glamazon386
Well-Known Member
If the iron/blowdryer is too hot, you can damage your hair. Each head of hair has a different tolerance.
This site goes through phases, about 2 years ago it was BKT and now it's heat. People get on here and see someone with a beautiful BKT then they gotta have it. Now it's the same thing with heat, it will pass.
I say true, but everyone is different. Some can take the heat other's can't. Do you really want to be in the situation and find out that your hair can't take it? A lot of people do not believe in heat damage, they believe in heat training. I hate to burst bubbles but ,heat training IS heat damage, call it what cha like.
I am proud to be heat and chemical free for 13+ years. I can honestly say that I have not thought about using either. I see no need for heat and chemicals in MY LIFE.
PS - It's one thing to believe heat to one's hair is damaged (I respect that opinion) but it's another thing to be overly smug and absolutist about it. There is always more than one side to a coin.
I work in a corporate environment and heard rumbings that the executive vp of my department no longer cared for my hair. erplexed
If you use the appropriate amount of heat, then no. If you burn your hair, then yes. I recommend you to stay away from marcel irons and stay away from putting the iron/comb on the stove. Use a temperature controlled electric flat iron.
My stylist straightens my dd's hair once a month. We've been following this reggie for about 2 years now. Her hair reverts right back to it's natural state as soon as any type of water hits it. Before each trip to the shop we cowash and dc.
Here's a shot of her hair wet at the pool this summer:
Here's what it looks like straightened:
However, we stop straightening Mid-March through Sept/Oct due to sports.
1) Has the VP expressed any disdain for your hair to you, personally? I would'nt go by 'rumblngs' in the company.
He/she won't do this....
2) If she HAS commented on your hair in a negative fashion and insinuated that your job is on the line bc of it (as it relates to it's texture/bigness) then isn't that grounds for some sort of legal action?
...because of this!
3)Yes, heat damages your hair. Over tme you will notice that your once vibrant and poppin' tendrils are lackluster, limp, and stringy. Bet on it. You may not notice after 1, 2, or even 3 burn sessions, but eventually you wil notice. You can get by with heat damage if you decide to wear your hair straight for ever and ever, but once you want to rock it in it's textured state it will look cruddy.
4) # 3 is based off of personal experience AND common sense.
I co-wash, DC and detangle her hair prior to the salon visit. I leave some conditioner in her hair the stylist rinses her hair still in plats. She puts her under the dryer to remove most of the water. After which she removes the plats, and clips each section that was a plat, and begins to blow dry. After blow drying she flat irons and styles. For the remaining weeks, we pin curl at night and cover with a scarf or we put it in a high pony tail and cover with a bonnet.
Her Reggie during softball season is very simple, co wash/detangle/DC once a week. She wears a puff ponytail pretty much daily and we plat it in our same four sections each night. I moisturize and seal as needed, usually every other night or so. I also clarify once a month.
What will happen is that she will get fewer and fewer high-profile/plum assignments and eventually be let go because she is not productive for the company--and it will be virtually impossible for her to trace it back to complaints about her hair texture. In corporate America, you are expected to just know that you have to look the very conservative part--and natural/kinky hair is, unfortunately, not considered looking the part.