She shol' right! (vent)

[Irresistible]

u know this thread made me realize

that in real life 'I will tone down' my hair for other ladies that I feel might be in a 'hair process' and make a point to absolutley not even try to come across as I'm flossin in any way, Because I feel so aware that anything I do might be taken that way

and mainly because I know what it be's like to be trying to grow some healthy hair , you gotta go through it to get to it and to keep it!

Having faced health challenges, losing half my hair at one point, sitting next to women on Chemo in the docs office with no hair

well lets just say some ladies might have some wake up calls comin!


to be all about your hair is just a sad state! to act high and mighty over it is even sadder, to act competitive over it even sadder

 

[nicki6]

Thank you for the best laugh of the day!!

I'm mad at you for planning to floss at Food Town though

 

[Platinum]

Bumping for subscription. I love this thread.

 

[Pheonixx]

Ya'll crazy.

ME-T...you aint got no sense....LOL
Whyyyyy are you in the grocery store having 'hair beef' with this lil orange haired gal...?
LOL

Craziness....

 

[Christa438]

LOL. This made me laugh tonight. She probably was trying to show you how her hair looks better than yours--orange color and all ...but you never know, she could just be a flipper and maybe it wasn't about you... oh well, you'll be flossin in no time. I dont think there's anything wrong with a little flossin/pride just as long as it's done in the right spirit and not over the top. Cause when I reach my goals, Im definitely going to strut and be flippin my hair sometimes ...but I already strut, it's just that the hair I flip isn't all mine...yet .

 

[MizAvalon]

OMG!! Too funny!

 

[ladylibra]

u know this thread made me realize

that in real life 'I will tone down' my hair for other ladies that I feel might be in a 'hair process' and make a point to absolutley not even try to come across as I'm flossin in any way, Because I feel so aware that anything I do might be taken that way

and mainly because I know what it be's like to be trying to grow some healthy hair , you gotta go through it to get to it and to keep it!

Having faced health challenges, losing half my hair at one point, sitting next to women on Chemo in the docs office with no hair

well lets just say some ladies might have some wake up calls comin!


to be all about your hair is just a sad state! to act high and mighty over it is even sadder, to act competitive over it even sadder

i didn't know you went thru all that! po thang erplexed

but i understand what you mean. last fall when i straightened my hair, it was a GREAT hair day... my hair was still full of body, bouncy, all i had to do was walk down the sidewalk and look fab. i had on a new leather jacket that i had only worn one other time on a day i was sporting a WnG. now on the WnG day, girls on campus were complimenting me left and right. oh you look cute, love the jacket, nice shoes (these are strangers btw, not friends). now this time it's the same basic outfit but my hair is straight.

stink eyes and not a compliment in sight. as i walked by 2 black girls they stopped in mid-conversation to stare at me... and then one remarked, "so, my hair is longer than that and it's MINE cuz i bought it!"

i mean really, was that necessary? some girls are just b!$@#es...

 

[bravenewgirl87]

I'm not surprised. One day I was running in the park. The park I go to is in a black-only neighborhood with a lot of working class men hanging around (prision break-type guys who have the big chest and beer gut). This one little hoochie was with her friend in some tight arse pants, with her chubby self. I don't think I was being paranoid when I say I think she felt she was better than me because I'm thinner with a toned body and her butt was all in every guys' face. At one point her nose was all in the air as she walked past me i thought she'd sneeze on jesus!

She kept giggling and smiling all in the dudes faces, getting all excited when cars nearly crashed trying to get at her. You can tell her head was blown up more than Pearl Harbor.

Girl, feel special if you wants to bc some hood figga gave you the time of day. Let us be reminded that I'm older than you and have the figure that allows me to be approached by guys who drive Mercedes, Audis, and Rolls Royce. I pop bankers, lawyers, and accountants. Not dudes on probation.

But, women can be very childish like that.

