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Have you ever snapped on a significant other in a relationship? I don't necessarily mean killed him... but maybe he/she showed their behind SO bad, that you showed them the dark side? A side that they never expected and have since never wanted to see again? :spinning::look:
 
Yes. The well-mannered, educated priss pot turned into a hot headed, ranting fire spitter. The look on his face was one of fear and bewilderment because he did not know that rage could come out of my little 5'3" self.

That was years ago, and I have learned to manage my emotions better but it's nice to know that if somebody messed with my child, I could handle business. :look:
 
TheLaurynDoll said:
Is this person still in your life?
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Yup. :look: (he hung in, thank goodness)

This was early in my marriage, during my hot-headed fire breathing days...

Like DI, I've since learned more self control and other ways to express displeasure..

(my dragon is never far from the surface, though...he almost lashed someone this morning, but I snatched him back quick, exited the scene, and repeated two dozen times what a wonderful life I have..."gratitude's" mantra..works like a charm)*wink*
 
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Yes I have, numerous times over the course of our 8 year dating career. I'm quite surprised he married me. I keep resurfacing often by singing 'Bust Your Windows' around him.
 
Yep and nope he's not still in my life. I finally realized he wasn't worth my time of day. :ohwell: I'm a very nice person but if you cross me you better run. El fin.
 
Did it once. It happened around five months ago. He wouldn't let go of something despite the fact that I've discussed it at length with him several times.

At that point, I absolutely had it. He was in the car with me and I was driving on the expressway, pulled over, and started screaming at him and beating on my steering wheel, dashboard, everything in the car except him.

I blacked out on the rest :ohwell: but he doesn't want to make me that mad anymore and he's dropped that particular issue. And yes, we're still together :lachen:
 
Yes. I'm pretty sure that one of my exes still fears me til this day. I was younger, and stupider, with no clue on how to control my anger. There wasnt any violence involved though, I'm extremely non-violent.

Thats all I have to say about that. :)
 
Yeah DH has seen she hulk more than once. One time I'd rather not mention. But the first time was right after DS was born and after 9 months this fool still hadn't read the car seat user manual, therefore he didn't know how to install my little angel's carseat. Sooooo I proceeded to throw a full blown "I just had my baby and aint no way in hell you gon put his life in danger because you're a f***king retard!!" tantrum in front of the hospital.
 
I've flipped out alright. Normally I'm one of the most mild-mannered people you will ever meet. I'm very nice, give people the benefit of the doubt, but once your luck runs out with me, that's it.

I was dating this guy and we were visiting his hometown together. We had made an agreement that we could go together (in my car) as long as we had dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. :look: Well, we spent all day long kicking it with his folks, day turns into night, I ask about dinner and he tells me in not-so-many words that I'm trying to take him away from his friends, how I'm being selfish, yada yada yada.

So alright, I conceded. I would eat dinner someone closer so he could have more time to kick it. He hadn't seen his family and friends in forever. I know how it can be. We were supposed to leave at a certain time - and then he asked if we could just stay till "G" came over cuz he hadn't seen him in years. I conceded again. I was havign a good time playing cards anyway, so it was cool, but I said at XXX time, we HAVE to leave because I have to drive back (he had driven there and I would drive back was our agreement) and I didn't wanna be driving in the middle of the night.

Don't you know he started acting an *** when it was finally time to go? I felt like he was using the fact that I didn't know my way around to play me, so I did what any girl would do, called my best friend had had her Mapquest directions for me because I was leaving - and I would leave without him, if necessary. He sees I'm up to something when I start inquiring about his friend's home address and then finally gets in the car.

We start arguing in the car. He hadn't held up on ANY part of our agreement. And here he was acting a natural jackazz. I almost put him out on the side of the expressway, but I didn't want to drive back in the middle of the night solo. So he kept pushing and pushing and pushing the issue.... and I FLIPPED.

He had never heard me yell before, but I was yelling at the top of my lungs, doing the finger point, telling him about himself and everything, all while driving down the highway. God must have been with me in that car that night, for sure. :look:

But he shut up and apologized. And I drove the rest of the way home in peace.
 
sunshinebeautiful said:
I've flipped out alright. Normally I'm one of the most mild-mannered people you will ever meet. I'm very nice, give people the benefit of the doubt, but once your luck runs out with me, that's it.

I was dating this guy and we were visiting his hometown together. We had made an agreement that we could go together (in my car) as long as we had dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. :look: Well, we spent all day long kicking it with his folks, day turns into night, I ask about dinner and he tells me in not-so-many words that I'm trying to take him away from his friends, how I'm being selfish, yada yada yada.

So alright, I conceded. I would eat dinner someone closer so he could have more time to kick it. He hadn't seen his family and friends in forever. I know how it can be. We were supposed to leave at a certain time - and then he asked if we could just stay till "G" came over cuz he hadn't seen him in years. I conceded again. I was havign a good time playing cards anyway, so it was cool, but I said at XXX time, we HAVE to leave because I have to drive back (he had driven there and I would drive back was our agreement) and I didn't wanna be driving in the middle of the night.

Don't you know he started acting an *** when it was finally time to go? I felt like he was using the fact that I didn't know my way around to play me, so I did what any girl would do, called my best friend had had her Mapquest directions for me because I was leaving - and I would leave without him, if necessary. He sees I'm up to something when I start inquiring about his friend's home address and then finally gets in the car.

We start arguing in the car. He hadn't held up on ANY part of our agreement. And here he was acting a natural jackazz. I almost put him out on the side of the expressway, but I didn't want to drive back in the middle of the night solo. So he kept pushing and pushing and pushing the issue.... and I FLIPPED.

He had never heard me yell before, but I was yelling at the top of my lungs, doing the finger point, telling him about himself and everything, all while driving down the highway. God must have been with me in that car that night, for sure. :look:

But he shut up and apologized. And I drove the rest of the way home in peace.
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:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
Lol, I do have a dark side. I'm quiet, but the rage is there...waiting to jump out, lol. Too many people have learned the hard way that I shouldn't be pushed to my limit. My SO and I had a very bad argument, and I could've sworn he called me an american a**hole. To this day he says he never said the word a**hole, but nevertheless- he refused to leave my house and had a knife to his throat.

I have a very bad temper and tend to avoid volatile situations (and people in general), but when a person won't leave me alone it can get to the point where I just black out on them. I've gotten into situations where I can remember the beginning of an event and the end, (when I'm calming down) but the middle portion is just lost.

I'm reading "Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the flames", but I think God is going to have to float down on a cloud and touch my heart because I've been through too much.
 
With one of my ex's, I found out he was cheating on me and the chick was at his house (I was callin him and she kept on picking up the phone and hanging it up when I'd call). So I drove over there, confronted him, and at some point I hit him. Twice. I didn't even KNOW I had hit him til I saw the blood on his lip.

We broke up a few months later.
 
Yes, did it on a regular....nothing I'm proud of. Glad I dont walk around wearing my emotions on my sleeve anymore. Glad I'm no longer a puppet with some laughing fool pulling the strings. Now I wouldnt give you the satisfaction. Spitting fiya is for out of control animals...at least that's what I tell myself to stay calm when the urge arises.
 
qtslim83 said:
Have you all noticed that it's normally the quiet, mild mannered ones that "snap"?

Well...at least that's the case for me :blush: :lol:
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Agreed, not saying that all women don't have that point, but if someone's always loud and tripping, if they go off one more time then it's no big deal...to anyone. But get that quiet, mild mannered, polite chick riled up, and you will go from :grin: to :perplexed in a nanosecond.
 
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