LiftedUp
Well-Known Member
I know this "marriage minded man" who met a woman, got married and had a baby all within a year. His ex gf broke up with him a short while before that because of the pressure he was putting on her.
We are friends. But he keeps messaging me (which I find inappropriate) and whenever I wish his wife and baby a great day or ask about them, he's vague. Late, he told me that his wife is never there, she and the baby are by her family the majority of the time. I don't understand the deterioration and he's very nonchalant about it. This is the opposite to how he was prior to marriage, he basically planned and organised his entire wedding.
I also want to tell him to stop messaging me asking me "what's up" or about my "weekend plans" or if I'm attending xyz event or inviting me to xyz. He messages me in the night as well. Now that I know his wife and baby barely lives with him I understand why. I also feel very awkward
We are friends. But he keeps messaging me (which I find inappropriate) and whenever I wish his wife and baby a great day or ask about them, he's vague. Late, he told me that his wife is never there, she and the baby are by her family the majority of the time. I don't understand the deterioration and he's very nonchalant about it. This is the opposite to how he was prior to marriage, he basically planned and organised his entire wedding.
I also want to tell him to stop messaging me asking me "what's up" or about my "weekend plans" or if I'm attending xyz event or inviting me to xyz. He messages me in the night as well. Now that I know his wife and baby barely lives with him I understand why. I also feel very awkward