 

[Irresistible]

i didn't know you went thru all that! po thang erplexed

but i understand what you mean. last fall when i straightened my hair, it was a GREAT hair day... my hair was still full of body, bouncy, all i had to do was walk down the sidewalk and look fab. i had on a new leather jacket that i had only worn one other time on a day i was sporting a WnG. now on the WnG day, girls on campus were complimenting me left and right. oh you look cute, love the jacket, nice shoes (these are strangers btw, not friends). now this time it's the same basic outfit but my hair is straight.

stink eyes and not a compliment in sight. as i walked by 2 black girls they stopped in mid-conversation to stare at me... and then one remarked, "so, my hair is longer than that and it's MINE cuz i bought it!"

i mean really, was that necessary? some girls are just b!$@#es...

Girl a b&tch is a b&tch, is a b&tch!

I do understand some women are just haters. Hell girl,I got em everywhere on this here internet and in real life. and its whack ....ova some damn hair........that shyt just really pisses me off. man I had two ladies that I loved and they were the moderators of my group and I loved them and shyt still went south with them both over time, It actually breaks my heart, they were more on the 'militant' side of natural than me , especally for how it was back then,but I LOVED THEM AND hair should have NEVER come between us but ultimately it did!

I just find it sad, it doesnt make me angry like it used to, it makes me just sad! none of us should be hatin ova some hair, and if somebody hates you over yours. feel sorry for her if anything........but your right some girl are just biatches! and its damn sad to be divided over some damn hair, I will always feel this way!

Here is a poem I wrote back when it was bad btwn relaxed and natural ladies. my heart could never take watching all that bullshyt!
Ive always hated it with a passion!!!!

To my natural sistah's (from your relaxed sistah)

So, you think im tryin to conform? when for all ive ever known is
this to be the norm. you say im trying to be something that im not, when my
hair will never make who i am whether it's straight, kinky, or bought , you
cut your eyes at me ova my 'do when you were once in the very same shoes. so i
apply this creamy stuff to make my hair straight, but you act is if your
kinks gave you a pass through heaven's gate? why do you put me up under this kind of pressure? and act as though because you now have naps you are now up
to measure? you say you are so enlightened, but it seems to me as though
you just might be somewhat frightened. are you scared you will face the
temptation to straighten out the kinks again? do you project that fear unto me
distorted and full of disdain? i wish i could show you that just because my
hair is straight doesnt mean i cant relate to your pain. you say my ignorance
runs deep, as though just because my hair is straight i must have no sense, my sistah have you forgotten when you were on this side of the fence? you look
your nose down on me now that you have naps growing freely from your head, when really you should be concerned about the kinks in your heart instead.

To my relaxed sistah's (from your natural sistah)

So you say you can relate to my pain? no i dont think you can, not
till you have worn an all natural mane. you see, there is no pain like this,
when your very own people ignorantly diss what our hair really is. yes i feel
enlightened and free to be me, and yes , maybe i am a little
frightened of what my nappy experience will be. you see, i feel the pressure every single day , to once again make my hair lay down, i just dont want to give in and lose this freedom that i have found. no my naps wont give me ticket through heavens gate, but i have a new love for what God made me instead of living with self hate. I no longer damage and abuse the hair God gave me just to fit in, im no longer in bondage to white people's greatest sin. The promotion of self hate within us to oppress and degrade us, as though
we are not acceptable the way the creator made us. I may come off as though i
think im better than you, but my sistah that is so not true, it's about so
much more than just your 'do. Maybe i dont say it right, but really we are
all in the same fight and all i want is to share my insight. your acting as
though your so righteous because you feel slighted, maybe you as well are
somewhat frightened. Why do my naps cause you distress? when you have the same thing coming from your head under that chemical mess? you fit in with those you choose cause your hair looks like theirs, and turn your back on me
when im your real reflection, you can straighten your naps all you want to,
but its the kinks in your heart that need inspection.


