sorry had to vent...
went to best buy to purchase a HUGE tv or a projector for myself to put in my new apartment! I should have been very happy. and I was until
I bent down to look at some movie projectors on a lower shelf
and a black man came along and nearly knocked me over. he just walked behind me, then backed up into me, nearly pushing me into the shelf.
what did he say? he said, "oh".
and went back to helping his white girlfriend pick a tv.
then i felt all kinds of bad emotions that my 'educated' mind knew I shouldn't be feeling. like, jealousy, b/c i had to go pick mine out alone; and reading too deep into the situation, kind of felt like his act of pushing me over was symbolic in a way. he pushed me down in his attempt to help her. i was invisible. and didn't even get an 'excuse me' or anything. humph.
i didn't get the tv or a projector.
and now i feel guilty for feeling some kind of way about them. erplexed
anyone else ever have conflicting feelings and thoughts?
went to best buy to purchase a HUGE tv or a projector for myself to put in my new apartment! I should have been very happy. and I was until
I bent down to look at some movie projectors on a lower shelf
and a black man came along and nearly knocked me over. he just walked behind me, then backed up into me, nearly pushing me into the shelf.
what did he say? he said, "oh".
and went back to helping his white girlfriend pick a tv.
then i felt all kinds of bad emotions that my 'educated' mind knew I shouldn't be feeling. like, jealousy, b/c i had to go pick mine out alone; and reading too deep into the situation, kind of felt like his act of pushing me over was symbolic in a way. he pushed me down in his attempt to help her. i was invisible. and didn't even get an 'excuse me' or anything. humph.
i didn't get the tv or a projector.
and now i feel guilty for feeling some kind of way about them. erplexed
anyone else ever have conflicting feelings and thoughts?