Relaxed Hair Thread

Lol right? I'm feel stupid asking but..

Your definitely not. I've never given it thought. I always assumed no lye expired in 24 hours and lye didn't. But I would think the chemicals could weaken over time under the right conditions.

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Your definitely not. I've never given it thought. I always assumed no lye expired in 24 hours and lye didn't. But I would think the chemicals could weaken over time under the right conditions. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
I'm not sure about the time frame but I think the activator in no lye is causes the product to break down over time. Once you mix the two products together you should use it immediately and toss any leftovers.
 
After seeing this pic I want bangs :look:

I think in may I will.
 

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I did them before I just had to flat iron them every day. I only kept them until they grew out so.... 3-5 months?.

I liked that my pony tails looked cute to me cause i had bangs.
 
So now every time I think about about transitioning back to natural, I think about growing my natural hair to WL and have it shrink up to the top of my shoulders :nono:. I think about growing my relaxed hair to WL and actually being able to wake up, go to sleep, shower, go to the movies, go out. . .and still be WL :lachen:. The only thing that's making me so indecisive at this point is not knowing if my scalp issues was a problem I caused from improper relaxing, or if my scalp is just going to freak out every touch up :ohwell:. I'm still giving myself until around my birthday in March to actually decide.

Oh hair pics from this week. I've been loving my braidout more the older it gets :grin:

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So now every time I think about about transitioning back to natural, I think about growing my natural hair to WL and have it shrink up to the top of my shoulders :nono:. I think about growing my relaxed hair to WL and actually being able to wake up, go to sleep, shower, go to the movies, go out. . .and still be WL :lachen:. The only thing that's making me so indecisive at this point is not knowing if my scalp issues was a problem I caused from improper relaxing, or if my scalp is just going to freak out every touch up :ohwell:. I'm still giving myself until around my birthday in March to actually decide. Oh hair pics from this week. I've been loving my braidout more the older it gets :grin:

Which relaxer and base did you use and how long did the scalp problems last. I use to have scalp problems, but the problem was improper basing and using no lye relaxers. Also, not neutralizing properly. That's not the solution for everyone, but for me, because I already know I have a sensitive scalp, it was just taking that knowledge into consideration. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

Eta: you hair is awesomeness in those pics :yep:
 
My natural hair background has been SO helpful as a texlaxed head. I feel like I have the best of both worlds. The best thing is that I can do all the things my shrinkage as a natural wouldn't allow me too such as wng, wet & fabulous buns, and wet sets (flexirods, rollersets, etc)....

Just a random thought.
 
My hair laughs at the Alter Ego Linnange Lye perm. My hair will not straightened. I left this stuff on for 20 minutes each time I permed my hair which was like 4 times.

At least I know my hair likes Lye perms.

Hmmmm........what lye perm to try next?
 
My hair laughs at the Alter Ego Linnange Lye perm. My hair will not straightened. I left this stuff on for 20 minutes each time I permed my hair which was like 4 times.

At least I know my hair likes Lye perms.

Hmmmm........what lye perm to try next?

I've used linange for the last 3 relaxers, never achieving super skrait results, but the last time my hair told me to have several seats. I dont know if it was a bad batch but after leaving on for 30 mins my hair was still looking like 14 weeks post. I will be doing a corrective next week (4 weeks post). Im going to give ors lye a try.

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I'm getting to that point. I've been using ORS lye normal and the last few touchups my hair has not gotten as straight as I wanted, I wonder if they changed the formula? I'm scared to go up to super.

I think I could do better with my technique so I'm going to reevaluate after I finish the tub I have.
 
Which relaxer and base did you use and how long did the scalp problems last. I use to have scalp problems, but the problem was improper basing and using no lye relaxers. Also, not neutralizing properly. That's not the solution for everyone, but for me, because I already know I have a sensitive scalp, it was just taking that knowledge into consideration. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

Eta: you hair is awesomeness in those pics :yep:

Uh, let's just say that I'm thinking my scalp issues were from improper technique :look: LOL!!! I thought no-lye was suppose to be more gentle on the scalp? I don't think I thought enough about my specific hair characteristics when I was researching relaxers. My hair's super kinky and it's still very kinky, and I would rather have more of that gone. If I am doing my first touch up in a month or two, I'll definitely be looking at recommendations from ladies with coarser, kinkier hair like me. And thank you :grin:
 
So now every time I think about about transitioning back to natural, I think about growing my natural hair to WL and have it shrink up to the top of my shoulders :nono:. I think about growing my relaxed hair to WL and actually being able to wake up, go to sleep, shower, go to the movies, go out. . .and still be WL :lachen:. The only thing that's making me so indecisive at this point is not knowing if my scalp issues was a problem I caused from improper relaxing, or if my scalp is just going to freak out every touch up :ohwell:. I'm still giving myself until around my birthday in March to actually decide. Oh hair pics from this week. I've been loving my braidout more the older it gets :grin:

its lovely! i want some more thickness!

i might try braid outs once. its cold here im waiting for it to warm up.

today i Was thinking " should i just transition" because im afraid of my next touch up id like to do myself. thinking if ut scares me... plus its a long stretch im trying. im at 10 weeks post now. i wanna hold on until 16. if i can handle it...

im enjoying how my hair takes less time to do since relaxer.

i want to try getting it long with relaxed hair. then when i want a change i will just go natural again.
 
