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Ok I’m seeing this guy; we've been kicking it for about 3 months...the first month was at convenience (we ride the same train) month 2 we started hanging out more and talking every day away from our usual train rides. Overall this dude is a hit away from the fact that he's 2yrs younger than me but I really like him and I love that we are taking it slow.
Monday night he got bit by a bug and he text me Tuesday morning to let me know what was going on. I figured this bite had to be pretty serious b/c he was suppose to have an interview Tuesday morning for a promotion.
In his text he said that he was having a terrible allergic reaction and that the Dr. said for him to stay home until his blood results came back. So I asked him if he needed anything and if he did let me know. I've never been over to his place before but I had a root canal a few weeks ago and he brought me soup and tea so I was kinda returning the favor.
His response was that the Dr. had him on antibiotics...he didn't mention my offer so hey no big deal.
Fast forward to last night he sent me a text saying he was in the ER for the second time and they had to give him a shot. I was sleep when I got the message so I couldn't respond till this morning but I really didn't know what to say.
So I was talking to some friends and they were telling me that I'm not doing enough and that I should offer to go by and see him.... I'm so not comfortable with that and it seems a bit pushy to me considering we don't have an established title (no we've never been intimate) we're dating and we're like new friends. I feel as tho' asking to go and see him is out of turn and then I don't want him to have to get up and clean up etc. for my visit.
So I pitched all this to my brother and he was like hmm, yall talk everyday, he's taken you out, he's texting you from the ER yea he might want u to step it up. But I'm thinking how, I feel like I've done enough...I check on him everyday to see if he's ok...
Monday night he got bit by a bug and he text me Tuesday morning to let me know what was going on. I figured this bite had to be pretty serious b/c he was suppose to have an interview Tuesday morning for a promotion.
In his text he said that he was having a terrible allergic reaction and that the Dr. said for him to stay home until his blood results came back. So I asked him if he needed anything and if he did let me know. I've never been over to his place before but I had a root canal a few weeks ago and he brought me soup and tea so I was kinda returning the favor.
His response was that the Dr. had him on antibiotics...he didn't mention my offer so hey no big deal.
Fast forward to last night he sent me a text saying he was in the ER for the second time and they had to give him a shot. I was sleep when I got the message so I couldn't respond till this morning but I really didn't know what to say.
So I was talking to some friends and they were telling me that I'm not doing enough and that I should offer to go by and see him.... I'm so not comfortable with that and it seems a bit pushy to me considering we don't have an established title (no we've never been intimate) we're dating and we're like new friends. I feel as tho' asking to go and see him is out of turn and then I don't want him to have to get up and clean up etc. for my visit.
So I pitched all this to my brother and he was like hmm, yall talk everyday, he's taken you out, he's texting you from the ER yea he might want u to step it up. But I'm thinking how, I feel like I've done enough...I check on him everyday to see if he's ok...