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By some of these definitions, no one here is natural.
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Also, I disagree that the debate about what is natural and what isn't will regress the 'movement', I dont think it will affect it at all. People will just go about doing what they would usually do and deem it natural if they want to. Who am I or anyone else to dictate someone else's head of hair?
Now this, I felt is kind of presumptuous, bolded. "Interesting bunch", meaning people who you think shouldn't categorize themselves as natural? For you to feel that way, you're making assumptions:
-why they went natural
-and possibly that they feel they belong to some 'exclusive group'
Not everyone who goes natural does it to be 'conscious'. Some do it because of allergies, cosmetic reasons, etc. Does it make her less natural? Now mindsets for going natural are thrown into the myriads of technicalities?
Like Bint Yusef who said earlier that relaxers didnt work for her hair. Let's say she wanted straight hair though, and resorted to weaves to achieve it. So she braids up her hair and gets a sew in all the time, it makes her 'not' natural? Her own hair texture or state isn't really being altered.
No one's gonna agree, but it would be great if we tried to not assume all naturals are on this high horse about not being relaxed. I think this is the core of why there are so many differing views on this topic.
Goodness, I thought for sure this thread would die by now. Since I was called "presumptuous," I had to come back here and post again on this topic.
First, yes these debates do affect who will choose to go natural. Imagine if you were just contemplating going natural and you ran across a few of these threads.That's what happened to me a few years ago when I found a different hair board. I was like, WTH??? If it takes all that to be natural, forget it!!!! I still feel that way.
Second, I could care less how anyone choose to categorize him or herself. My hair is relaxed. It makes zero difference in my real life.
Third, if you wear weaves, yes your hair is still natural underneath, but NO, if you're walking around with a full head of weave, there's nothing "natural" about that. My post was not about women wearing weaves, but about women who wear weaves and preach against relaxers, or "heat training."
You may not have a relaxer in your head, but you're wearing FAKE HAIR. Yes, you can still use the "natural" label to describe the hair that you're HIDING, but if everyone around you knows you have extensions in your hair, what image of black women do you think you're putting out there? How does it differ from a woman who chooses to relax her hair, or heat train her hair, or BKT her hair or whatever? Are you showing how "proud" you are of your real, natural hair while wearing a weave? At least I'm not HIDING my chemically-altered hair.
I think "naturals" who wear weaves should really take a step back from judging others. If you're not one of those people, then this doesn't apply to you.
Fourth, umm I can't help it if you don't want anyone to "bring mindsets" into the discussion. That's how I feel when it's brought up about relaxed heads in every single thread. The mixed up idea is that you can color your hair, spend hundreds of dollars on products trying to grow your hair, get highlights/bleach, and wear all the weaves, braids and wigs you want, but the MINUTE you relax your hair, you have *issues* okayyyyy................. Someone could easily browse LHCF and see how much energy, time, and money we spend in the pursuit of longer hair and come to the conclusion that we ALL have a complex.
<------Someone could easily browse LHCF and see how much energy, time, and money we spend in the pursuit of longer hair and come to the conclusion that we ALL have a complex.
MY definition of natural hair, is hair in its naturally curly/coily/wavy/kinky state. I honestly believe that any chemical processes that are done to alter one's natural state, is no longer a natural head of hair.
(BTW, I'm on the fence about color treatment being unnatural, as I'm learning more about dyeing the hair with natural/chemical-free products like Henna, etc.).
Just my two-cents....![]()
I used to be on the fence about color. But, I just see it as another decorative option. But, it shouldn't be considered the same as relaxers, texlexers, and texturizers that change the natural texture.
(I'm still confused as to why texlaxers feel that they have the best of both worlds, though. You are still using relaxers. It's nothing like having natural hair.)