To all sistah's (from God)

I count the hairs on all of my children's heads. My word does not say
"I count the hair on a relaxed head" nor does my word say " I only
count the hairs of a natural head" It is I that count the hair on my children's heads. Do not make it your job to count the hair on your sister's head! It is I that count them and it is I that formed them! YOU CANNOT ADD THEM, NOR SUBTRACT THEM, NOR MULTIPLY THEM , BUT YOU LET THEM DIVIDE YOU! i desire the peace, happiness and joy in the hearts of all my children and this strife amongst you saddens me greatly. for it is my purpose for you to unite and walk in love notdivision. I say unto you before you check your hair in the mirror to see whether it is perfectly straight or perfectly natural , i tell you to to check to see if your heart is perfectly straight AND natural before me first. and before you look at the condtion and state of the hair of your sister, I tell you to look at the condtion and state of your own heart first. for the hair on on your head and the head of you sister's is but a small matter in my sight.

Do not bother to straighten your hair to fit into this world or to be
accepted by it , while your heart is not straightened out and you dont accept
your very own sister in love...I say to you , you will surely then not fit in
with me, nor shall you be accepted by me, nor fullfill my purpose for you. what you call the path of least resistance, i call the path of fools, when you resist walking in love for others.

Do not bother to wear your hair natural and untainted with chemicals
as you have said in your heart "to be as i made you" and not walk in love
towards your very own sister , then i say to you, it is then that your heart
shall surely be tainted in my sight, and you will then surely not "be as i
made you" what you call the path of enlightenment i call the path of darkness, if you are not enlightened enough to walk in love for others.

I know the pain of all of your hearts and i know all the tears shed by
all of my children and all the pain inflicted on you and the division that
has been caused amongst you, surely i say unto you those people will be held
accoutable for every action and deed before me. but you will not be
able to come before me and say "Lord but my sister did not love me due to the
chemical or lack of a chemical in my hair, and Lord this is why did not walk in love towards her in return" for i tell you she will be held accountable for
herself and you will have your own accountability unto me.


Title:
We cant add, subtract or mulitply the hairs on our head, yet we let it
divide us

 

[MizAvalon]

I'm not surprised. One day I was running in the park. The park I go to is in a black-only neighborhood with a lot of working class men hanging around (prision break-type guys who have the big chest and beer gut). This one little hoochie was with her friend in some tight arse pants, with her chubby self. I don't think I was being paranoid when I say I think she felt she was better than me because I'm thinner with a toned body and her butt was all in every guys' face. At one point her nose was all in the air as she walked past me i thought she'd sneeze on jesus!

She kept giggling and smiling all in the dudes faces, getting all excited when cars nearly crashed trying to get at her. You can tell her head was blown up more than Pearl Harbor.

Girl, feel special if you wants to bc some hood figga gave you the time of day. Let us be reminded that I'm older than you and have the figure that allows me to be approached by guys who drive Mercedes, Audis, and Rolls Royce. I pop bankers, lawyers, and accountants. Not dudes on probation.

But, women can be very childish like that.

 

[MizAvalon]

^^^ Reading the above post makes me sad. Women falling out and not being friends anymore over hair. This just goes to show that hair isn't JUST hair. It's incredibly powerful and means a great deal to a lot of people.

 

[Lucie]

(((( HUGS )))) to the OP.

Some women are lame and there is nothing you can do about that.

Girl, you must be the ish if you could make a girl feel insecure with S-Curl all up in your hair! ^5!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shoot, now imagine if you had your Jimmy Choo's on and your tailored suit on. She mighta lost her mind all up on the line!! Go girl!!!

 

[Irresistible]

damn! ok that made me laugh

sneeze on JESUS

ROTFL ROTFL

I'm not surprised. One day I was running in the park. The park I go to is in a black-only neighborhood with a lot of working class men hanging around (prision break-type guys who have the big chest and beer gut). This one little hoochie was with her friend in some tight arse pants, with her chubby self. I don't think I was being paranoid when I say I think she felt she was better than me because I'm thinner with a toned body and her butt was all in every guys' face. At one point her nose was all in the air as she walked past me i thought she'd sneeze on jesus!