I've used linange for the last 3 relaxers, never achieving super skrait results, but the last time my hair told me to have several seats. I dont know if it was a bad batch but after leaving on for 30 mins my hair was still looking like 14 weeks post. I will be doing a corrective next week (4 weeks post). Im going to give ors lye a try. Sent from my ASUS Transformer Pad TF300T using LHCF

injust bought ors lye for the first time and will do it somewhere in april.
 
Uh, let's just say that I'm thinking my scalp issues were from improper technique :look: LOL!!! I thought no-lye was suppose to be more gentle on the scalp? I don't think I thought enough about my specific hair characteristics when I was researching relaxers. My hair's super kinky and it's still very kinky, and I would rather have more of that gone. If I am doing my first touch up in a month or two, I'll definitely be looking at recommendations from ladies with coarser, kinkier hair like me. And thank you :grin:

No lye is supposed to gentler but I never met a lye relaxer that was anything but gentle. My theory is because I had to smooth it about 4 times to get it straight so it will eventually bother the scalp after that much smoothing. I have gotten my scalp irritated from the lye, but that's because I use the half and half method and sometimes because I'm so quick I do touch the separation part twice if I'm not careful. It's gets a tad sore, but it's never as bad as when I use no lye.

sunnieb I believe uses no lye and she has great results. She's uses designs essentials and I swear she the only one not complaining about relaxer. I'm sure she can give more insight.

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ckisland, I've used lye and low lye. I think no and low lye is gentler on the scalp but harsher on the hair with dryness (calcium deposits that must be chelated off the hair). Lye is harsher on the scalp but better on the hair (no calcium deposits).
 
its lovely! i want some more thickness!

i might try braid outs once. its cold here im waiting for it to warm up.

today i Was thinking " should i just transition" because im afraid of my next touch up id like to do myself. thinking if ut scares me... plus its a long stretch im trying. im at 10 weeks post now. i wanna hold on until 16. if i can handle it...

im enjoying how my hair takes less time to do since relaxer.

i want to try getting it long with relaxed hair. then when i want a change i will just go natural again.

Awww! Thank you :grin:. I love how think my hair is. I actually don't want that to really go away. I just want it smoother. . .I think :look:. I actually don't know. I might be fine with it overall and just irritated by the weird bushy sections I have. That's what I want to do too. Grow my hair to my goal length while relaxed, and then go back to being natural and grow it out again. But I don't think the shrinkage would get to me as much after living the dream :lol:

No lye is supposed to gentler but I never met a lye relaxer that was anything but gentle. My theory is because I had to smooth it about 4 times to get it straight so it will eventually bother the scalp after that much smoothing. I have gotten my scalp irritated from the lye, but that's because I use the half and half method and sometimes because I'm so quick I do touch the separation part twice if I'm not careful. It's gets a tad sore, but it's never as bad as when I use no lye.

sunnieb I believe uses no lye and she has great results. She's uses designs essentials and I swear she the only one not complaining about relaxer. I'm sure she can give more insight.

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That makes sense :yep:. I didn't understand how much smoothing I actually needed to do. That's why some of my hair is like 3b curly and some of my ends are just puff balls after relaxing twice! The no-lye relaxer I used was really harsh on my hair, but I'm afraid of having scalp issues :sad:. I'm pretty sure that properly basing and applying the relaxer next time will keep my scalp safe.
 
Hey! Yes I use no lye Design Essentials Sensitive Scalp and love it!

I just relaxed last night and my hair is perfect and all newgrowth is straighter than straight! :grin:

But, the ladies are telling you right. No lye relaxers are hard on the hair. I clarify weekly to make sure all residue is gone. It really depends on what your hair/scalp can handle. I don't base my scalp (:blush:), but I never burn. :ohwell: I do slather my hairline and ears with vaseline as a precaution though. :yep:
 
Hey! Yes I use no lye Design Essentials Sensitive Scalp and love it! I just relaxed last night and my hair is perfect and all newgrowth is straighter than straight! :grin: But, the ladies are telling you right. No lye relaxers are hard on the hair. I clarify weekly to make sure all residue is gone. It really depends on what your hair/scalp can handle. I don't base my scalp (:blush:), but I never burn. :ohwell: I do slather my hairline and ears with vaseline as a precaution though. :yep:

ckisland

I wish I could get away with not basing. I need to base. No lye is harder on the hair, but for me, it was hard on my scalp too. That was just my personal experience, but I also had to smooth ALOT before I got straight results.

These days, I use extra coatings of base on my scalp. When I got irritated scalp, I also was hasty with basing if I did at all. Everyone Os different so just find what works for you.

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Saludable84 yep, smoothing is key to getting perfect relaxer resuts.

This is why I pre-part my hair prior to relaxing. I'm able to apply the relaxer to my whole head in 6-8 minutes and spend the rest of the processing time smoothing that newgrowth.
 
Soooo I had my hair relaxed on Thurs at 15 weeks post and received a 'trim'. At this time last year, I was chasing BSL. But around this time last year is when the shedding from hell started. With this new trim I am now just past shoulder length.


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I just got the results if my physical, and while my testosterone is normal my DHT levels are high and that's most likely why I've been having the scalp/hair issues. I've started on supplements that's supposed to block the DHT. Hopefully this will stop the shedding b/c the density of my hair is half of what it used to be and it wasn't that thick to begin with. Sigh.

So I'm looking at this as the restart of my hair journey. Hopefully I can reverse the damage.
 
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