Just wanted to get this out here so you ladies can watch out for these type of predetory men, and I use them the term men loosely.
So here it is:
First I would never entertain this guy he has major obvious mood swings and personality changes like he’s bi-polar, he thinks voodoo and witchcraft aren’t evil it’s just another way to live (and claims he’s a Christian )because it’s part of carribean and South American history, and to me he’s unattractive but attractive or not I would not be entertaining this man ever. Those are just things I casually observed in his interactions with me and others, also he stated in convo to someone else my wife etc...also there’s a Strict no dating policy at work, you date a coworker even in another dept you get termed, period! (keep this in mind)
I was approached by this guy at our workplace talking about wanna be my friend, see a movie, go to a club, I can introduce you to my friends, can I text you?, do you hang out, etc... like we’re in HS again.
Now after getting over being disgusted and offended I thought this 40 something guy just wants to waste my time,
My replies were:
No I don’t want to go with you to: see a movie, I’m not the clubbing type, what are your friends a bunch of guys?, what for?, No, I don’t have time to “hang out”
Oh you wouldn’t ask me that if I was a woman, men and women can hang out it’s no big deal. I found out from a co worker that he’s been trying to talk to several other women at the workplace and confirmed that he’s married (he didn’t know I knew) Btw he couldn’t answer a simple question are you married, single, live in GF, the first time before I talked to other coworkers he said he had a girlfriend live in but it’s on and off, now it’s off. (This is after I heard him say wife in convo to someone else and before I confirmed with some women co workers)
Then another day when he started with the same topic I asked again, He hemmed and hawed and finally said (get this)
I’m married but it’s off and on, and what if I wasn’t married? Really, but you ARE MARRIED! -WTH! the gaul of this guy.
At best he’ll be actively blocking anyone who IS interested in me who’s serious and actually single and available and wants a real relationship with me in the future, at worst he just wants a doorway in so he can set up camp and turn me into his whore jump off, side piece, concubine, mistress, adulteress. The ONLY reason this guy even has access to me is because we work in the same place otherwise I wouldn’t give him the time of day. Finally he comes up with you don’t trust me? But I’m a nice guy? I thought Really cause the eveidence says your a liar, a cheater, and a time waister while I walked away. He doesn’t know that I’m not the one! For real!
There’s everything for me to lose and nothing to gain in this situation if I were to even entertain him and his BS and there’s everything for him to gain ie using me. Anyways I just thought this would be a good topic to expose these fools out here trying to deceive and use women. It’s one thing to know what you’re getting into beforehand and making that choice, which is the wrong choice.
If those coworkers hadn’t talked in front of me I wouldn’t have known and could have been in a messy dangerous situation, not to mention that kind of deceit turns unsuspecting women into adulteress without their knowledge and places upon them and their future descendants serious curses, torment and opens a door to familial spirits that wreck havoc in the family. I don’t know what kind of test this is or is it just unnecessary drama I don’t have time for especially not at work.
Pray for me ladies that this guy leaves me alone.
Definition of adultery
noun:
adultery; plural noun:
adulteries
- voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse.
"she was committing adultery with a much younger man"
synonyms: infidelity, unfaithfulness, falseness, disloyalty, cuckoldry, extramarital sex; More
affair, liaison, fling, amour;
informalcarrying-on, hanky-panky, two-timing, a bit on the side, fooling around, playing around, dirty weekend
"his adultery finally caught up with him"
*In the Bible the other unmarried person participant is also an adulterer or adulteress.
7th Commandment
"“You must not commit adultery."
-Exodus 20:14
http://bible.com/116/exo.20.14.nlt
"I have seen your adultery and lust, and your disgusting idol worship out in the fields and on the hills. What sorrow awaits you, Jerusalem! How long before you are pure?”"
-Jeremiah 13:27
http://bible.com/116/jer.13.27.nlt
"Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery."
-Hebrews 13:4
http://bible.com/116/heb.13.4.nlt
"Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality,"
-1 Corinthians 6:9
http://bible.com/116/1co.6.9.nlt
"Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body."
-1 Corinthians 6:18
http://bible.com/116/1co.6.18.nlt
Prov 6:32,
"But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself."
-Proverbs 6:32
http://bible.com/116/pro.6.32.nlt