She kept giggling and smiling all in the dudes faces, getting all excited when cars nearly crashed trying to get at her. You can tell her head was blown up more than Pearl Harbor.

Girl, feel special if you wants to bc some hood figga gave you the time of day. Let us be reminded that I'm older than you and have the figure that allows me to be approached by guys who drive Mercedes, Audis, and Rolls Royce. I pop bankers, lawyers, and accountants. Not dudes on probation.

But, women can be very childish like that.

 

[Buttercreme]

so i'm goin to the grocery store fresh from work-dirty coveralls and all, and yes my hair looks a hot mess, cause i took my baggie off (i keep it drenched w/ scurl now, with a whole head baggie under a scarf)

theres some think-she-cute girl in there wit orange-ish layered bsl hair wit a falling rollerset lookin style, i wanna say its a weave, but she kept givin me that stank "look at this messy bald-head b!tch" look.

as im leavin out, we were both headed for the door, and she ended up in front of me. no she did NOT start runnin her hands thru her head liftin her hair up and sh!t! and it must either be a weave, or she got a jacked up nape cause she aint lift too high, or separate her hair too much! ooh she made me mad!!!!!!:210:

its all good though. 4 mo' inches and i'm goin to Food Town in some Jimmy Choos and a baby phat mini skirt outfit with a fierce roller wrap, actin lost, lookin around to turn my head and shake it! cause ***** YO HAIR DONT SHAKE! mine does already! lemme shake it real quick!


ok. i'm done. and if you were the girl and you read this, beware....the mega tek is working...

This was hilarious!. Love that ROCKER avatar, perfect fit.




........I thought I was the only one that liked to act lost

 

[Riverwalk]

Girl, feel special if you wants to bc some hood figga gave you the time of day. Let us be reminded that I'm older than you and have the figure that allows me to be approached by guys who drive Mercedes, Audis, and Rolls Royce. I pop bankers, lawyers, and accountants. Not dudes on probation.

 

[Irresistible]

SEE AND THIS IS THE BULLSHYT I AM TALKING ABOUT , A COMMENT LEFT ON MY VIDEO WHEN I LOGGED ON

IF THAT AINT A HATIN ****** WHAT IS?

DevontheGirl (2 hours ago) 0
Your drunken state is distracting. You are too old to still have this ghetto persona.

she must be baldheaded! WTF?

UGH@ HATIN A$$ BIATCHES!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hoGFCQ--928

 

[Iansan]

Y'all bugging. I have hand in hair disease; I hope people don't think I'm trying to stunt on them.

 

[bravenewgirl87]

It was funny but sad at the same time. I could tell she was HS age. If she'd put that much effort into her schoolwork as she does into getting Leroy from cell block9. Boy! She'd something else! A true GENIUS! But, I knew she was just trying to show off because I'd been running at the park for a while now. The only women who are there are in their 40s, trying to get their health up, and a couple of moms on a leisure stroll with their kids. But, not too many girls my age huffin' and puffin'.Honestly, i think she was one of those girls who see me running in the park on the regular and decided to show me up on day, because her body definitely proved she wasn't the athletic type, and I haven't seen her in the park since. Plus, it was so convenient, too, that she would show up in some skin tight shorts and a itty bitty t-shirt. I think I know which guy the girls are going gaga over... but he ain't trying to head back to prison over some young coochie.Or... maybe he is?look:

 

[hunnybunny81]

Y'all bugging. I have hand in hair disease; I hope people don't think I'm trying to stunt on them.

Even if you are, its your hair and your hands and you have a right to have the two meet as often and as much as you want

Not calling you insecure OP, but I'm not about to let someone else's insecurities about their hair stop me from playing in my own...

 

[bravenewgirl87]

girl, why you cuttin' up this morning....lachen: Oh LAWD! What are we going to do with you?!

