coupled with vigorous thrusting action, is definitely, 100%, undeniably homosexual.

 

[Ivonnovi]

Thanks for the responses. Had to clarify/add a few things here.

First being that the "he" is not my man/date/friend/associate, at all.
Second, is that he paid for this "favor".

I heard about this 2nd hand and was like, wow..... so..... if..... a...(otherwise straight) ..man.... (asks to) get "done" by a woman ..... what does that make him? My thoughts were that it makes him a surpressed homosexual; why not just date a "tranny" and be done with it? I dunno. The whole situation made as much sense to me as the little silly chicks who take it up the boo-boo to save there virginity.

JDAH! (Just dumb as hell) < I just make that one up

 

[Almaz]

Thank you very mature response.

Objectively speaking, men have prostates that are accessible through their anus.
When properly stimulated, the prostate is the equivalent of the male g-spot.
It takes a man who is neither gay, nor bi ----- simply comfortable with his sexuality ---- to truly enjoy this experience with another person.

This isn't to say his orientation doesn't seem unjustifiably "questionable"; it can be a topic of honest discussion. But the responses here - "he's an ankle grabber," "my gay friend says he's gay," "girl you know he's gay" - would probably force meN to be on the DL as well. Most DL men say it's a "freaky experience" ... not a desire for men. Perhaps it's because they can't be honest about prostate stimulation? Or a desire to try anal without their women giving them side eye fever?