LadyPaniolo
New Member
Hypothetical:
A young professional man of a nerdy/geeky personality takes a girl on a date. He has driven a very very long distance to be there, and had to pay several tolls along the way. He is at the location early, dressed nicely and smelling good. He has a well-paid job, the girl is only a college student (and is hence broke).
He is foreign born but has lived in the US since early childhood. He is very inexperienced with women, and is clearly very nervous.
He is polite, respectful and interesting during the date... Here's the catch. When they order cups of tea, he does not pay for her drink!!! He only pays for his own, then steps aside for her to buy her own tea!!!
At the end of the date he expresses interest in more dates, calls 2 days later to ask for a movie date on Saturday.
What say you? Should she accept and give him the benefit of the doubt that he was nervous or just clueless? Accept but tell him he needs to buy the tickets? Or tell him to pee up a rope for being a cheap arse?
Discuss.
A young professional man of a nerdy/geeky personality takes a girl on a date. He has driven a very very long distance to be there, and had to pay several tolls along the way. He is at the location early, dressed nicely and smelling good. He has a well-paid job, the girl is only a college student (and is hence broke).
He is foreign born but has lived in the US since early childhood. He is very inexperienced with women, and is clearly very nervous.
He is polite, respectful and interesting during the date... Here's the catch. When they order cups of tea, he does not pay for her drink!!! He only pays for his own, then steps aside for her to buy her own tea!!!
At the end of the date he expresses interest in more dates, calls 2 days later to ask for a movie date on Saturday.
What say you? Should she accept and give him the benefit of the doubt that he was nervous or just clueless? Accept but tell him he needs to buy the tickets? Or tell him to pee up a rope for being a cheap arse?
Discuss.