Remember The First Time...................*keep It Clean*

[BEAUTYU2U]

Well.....dude in the OP should be halfway thru his sentence now.

 

[30something]

Took 10 years of sexual activity to actually make love, even after being married
Too many selfish mn has too much porn in their mind while having sex.

The first time I actually made love was absolutely amazing, you feel one with the person. It an absolutely different experience then just sex. Sex feel like your just a hole and we both are just trying to get off, making love feel like you're a queen, nothing but passion in the air. Of course it feels amazing and addictive all you want to do is express your love physically.

 

[Evolving78]

OK. Back on topic.

The first time I had sex -- I don't even think about.

But the first time I made love...it replays in my mind every week, probably every other night.

It was the first time I was introduced to pleasure pain. Have Mercy! Have you experienced that ladies? Praise the powers that be for creating that!! Hurt me!

Anyway. His strength made me feel soo safe like I was underneath the most powerful man in the work and no harm could get to me (except him). It was beautiful and left me trembling.


I was 'taken' whereas in the past I'd only 'did it'
It was physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual, chemical. Ahh!

Anyway, that was the love of my life. We are not together. And I will miss him until the day I die. I always felt like I wanted to crawl through my skin and touch his soul when we would make love. So intense. And yes, I remember all the sounds, touches, and repartee.

He ruined it for any lover that followed, and is the main reason why I'm celibate now. He could command a bed and everyone else seems weak in comparison. Also, the love was so layered ...that I don't want to share such an overwhelming and vulnerable experience like that unless I'm married or at least engaged.

I don't have words to describe the non-physical part of it. But the physical part was very much 'Me Tarzan, you Jane.' I know the old-school feminists won't like that...but as a neo-feminist I love it.

He was hardcore masculine. I miss him.

This is old,but I understood everything that was stated!

 

[caribeandiva]

Apparently I've never made love either

 

[Fine 4s]

I guess I have, maybe not, I don't know...
But how would you get that back after years in a relationship? What makes it so great after hitting the same damn thing for years?

 

[giigii613]

Ok so I know this is an old thread but I went back and read the whole thing. I want this connection in my life and bedroom with a quality guy.

 

[bklynbornNbred]

I guess I have, maybe not, I don't know...
But how would you get that back after years in a relationship? What makes it so great after hitting the same damn thing for years?

When you have it the flame doesn't leave. It may smolder from time to time but that fire is dangerous if it's not contained. Mess around and end up when you know you shouldn't be.

Cue that Jill Scott song the one about buying new dude cologne that doesn't smell the same as it did on old dude.