"SHE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING WITH THAT HAIR!"

[Softresses]

Well now, you do have a point Umsumayah!!!

Softresses

 

[DDTexlaxed]

Next time it rains ask him how come white people's hair smells like a wet dog.

U go girl! I am a full figured bbw w/ full lips. I think the "hate" this man reflects is from ignorance. I think they all wish they can be like us. We don't have to sit under the sun to change our color. When I went to Hollywood, there was a group of white teenage girls who oohed and ahhed and said they wished they had full lips. The hate is probably covering his "attraction" to you. He sees you as different, SoftTresses. Be on guard, girl!

 

[beyondcute]

Sometimes when you get to comfortable you can make people umcomfortable. He is beyond comfortabel with you and feels liek he can takl candidly. I had a white friend in hihg schhol and one day she said wassup my n!gga... Let that marinate... Okay I just stared at her for a second and then told her I thought she should never use that word. Even if she married a man and had 1000 black babies I still dont think it would ever be approriat for her to ues that word. She understood and we moved on. Still friends to this day and yes she married a black man and has 2 half black babies I think your partner feels the upmost comfort around you and doesnt even see you as 'one of them' anymore. Youre an exception to the rule. But for the rest of the blak population, he still sees them as black. Im sure if you wore a for (neat and nice) he'd think it looked okay on you.

 

[Softresses]

I hope he is not attracted to me! He is married and I DON'T NEED NO

DISHONEST, MARRIED, RACIALLY CONFUSED, LIP LUVIN, FRO HATIN, MARINATIN, MESS ON MY HANDS!!!

I think that if he ever hit me with the WHAZUP MY ***** I would have to
get up off the floor and thump his head!

Softresses

 

[CinnaMocha]

What makes your coworker think he is the authority on what looks good and doesn't. So when he does this, does he expect you to sit there and overlook his statements, like you too are not a black woman.

If the tables were turned and you turned your nose up at something that is natural to them, how would he react.

Sometimes people need to take a dose of hush and keep certain comments that are offensive to themselves.

 

[Softresses]

Hi CinnaMocha

He does have a problem with me saying things about white women's beauty, look at post #11 on page 2 of this thread. He just seems judgemental about black women's beauty.

Softresses