humility1990
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Ladies who have been heartbroken before, but have learned how to not let it happen again, could you please share your strategies?
Don't date..............................................................................................................................................................................ever
lmao. I know when you break up with someone that there is pain involved. I'm talking about how to avoid the soul crushing pain I've witnessed.
But seriously you should love God more than anything and anyone. If you love God more than anything and anyone in the world his love will envelop you. No one can hurt you because you know you have God. God should be your boyfriend and you will attract men like that. Dating and marry who follows God and has the head of Christ will help.
If you date because you're lonely or looking for a person to fill anything that you think you're missing you'll always find yourself heart broken because you are getting something from a man that can be taken away. No one can take God from you
Christianity ... Or what part confused you?
Building a relationship with God so you weed out men that won't love you like Christ loved the church. And if you so happen to date the wrong guy, then you're heart shouldn't be broken because you have God.
But I guess that depends on your belief system
I'm not a fan of church either. It's an institution.so we are probably on the same page
But seriously you should love God more than anything and anyone. If you love God more than anything and anyone in the world his love will envelop you. No one can hurt you because you know you have God. God should be your boyfriend and you will attract men like that. Dating and marry who follows God and has the head of Christ will help. If you date because you're lonely or looking for a person to fill anything that you think you're missing you'll always find yourself heart broken because you are getting something from a man that can be taken away. No one can take God from you
What's your take ladies? I hear from a lot of people that the heartbreak feels worse with someone you were sexually involved with compared to someone with whom you weren't.
I can see this being true, but humanity is still there; you will still get hurt.