I would take that pill in a SECOND. You'd be like, Hey if you take this pill it'll make your hair 3--
And before you were even done with your sentence that pill'd be in my mouth, baby.
My entire life I have drooled over 3a/3b hair. All the other girls wanted relaxers, but not me. I wanted 3a/3b hair. I wanted to wash my hair, put some moisturizer in it & rock my pretty curls, shaking them in people's faces.
So when I was 14, I was finally allowed to get a perm & I got a pic of a girl w 3a hair & showed it to my Mom and my hair dresser and said, this is what I want. I want a curly perm(I forget the name of the perm but whatever). They both said that I couldn't get my hair like that. The perm would make me look like I had a really long jerri-curl (my hair was MBL-WSL straight then). After a lot of convincing about how ugly my hair would look, I got a relaxer.
And here I am today. Wanting to punch all the 3a/3b girls on the board in the face.
"TUSKEGEE experiment, Sickle Cell, "HIV AIDS Virus" and all the dead in Africa blessed by the chemical experimentations to decimate and eradicate their populations is something to consider before taking this pill. I could never trust any pill the scientists concoct that is aimed toward the black population specifically.
Some Info to consider
http://www.apfn.org/apfn/aids.htm http://www.boydgraves.com/news/101102.html bonjour
These answers are sad. Especially coming from naturals.
Ash summed it up for me so very well. I'd take the pill and get a large supply of them for the very reasons she mentioned above. Being active and in water all the time makes having 4a/4b natural hair a huge challenge to work around, that's just fact. I love my hair, it just seems that 3b would be less work and would make it eaiser for me to be active with the sweating, swimming, sauna, humidity, ocean play, adult play, etc. Then wasing and styling wouldn't be a multi hour ordeal.HELLLLLLL yes!!! Im not even gonna lie. Only becase im very active. I love to swim, dance, run, exercise, etc. SWEAT/SWIMMING=Naps, tangles, hair breaking, sore arms, and not to mention lots of stress on my hair. To be able walk in the rain without saying "Awwww sh**" while I duck and run with some paper over my head becuase I forgot my umbrella, to be able to relax and let the shower run over my head everyday, to be able to sit in a steam room or jacuzzi without coming out looking like Ms. Foo-Foo, to dance and run without saying "I can't do too much becuase I don't to sweat my hair out", or to swim carefree ARE ALL a LUXURY TO ME!!!!!! I LOOOVE MY HAIR but boy oh boy is it tough to deal with!!! My mom and I always look at "others" at the pool or beach and then make eye contact with each other and say IT'S NOT FAIRRRRR! LOL.....A lot of you say this is sad....HMMM IT AINT SAD TO ME!!! AT ALL!! Just honest...
I think the thing that is going to help me is to get some length. I did the BC to 1/2 inch in December and now I have 5 inches of healthy, shinny thick 4a/4b hair that loves to shrink. It doesn't tangle, I have little to no shedding but if I don't let it dry braided it shrinks up to 1 inch of packed density! I know for a fact when I get some more length, enough to band it into two pony tails or to make a pony in general the sky's the limit. But for now I am in the ackward stage...Nah. My 4b hair is too cool. I can put it in a style then spend the next two weeks living my life. That style can last through 3-5 sessions at the gym, swim lessons, 8-12 hours of dance a week and still br presentable for school and play. I actually went from scuba diving in the ocean to showering at the scuba shack followed by a trip to the mall and dinner at a resturant. Because my styles hold up to muliple washings in a week I'm good to go! I don't have to run from the rain, my hair loves the humidity, and it retained more length when I was swimming weekly! Being able to style my hair once a week or once every two weeks is amazing. I don't know if other hair types can do this or not, but I really have no reason to switch.
Lys
I'm possibly 3b (not quite sure because it's a varied mix) and I'd longed for 4a when I was younger.
My braids would always slip out and come undone quicker than my friends and I couldn't have the same afro puffs. My hair was a lot more straight when I was younger but still too puffy/kinky to wear down on a normal basis.
I think the thing that is going to help me is to get some length. I did the BC to 1/2 inch in December and now I have 5 inches of healthy, shinny thick 4a/4b hair that loves to shrink. It doesn't tangle, I have little to no shedding but if I don't let it dry braided it shrinks up to 1 inch of packed density! I know for a fact when I get some more length, enough to band it into two pony tails or to make a pony in general the sky's the limit. But for now I am in the ackward stage...
It's encouraging to hear that you are able to style and be active, that is my ultimate goal. I know I have some learning to do about how to style my natural hair. I am checking out the link in your siggy now, I know I need to educate myself about my natural hair and my styling options. I know it loves natural butters and natural products ...avocado butter is my baby daddy!!
ETA: I know I am going to be as comfortable with my hair as you are with yours one day, I am very encouraged
No. And the implication that my natural hair is less than acceptable is unacceptable.
ETA: after the Tuskegee experiment, I trust NO DRUGS geared toward a specific racial/ethnic group. I don't like taking medicine anyway. I'll do an occasional Motrin for a menstral cramp. THAT'S IT!
@ the bolded.^^^^
UPDATE:
Of course it is. LOL
Keep telling yourself that everyone's relaxing for 'convenience'...
And I have to give to the OP serious props: This is the slickest way I've ever seen anyone pose a 'good hair' preference question and actually get ppl to admit to wanting 'good hair'...
KUDOS!!
Ok--'good hair lovers' don't get pissed at me. I'm just noticing--not judging. That's your ish. So It is what it is.
If it makes you feel any better I don't like the appearance of 'beady beads'...
2nd update:
What's even more interesting is the fact that the Nappy Nazis are nowhere to be found!
Wow....
Anywho
Nah...I like my hair as is.
I actually prefer the look of coils to all that 'spanish wave' mess.
I think I'm a 3c/4a/4b (i dunno) but I have different textures all over.
I WOULD take a hair-growth pill.
Plus the grass isn't always greener.
My cousin's little girl has 3c 'big hair' type and it is pretty, yes...but difficult to manage. Much shrinkage and the hair only looks cute in curly styles...
When I fist saw this thread (Last year) my first thought was to say Hell NO. Now yes I would....answer may change in a few months...
ETA: wait I'm not a 4ab am a 3b/3c/2b/1/10z mix and I would still change. I don't know to what though...I don't really like 1s and 2s so....