SEE AND THIS IS THE BULLSHYT I AM TALKING ABOUT , A COMMENT LEFT ON MY VIDEO WHEN I LOGGED ON

IF THAT AINT A HATIN ****** WHAT IS?

DevontheGirl (2 hours ago) 0
Your drunken state is distracting. You are too old to still have this ghetto persona.

she must be baldheaded! WTF?

UGH@ HATIN A$$ BIATCHES!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hoGFCQ--928

 

[Irresistible]

bahaha girl I dunno, just got my groove on with my man*hehe* I need sleep! lmao


btw we is gettin married!!!!!!!!!!

had a long talk last night!

girl, why you cuttin' up this morning....lachen: Oh LAWD! What are we going to do with you?!

 

[Irresistible]

bahaha girl I dunno, just got my groove on with my man*hehe* I need sleep! lmao


btw we is gettin married!!!!!!!!!!

had a long talk last night!

but still *** that hatin asss ****** that left the lame whack a$$ comment!

lmaooooooooo

whatever

sad its this way amongst so many of us, but it is! But when I LOG off I STILL got my hair! while she is hatin cause she aint got no hair! what else can it be! for baldy to take all the time just to hate on lil ole me! Doin a video to help others.....its a damn shame I TELL YA!

ok i'm back with the OP fizukc hatin ass biatches!!!!

lmaoooooooo

 

[MizAvalon]

Even if you are, its your hair and your hands and you have a right to have the two meet as often and as much as you want

Not calling you insecure OP, but I'm not about to let someone else's insecurities about their hair stop me from playing in my own...

I have to agree with this. I'm not really a "playing in my hair" type person but even if I was then I wouldn't stop to make some insecure girl not feel bad about her own hair. That's not my problem.

When I'm walking around with my hair freshly done and it's looking good, I'm not trying to make random women who happen to be in the same place I am feel bad about their own hair. They do a fine enough job of that on their own.erplexed

 

[Irresistible]

SHAKE YOUR HAIR FOR THE HATERS LADIES!

LMAOOOOOOO

IN YO FACE DEVONTHEGIRL WITH NO HAIR ON YO HEAD!

 

[bravenewgirl87]

bahaha girl I dunno, just got my groove on with my man*hehe* I need sleep! lmao


btw we is gettin married!!!!!!!!!!

had a long talk last night!

well, congrats for you!:bouncegreband:

But, jesus take the wheel for him! Cuz you're too much!

But, from the looks of things... he seems like he's too much for you! You're the one all tired and whatnots.

HAAAAY!

 

[MizAvalon]

SHAKE YOUR HAIR FOR THE HATERS LADIES!

LMAOOOOOOO

IN YO FACE DEVONTHEGIRL WITH NO HAIR ON YO HEAD!

 

[the_UnPrettiest_pretty]

That's why I love yall, yall make me laugh so hard Yall are foolish. It was probably a weave. There are lots of girls around here who do that mess, trying to pass a weave off as their own hair. I just laugh at them

 

[Irresistible]

I have to agree with this. I'm not really a "playing in my hair" type person but even if I was then I wouldn't stop to make some insecure girl not feel bad about her own hair. That's not my problem.

When I'm walking around with my hair freshly done and it's looking good, I'm not trying to make random women who happen to be in the same place I am feel bad about their own hair. They do a fine enough job of that on their own.erplexed

Really tho you dont even have to be thinking that way or tryin and they are gonna hate on you anyway! so frigg it!

 

[MizAvalon]

That's why I love yall, yall make me laugh so hard Yall are foolish. It was probably a weave. There are lots of girls around here who do that mess, trying to pass a weave off as their own hair. I just laugh at them

The OP said that mess was orange. Let's hope it was a weave.

 

[Irresistible]

well, congrats for you!:bouncegreband:

But, jesus take the wheel for him! Cuz you're too much!

But, from the looks of things... he seems like he's too much for you! You're the one all tired and whatnots.

HAAAAY!

lmao gurl......hahahaha he's knocked out and I'm awake!!!! postin about haters on the hair boards! rotfl!