Natasha009
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I've postponed it twice, but only by a few months. The reasons being (which i gave in another post) was that everyone was nagging me to do this and do that and while he had suggestions, he was offering no physical help. I only postponed it by a few months, so that we were supposed to be getting married in the summer.
Today on the phone he says "oh, I thought we were getting married next summer" I was like "WHAT?? You KNOW we're getting married this summer!" And he's like "oh...that's not enough time to plan, we should get married next summer" and I'm like "what do you think I've been doing all this time???" Then I was like whatever, we can get married whenever. And he was like "see, now your mad. It's not that I don't want to marry you, I do. I just want to have the money to plan a really nice wedding". Then i was like "okay, I don't really care when we get married" and I guess I suck at sarcasm, b/c he was like "see baby, and thats one of the reasons why I love you and your the only one I want to marry, b/c you don't care about things like that". And he was being serious, not sarcastic back.
So what does it mean when a guy postpones a wedding by a whole YEAR?? In the long run of things, I don't care THAT much b/c i hate planning this wedding, but at the same time I feel some type of way he pushed it back a whole year!
I really think he wants to get married still, but then he was so hurt when i pushed it back by two months that its weird he's doing it by a whole year suddenly. I'm just confused - 3 weeks ago everything was fine (when I saw him last) and now this. I don't think he's cheating on me, but maybe having a change of heart?
Today on the phone he says "oh, I thought we were getting married next summer" I was like "WHAT?? You KNOW we're getting married this summer!" And he's like "oh...that's not enough time to plan, we should get married next summer" and I'm like "what do you think I've been doing all this time???" Then I was like whatever, we can get married whenever. And he was like "see, now your mad. It's not that I don't want to marry you, I do. I just want to have the money to plan a really nice wedding". Then i was like "okay, I don't really care when we get married" and I guess I suck at sarcasm, b/c he was like "see baby, and thats one of the reasons why I love you and your the only one I want to marry, b/c you don't care about things like that". And he was being serious, not sarcastic back.
So what does it mean when a guy postpones a wedding by a whole YEAR?? In the long run of things, I don't care THAT much b/c i hate planning this wedding, but at the same time I feel some type of way he pushed it back a whole year!
I really think he wants to get married still, but then he was so hurt when i pushed it back by two months that its weird he's doing it by a whole year suddenly. I'm just confused - 3 weeks ago everything was fine (when I saw him last) and now this. I don't think he's cheating on me, but maybe having a change of heart?