He is 47, in rehab, but he doesn't have a problem. Insert eye roll. He moved back to the area a bit ago because his mother passed away. His siblings let the house go to shambles, basically living and not doing anything, folks coming in and out who he didn't know. He said that he couldnt live there any more and he had a friend who had completed a rehab program and was now a counselor. So his friend "told" him he could "stay" at the rehab for a year if he admits himself, so far he has been there 4 months and said he could leave at any time. He has food and shelter and had to follow the rules, no cellphones etc. He alledges he purchased one just to call me, Insert another eye roll.
Oh, but it get better than this. He hasn't worked in a few years because he is disabled. He wrote retired on in his bio. Only 47 year olds that are retired that I know are independently weathly or ex military. My brother could afford to be retired a 47 because it is only him. There is more, his brother crashed his BMW after he came to rehab, so now he doesn't have a car. He plans on staying at the "rehab" for 4 more months to save up to get his own place and a new car.
Now follow me on this check list:
No place of his own, check
No car, check
No job, check
In rehab, check
Yet, he ask me to go out Friday, as if I am going to pick up a total stranger.
Unlike another poster, I am not the one, I do not feel the need to be needed like that. I am 38 and I am doing pretty good for myself. I can work with no car, on a temporary basis but all the others are minimal standards, I mean minimal.
I met this guy on Plenty of Fish dating site (BTW I am done with the site.) We have played phone tag for 2 weeks after exhanging emails.
When he calls again, I will not answer the phone. Stick a fork in me I am done.
All of this after getting a 5 page letter from ex telling me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. Heck to the no for his a$$ too. I won't even start on his black arse.
Just a little comic relief for a Tuesday evening.
10/2/09 update, see page 2
Oh, but it get better than this. He hasn't worked in a few years because he is disabled. He wrote retired on in his bio. Only 47 year olds that are retired that I know are independently weathly or ex military. My brother could afford to be retired a 47 because it is only him. There is more, his brother crashed his BMW after he came to rehab, so now he doesn't have a car. He plans on staying at the "rehab" for 4 more months to save up to get his own place and a new car.
Now follow me on this check list:
No place of his own, check
No car, check
No job, check
In rehab, check
Yet, he ask me to go out Friday, as if I am going to pick up a total stranger.
Unlike another poster, I am not the one, I do not feel the need to be needed like that. I am 38 and I am doing pretty good for myself. I can work with no car, on a temporary basis but all the others are minimal standards, I mean minimal.
I met this guy on Plenty of Fish dating site (BTW I am done with the site.) We have played phone tag for 2 weeks after exhanging emails.
When he calls again, I will not answer the phone. Stick a fork in me I am done.
All of this after getting a 5 page letter from ex telling me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. Heck to the no for his a$$ too. I won't even start on his black arse.
Just a little comic relief for a Tuesday evening.
10/2/09 update, see page 2
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erplexed I told him I was celibate. He stopped calling. 
